When you are in a downturn, hide alone and don’t try to find relatives or friends to talk or complain. You may want to get sympathy, care, and help; but what you get will most likely be indifference and indifference. To alienate and avoid, you must listen to the ancient saying: If you are poor, you should be alone. Don't seek medical treatment in a hurry, blindly toss, want to get rich overnight, and get rid of the current situation. If adversity is so easy to get rid of, it is not adversity. You should calm down and see what you can do. What to do, choose a direction and industry, and then start doing it.
Get rid of bad habits. Most adversities are caused by bad habits, such as gambling, addiction to online games, addiction to electronic products, and laziness. If these bad habits are not corrected, even if you are lucky enough to get rid of them, There will be another time of adversity.
Find the right direction. After quitting bad habits, do your job seriously, mind your own business, express yourself less, keep a low profile and don’t show off. Why is this? Because you are trying to move up at this time, you are very fragile, and your self-protection ability is very poor. Any external interference or blow may make you fall down again.
Be sure to focus and put all your energy and time into what you are doing. Don’t pretend to work hard or be impatient, because if you want to achieve success in an industry, you must invest in other people. Ten times the effort.
The last thing I want to say is, no matter what you have experienced, never despair of life, and always have a kind heart. Life is inherently full of ups and downs, and it is often a good thing to suffer a little. Bless you and me.
Life is full of ups and downs, with highs and lows.
At low times, some people always feel sorry for themselves and feel depressed.
The result is that a lot of energy is spent, leaving little room to solve the problem.
And some people, no matter how bad the current situation is, can accept it calmly and focus on overcoming the difficulties, finally dispelling the haze.
Mr. Little, the president of Colgate, is the latter.
Back then, when he was still a soap salesman in the company, he also had a very depressed time.
At that time, he worked very hard to sell soap everywhere, but only a few people bought his soap.
Seeing that if his performance does not meet the standards, he will be fired by the company and lose his financial resources.
But he did not recover from this. Instead, he began to find the reason why he could not sell soap.
After some research, he concluded that the problem was not with the product and price, but with his own speaking skills.
So, he began to study his words repeatedly.
Every time after a failed sales pitch, he would think about where he was unconvincing and where he could have said it better.
Not only that, he will also ask customers why they don’t buy and make improvements.
Sure enough, Huangtian paid off. After a while, more and more customers bought his soap, and he became the best-performing salesperson in the company.
In this way, he not only successfully got out of the downturn and kept his job, but was also appointed as the president of Colgate.
There is a term in psychology called "Carrel's Universal Formula".
It means that when you accept the worst-case scenario, you can focus on solving the problem.
Those powerful people know this well.
It’s not like they haven’t fallen into a downturn in life.
Rather, they know that escaping is useless, complaining is even more fruitless, and problems will not disappear out of thin air.
If you just whine and complain, you will only miss the opportunity.
In this world, there are always more solutions than difficulties.
Dare to face reality, abandon distracting thoughts, always focus on solving problems, find the right opportunity, and take advantage of the situation.
No matter how hard the stone is, it will one day be penetrated by water; no matter how difficult the problem is, there will be a day when it can be easily solved.