(-)Friendship is valuable

Everyone has friends whether in life or online. What are friends? Friends are people who have friendship with each other and are good friends with each other. Friendship is the purest, noblest, simplest and most ordinary emotion. It is also the most romantic, touching, solid and eternal emotion. No one can live without friendship.

You can live without love, but you can never live without friendship; once there is no friendship, life will not have pleasant harmony, but will become a pool of stagnant water; friendship is everywhere, it accompanies you and lingers around you. By your side, spend a lifetime with you.

In the vast world, where the dust is rolling, among all the living beings and the vast sea of ??people, it is really fate that friends can meet each other, come together, know each other, understand each other, and get closer to each other. In the journey of life where people come and go, gather and separate, on different life trajectories, and in the sea of ????minds with different experiences, it can be said to be a kind of luck to be able to meet, gather, and reunite with each other. Fate does not happen all the time. Yes, we should cherish the hard-won fate.

Getting along with friends is a process of mutual recognition, mutual admiration, mutual appreciation, and mutual perception. The advantages, strengths, highlights, and beauty of the other person will all be reflected in your mind and you can see them all. Even a little bit of preciousness in your friends will become your upward energy and the motivation and source of lifelong benefits. A friend’s wisdom, knowledge, ability, and passion are the magnetism and power that attracts you to them. At the same time, everything about you is also the process of friends getting to know and perceive you.

Friends are a kind of spiritual connection between each other, a tacit understanding. Your every gesture, every frown, every word and every deed, even a look, an action, a back view, or a look back, will be understood by your friends without any need for each other's explanation, no need to talk too much, no need to talk nonsense, no need to show off. Heart to heart. It is the most gentle, comfortable, joyful and beautiful artistic conception.

Friends are the people who support, support, accompany and assist each other on the long journey of life. She is the lingering words or yells you send when you are depressed, the joyful songs and laughter or affection when you are lonely, the intoxicating or dripping joy when you are happy, and the cold water of goodwill when you are proud. Feel the deep affection of friends in talking and listening, and constantly shake hands and express gratitude in communication and contact.

The ancient so-called "cutting off the neck" is too high and beyond the reach of most people. Such as Damon and Pythias, David and Jonathan, I'm afraid they are just beautiful stories in legends. Even if the standards of friendship are lowered, it is still very rare to be truly worthy of being called a friend. Just think about it, if you have money to handle, how many friends can you trust? How many friends are there who are willing to visit you or even offer help in times of need when you are frustrated or suffering from illness? How many people are there who are willing to take care of your weak wife and daughter-in-law without taking too much care of them when you are away from home? Taking a step back, how many people are there who have always reciprocated a favor, never go against their will, and can maintain their position for a long time without falling? If there is no special stake in the relationship between the two, it may be difficult for them to become strangers after a few years. Franklin said: "There are three most loyal and reliable friends - an old wife, an old dog, and cash." The wonderful thing is that these three friends are not friends. Aristotle's words are the most straightforward: "My friends! There are no friends in the world." This sentence is almost cynical. In fact, there are friends in the world, but although there is no need to search for them with a lantern, But it is like digging for gold in the sand and it takes a long time to refine. Once a friendship is truly forged, it will be as strong as stone and will never turn back.

In general, birds of a feather flock together and people divide into groups. Only when the smells are the same can we always think they are good. When making friends, one should also pay attention to being from the same family. Even if it is not as strict as that of the Ninth Grade Zhongzheng, there will naturally be boundaries. "The classmates are young and not cheap, but Wuling Qiu Ma is arrogant." Besides "arrogantly arrogant", can you still look at the old travels in the past without moving your eyes to the eyebrows? Han Guangwu allowed Yan Ziling to press his thigh on his belly, which was certainly magnanimous, but Yan Ziling's resolute retreat to Fuchun Mountain was particularly interesting. Zhu Hongwu wrote to one of his friends: "When Zhu Yuanzhang became emperor, Zhu Yuanzhang is still Zhu Yuanzhang..." Although he said it beautifully, it is unavoidable to make people feel heart-broken when he looks at how he later killed the heroes. People's physical and mental structures are originally the same, but they may undergo mutations once they enter officialdom. Confucius said, "One who has no friends is not as good as oneself." I think firstly it only refers to moral character and academics, and secondly it just means not to associate with people who are worse than yourself. It does not say that we must strive to reach higher levels.

Friendship requires two people. If both parties want to make friends better than themselves, they will never be able to make friends.

