A university admission notice entrusted Guijun to an ordinary college in this province. The day I received the notification, my heart suddenly felt relieved: I have a baby boy who has just grown up. You are an adult.

Thank you, Guijun, thank you for being my son. Eighteen years of companionship, eighteen years of family affection, eighteen years of joy and sorrow, thank you for giving me so much. Because of you, my life becomes complete.

There was once a poem called "Choosing Mom" ??that became popular on the Internet and touched the tear ducts of countless people.

You asked me what I was doing before I was born/I answered, I picked a mother in the sky/I saw you and thought you were very good/I wanted to be your son/But I thought I might not have that luck/I didn’t expect that /The next morning/I was already in your belly.

Guijun, you chose me to be your mother, which in itself is a grand grace. Thank you for being my son.

In eighteen years, you have grown from an ignorant child to a mature young man, and I am overjoyed. You have been in college for more than three months, and I miss you very much. In the dead of night, when I couldn't sleep, I thought of many things about your growth.

That year you went to nursery school. In order to let you know that the taste of life is not only sweet, sour, bitter, salty, but also spicy, I deliberately gave you a piece of garlic moss during dinner and asked you to eat it. If you didn't dare, I said: "You must eat it!" You I bit off a small piece, swallowed it without chewing, and said to me with a sad face: Mom, if I go to college and the teacher gives me a pepper, but I dare not eat it, what should I do? I laughed so hard that I burst into tears. flowed out. Now that you are in college, you are no longer afraid of spicy food if you dare to eat it. You have long understood your mother's painstaking efforts, and you have to taste everything in life.

That year you went to primary school. Your dad and I have conflicts because of our different values ??and outlook on life, and we often quarrel. One day it was your birthday, and I bought you a birthday cake. When the eight birthday candles were lit, you closed your eyes, clasped your hands, and made a wish devoutly. Afterwards you said to me: "Mom, I made a wish, can you tell me?" I said: "Say it, son." ?You said:?I want to get a hundred points in every exam to make my parents happy. ?At that moment, my heart hurt so much. I want the bright sunshine to illuminate every corner of your heart and let you enjoy the scenery and sing along the way.

That year you went to junior high school. One day you suddenly said to me: Mom, you and Lin Chiling are the same age. Look, you are older. ?I said: ?Lin Chiling has no children, I have children, and I am tired of worrying about you. ?You nodded seriously and said to me seriously: ?Mom, I must study hard and get into No. 1 Middle School. ?After the high school entrance examination results came out, you were among the first batch to be admitted to No. 1 Middle School. Your mother's classmate and a famous teacher from No. 1 Middle School, your Aunt Niu sent you some high school preview materials and said to you: "Gentlemen are getting more and more handsome." ?You said: ?Aunt Niu, what’s the use of being handsome? Studying well is the last word. ?At that moment, my heart was calm. You know what to do at any age and spend every day seriously. Just work hard and the harvest will come unexpectedly to you.

This year, you take the college entrance examination. During those two days, I specially asked for leave and cooked for you at home. If you don't let me take you to the examination room, go there by yourself on an electric bike. I followed secretly behind you. You were riding very fast and I couldn't catch you. Looking at your back, my tears fell quietly. I know that from now on, you will be farther and farther away from me. The score line for the college entrance examination fell. Because I applied for a major, I had a conflict with you. If you insist on applying for accounting, I suggest you apply for normal English, because English is your strong point. I just hope that you will not be tired from studying in college. You can't help your mother, if you insist on your opinion, I can only respect your choice. If you get what you want, I can only send you my blessings. You decide your future.

The famous educator Wang Jinzhan once said: Every child has his own flowering period. Some children bloom early and some bloom late. Some children may never bloom in their lifetime, but they will be a towering tree. ?I also know that in the morning, I am the farmhouse man, and in the evening, I ascend to the emperor's hall. Generals have no seeds at all, and men should strive for self-improvement. But no matter how you develop in the future, I have no desire. I just hope that you will be a responsible, healthy, happy and kind ordinary person. A lifetime of peace and security, without worries about food and clothing, is also an ideal state of life. You once said to me: Mom, I understand what you want. ?As long as you understand, this life is enough.

My family has a grown-up son, and I think this is a great thing in the first half of my life.

Author of this article: Wang Jinling (public account: Beijing Wenxin composition)

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