I was an older woman. I should see the man's family conditions clearly, but there is no need to pay too much attention to this issue. Marriage requires two people to work together, and you can't enjoy happiness at home as soon as you get married. How can a man with this idea marry you?
The second point: the bride price is too high. In fact, many women have not seen the reality clearly, and always feel that this society is the ratio of more men to fewer women. So you will feel that your appearance is passable, or you can describe it as beautiful, and you will pay a high price. To put it bluntly, a woman needs a high-priced bride price to get married, which is actually similar to doing business.
It's good. For example, if you are a woman in her thirties and you want hundreds of thousands of bride price, there is no room for bargaining. But I don't know if a woman who wants a high price bride price has ever thought about it. If a man can get hundreds of thousands of bride price, why should he marry an older woman? He might as well use the money to marry a beautiful young woman.
After all, it is not a good thing for women to take the bride price too seriously when they get married. Marriage is your life. You asked for a sky-high bride price, but have you ever thought that after you get married, you live with him, and it's not just you two who need to live a hard life. Why do you have to live too hard in the future for the sake of temporary face?
Women can get married with a bride price, but this bride price should be subject to the family conditions of the man. If the other person's family is average, and you can't get the hundreds of thousands of bride price you want, then lend money to marry you. Then I want you to pay back the money with him after marriage. What's the point of such a marriage?
The third point: too picky, high or low. Women can criticize men in their twenties, but only women can criticize men after 30. This sentence is a bit ugly, but it is true that women's physical condition will have various problems with age, which is completely incomparable with young women.
The neighbor's daughter is 35 years old this year, and her parents are very anxious about her marriage. I also arranged a lot of blind dates for her, but she has 15 before 20 blind dates, which is only a short month. She is also very picky about these blind dates, and always feels that others are not worthy of her.
She wants to find a rich man, but a woman of her age is totally disdainful. In other people's words, I am rich myself. Why don't I marry a beautiful young woman instead of a woman in her thirties? Whether there is fertility is still an unknown problem. Although this man said there were some men, others also had their own considerations.
And those families with ordinary family conditions, she basically despises others. In short, she has been dating many times. She values the rich, but people despise her. She despises men with ordinary conditions, but people have a crush on her, and she doesn't want to accept such men. So her marriage has been dragging on like this, without meeting the right man.