In my opinion, parents need not worry about their children's future. Instead, they should focus on children's education. Only when children have their own skills can they gain a foothold in a rapidly changing society. In the eyes of grandparents, everyone has his destiny takes a hand's blessing, which is exactly what the saying "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren" should be.
In fact, this sentence comes from augmented literature, and there are many famous aphorisms related to all aspects of life, in order to alert the world and let future generations take fewer detours. "Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren" wants to tell parents that they should not care too much about their children's future.
Because in fact, for the future, no one can say for sure, there are too many variables, just like your life has not come to an end, you are not qualified to say forever. It is every parent's wish to give their children a better life and a better future, but how to go in the future depends on their own wishes.
If a child follows the path arranged by his parents all his life, then his life is no different from that of a puppet. Because they have no chance to express their ideas and make their own choices. Is this what parents want to see? I think not.
The author believes that the most important thing for parents to contribute to their children's future is to cultivate their children's ability to cope with setbacks, so that no matter what kind of suffering they encounter in the future, they have the ability to solve it themselves. From then on, life will be smoother. Some parents want to shelter their children from the wind and rain all their lives. In fact, this is not realistic, because one day you will die before your children. At this time, what should they do? You still have to face what you should face.
This sentence has the second half, but the second half is not as hot as the first half. However, the second half of the sentence is very reasonable, and it is also advice for some parents. This sentence is "don't be the horse of children and grandchildren", that is, don't be the horse of children and grandchildren.
In fact, the current situation in China is that after parents raise their children, they have children again, and many people will choose to help them with their children. To put it simply, I worry about my children in the first half of my life and my grandchildren in the second half. A person's life is only a few decades. Why can't I leave more time for myself?
Therefore, our ancestors told us not to be cattle and horses for our children and grandchildren, and there are many neets now. They are all older young people, but they don't have a decent job. They live on their parents' salaries and do nothing all day. Such children are actually very tired to raise, and elderly parents always have to worry about their children's future life and marriage. If the family has money, it's easy to say. If not, parents can only complain.
Therefore, I think this sentence is good for both children and parents. As parents, it takes longer to educate their children, and sometimes it is not the best choice to do everything.