It seems that Wilde said, "There can be no friendship between a man and a woman." Generally speaking, this is true, because if there is a deep friendship, then the friendship It's easy to deteriorate. If it's not a heart-to-heart relationship, it's not really a friendship. It is difficult to grasp the line between too much and too little. It is possible to have a relationship with someone who has never forgotten the year. Miheng was not yet 20 years old, and Kong Rong was already fifty, so they made friends. There are endless examples of this in history. But it seems to be limited to people of the same sex. And as far as I know, the formation of long-term friendship inherently depends on the similarity of interests and mutual appreciation, but the older person needs to maintain a little childlike innocence, and the younger person needs to be more mature. If you are old-fashioned, you will be intimidated by others, and if you are frivolous, you will be shunned. It is easy for a single person to make friends, because he has nothing to put his emotions on, and he most needs someone to devote his feelings to when he is wandering. However, when he has a child waiting for him, his mood will be different.

“The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water.” Because it is light, it is not greasy and can last long. "When you make friends, you should respect them over time." Respect means keeping a distance, which means preventing excessive intimacy. However, it is difficult to "respect each other". The most important thing to note is that friendship should not be overdrawn, but should always be preserved. Marktwain said: "The nature of sacred friendship is so sweet, stable, faithful, and lasting. It can last forever, if you don't ask to borrow money from you." This is really an exaggeration. Friends have a common friendship, but this is such a delicate thing! The most unlucky thing in the world is borrowed money, and the most unlucky thing for most people is paying it back. When money is involved, it is difficult to settle grievances clearly. How many growing friendships have been harmed by this stupid thing!

Advising is something that should be done among friends, but it is not easy. In Vanity Fair, there is so much collusion that it is difficult for oneself to distinguish right from wrong, so how can one have the energy to persuade others? On the other hand, good medicine but bitter words of advice are offensive to the ears. Who wants others to criticize his unfaithfulness? Admonishment should not be given in front of a third party to avoid hurting his face, and should not be given when he is emotionally disturbed to avoid his wrath. Confucius said: "Advice is a good way, and if it doesn't work, stop it." I always think that admonishing people to do good and discipline them is a negative effect of friendship. The joy of friendship is positive. Only gods and beasts like to be alone. People want friends. "If a person ascends to the sky alone and sees the grand view of the universe and the beauty of the stars, he will not feel happy. He must find someone to tell him the wonders he has seen before he can be happy." Enjoy happiness, than* **Suffering from adversity should be a more normal part of friendship.

(2) Motto ____Friendship is a kind of gentle and calm love, guided by reason, formed by habits, arising from long-term understanding and mutual agreement, without Jealousy, and no fear.

——Holland

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.

——Kahlil Gibran

True friendship is like phosphorus—it shines brightest in the darkest moments around you.

——D.M.

True friendship is a plant that grows slowly.

——Washington

Friendship produces happiness, and civilization brings harmony.

——Hugo

Good friends are like different bodies but one heart.

——Aristotle

The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with upright minds and hearts.

——Einstein

You may forget the person who laughed with you; but you will never forget the person who cried with you.

——Kahlil Gibran

He who has neither friends nor enemies is just an ordinary person.

——Rafat

Treat everyone equally, be confidant to a few, and do not be indebted to anyone.

——Shakespeare

Among all kinds of loneliness, people are most afraid of spiritual loneliness.

——Balzac

Where one person may perish alone, two people together may be saved.

——Balzac

Don’t worry, there will be no friends in the future. No one in the world will know you! Gao Shi

For an immature teenager, bad friends play a much greater role than good teachers.

Aesop

Two people talk and one person listens. However, the three people could not talk to each other about this most serious matter in the world that should be studied deeply. Emerson

It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend.

Mrs. Dilge

Friendship was like a bright light in my past life, illuminating my soul and giving my life a little brilliance.

Ba Jin

It is enough to know him once in life, and the world should treat him with sympathy.

Lu Xun

True love can inspire people and awaken the sleeping strength and hidden talents in his heart.

Boccaccio

Except for a true friend, no medicine can heal the heart.

Bacon

When it comes to things like fame, honor, happiness, and wealth, if compared with friendship, they are all dust...

Darwin

The charm that love bestows on all things should not be a temporary phenomenon in life. This gorgeous light of life should not only shine on the period of exploration and longing. This period should actually only be equivalent to the dawn of a day. Although the dawn is lovely and beautiful, in the daytime that follows, the light and heat are much greater than at dawn.

Chernyshevsky

Love should enrich people's sense of strength, and love does enrich people.

Makarenko

The most beautiful thing in the world is to have a few serious friends with upright minds and hearts...

Ai Yin Stan

Friendship is really the most sacred thing, not only worthy of special admiration, but worthy of eternal praise. It is the wisest mother of generosity and honour, the sister of gratitude and kindness, the sworn enemy of hatred and greed; it is ever ready to sacrifice itself for others, and does so entirely of its own free will, without the need of entreaty.

Boccaccio

Whether it is sentimental poems, beautiful articles, or leisure joy, nothing can replace an extremely close friendship.

Pushkin

Many people who appear to be friends are not, and many who are friends do not appear to be friends.

Democritus

The so-called friendship, first of all, is sincerity and criticizing the mistakes of comrades.

Ostrovsky

Friendship! How many people in the world, when they say this word, mean pleasant conversations over tea and drinks and tolerance of each other's weaknesses! But what does this have to do with friendship?

Fadeyev

A true friend should tell the truth, no matter how sharp it is...

Ostrovsky

Sincerity seems to be a healthy friendship. You only know how valuable it is when you lose it.

Corton

True friends do not talk about friendship. They do not ask each other for anything for the sake of friendship, but do everything they can for each other.

Belinsky

Words of kindness and promises of kindness are easy to say. Only in times of trouble can you see the sincerity of your friends.

Krylov

It is a flesh-and-blood connection, but an emotional and spiritual connection that gives one person the right to assist another person.

Tchaikovsky

He who does not share happiness with others will not be a loyal friend in disaster.

Aesop's Fables

We will never know who we are dealing with; even to know our friends, we have to wait for the important moment, that is to say, we have to wait There can be no more junctures; for only at this juncture will knowing friends become the most important thing. Rousseau

It is not good to pretend, but it is not good to be honest everywhere. It depends on the time. When talking to friends, you don’t need to pay attention, but when facing the enemy, you must always be on guard. When we are with friends, we can take off our clothes, but we must wear armor when going into battle.

Lu Xun

Young men and women should maintain a sincere relationship, that is to say, there must be such a relationship: neither exaggerate nor underestimate anything.

If you don't deceive each other, if you respect yourself and others, then no matter what kind of relationship you maintain - friendship, love, etc. - it will be a healthy relationship.

Makarenko

What does it mean to love someone? It means rejoicing in his happiness, doing whatever is needed to make him happier, and taking pleasure in doing so.

Chernyshevsky

It is always a beautiful thing to be attached to a lover for the sake of morality.

Plato

Love gives people wisdom, and it is often supported by wisdom.

Paisgel

In this special gift that only two people share, there is a particularly sweet love for each other that cannot be expressed in words.

Herzen

Life is a flower, and love is the nectar of the flower.

Hugo

Love between the sexes is the most important part of life. His freedom, sanctity, and sublimity should be maintained, and he should not be forced, insulted, slandered, or suppressed, causing him to lose his beautiful value in human society.

Li Dazhao

Love penetrates into their lives as a great factor, but it does not swallow up other factors. They do not abandon the general interests of civil spirit, art, and science because of love; on the contrary, they also bring all the inspiration of love and all the flames of love to these aspects, and in turn, the vastness and grandeur of these worlds also Penetrated into love.

Herzen

Love is not sweet words in the shade of flowers, sweet talk in the peach blossom garden, gentle tears, nor stubborn compulsion. Love is based on * **Based on the same language.

Shakespeare

Loyal love fills my heart, and I cannot estimate the wealth I enjoy.

Shakespeare

The reason why we love someone is because we think that person has qualities that we respect.

Rousseau

Only the kind of love that drives people to love each other in a noble way is beautiful and worthy of praise.

Plato

True love drives away crazy or nearly lustful things.

Plato

The same opinions and feelings can bring two people together more than contact. In this way, two people are very close even though they are far apart.

Tchaikovsky

People do not live just for love; is the whole goal of a man to control a certain woman, and the whole goal of a woman is to influence a certain woman? A man? Never!

Herzen

We should not tarnish a friendship by maintaining it at any cost. If friendship must be sacrificed for the greater love, there is no way around it; but if it can be maintained, then it can truly reach perfection.

Tagore

Mountains and rivers are not important, but meeting a close friend is important. Bao Rong

Many people who look like friends are not actually friends, and many people who are friends do not look like friends. Democritus

Compromise is not a solid foundation for any friendship. Rabindranath Tagore

What adds luster to the courtyard are the friends who come as guests. Emerson

A father is a source of wealth, a brother is a comfort, and a friend is both a source of wealth and a comfort. Franklin

Making friends in good times is easy; finding friendship in bad times is even harder. Epictetus

Friendship is as valuable to the human heart as alchemy often says their gems are to the human body. Bacon

The best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk too much, can talk to you silently and is closely connected with you. Gorky

Friendship! You are the mysterious glue of the soul; you are the sweetener of life and the social connector! Robert Blair

A gentleman is ignorant of himself, but trusts in his close friends. Sima Qian

Beyond the concept of disinterest, mutual respect seems to be another key point of friendship. Moroa

Associating with non-sages will inevitably lead to love and hatred. Meng Jiao

If good people are together, they will hear good advice every day; if evil people are around, they will have evil feelings every day.

Fan Ye

Be careful when choosing friends! The pure selfishness will put on the mask of friendship, but also set up traps to trap you. "Krylov's Fable"