1. Famous sayings about neither being humble nor being arrogant
Don’t flatter those who are superior to others, and do not be disrespectful to those who are subordinate to others.
"Book of Changes·Xici Xia". Flattery: to flatter and please. Dudu (dúdu): to insult. The general meaning of these two sentences is: when making friends with people of high status, do not flatter people; when making friends with people of low status, do not look down upon them. Due to the long-term influence of the traditional psychological stereotype that only values ??identity, power and status, there exists in ancient and modern societies a kind of two-faced person who is servile and flattering in front of the powerful, but arrogant and bossy in front of the common people. This is a person whose emotions and rationality have been distorted. The "Book of Changes" put forward the principle of ~, which is in sharp contrast to the kind of distorted people. This famous sentence is a useful inspiration for establishing a sense of equality in today's interpersonal communication and adopting an attitude of neither being humble nor being arrogant.
"Book of Changes" "Book of Changes·Xici"
Chalk looked at his clean body and asked reservedly to the blackboard: "You are so black, why are you with me? Are you ashamed?" Blackboard replied in an unassuming tone: "Please don't forget; beauty is created by us together." 2. Poems about acknowledging mistakes
1. Meet again in the depths of Qulan. , Soothing tears and making people tremble. After a desolate farewell, the two echoed each other, the most unbearable resentment in the bright moonlight. I have slept alone for half my life, and the mountain pillow is stained with sandalwood. What is the most fascinating thing in my memory? The first trick is to draw a skirt. ——Qing Nalanxingde's "Poppy Beauty"
Translation: I remember that time I saw you deep in the winding railing. You wiped away your tears and nestled in my arms tremblingly. After separation, you and I each endure the same desolation. Every time the moon is full, we feel doubly sad because we cannot be reunited.
We have been separated for a long time and endured the pain of sleeping alone. I know that your pillow is always stained with tears. I recall the moment when you touched my heart the most. At that time, you were wearing a skirt embroidered with flower branches, which was exceptionally beautiful.
2. The young woman in the boudoir is never worried, and she goes up to the green building with her makeup in the spring. Suddenly I saw the color of willows on the street, and I regretted teaching my husband to look for a title. ——Wang Changling of the Tang Dynasty, "Bouise Grudge"
Translation: The young woman in the boudoir has never had the sorrow of lovesickness and separation. On the bright spring day, she dressed up carefully and climbed up to the high building. Suddenly I saw the spring colors of willows on the roadside, and melancholy came to my heart. She regretted that she should not have allowed her husband to join the army and become a marquis for his meritorious service.
3. Once upon a time, everything was difficult to overcome, except Wushan. I look back lazily at the flowers, half destined to practice Taoism and half destined to be a king. ——Tang Yuanzhen's "Lisi"
Translation: Once I have experienced the vast sea, I feel that the water elsewhere pales in comparison; once I have experienced the clouds in Wushan, I feel that the clouds elsewhere pale in comparison. Even though I am among thousands of flowers, I am too lazy to look back. This may be because of my spiritual practice, or maybe it is because of you.
4. Hundreds of flowers usually bloom together, but pear blossoms and white flowers are mostly picked. Today there are two or three trees at the head of the river, pitifully spending their last spring with their leaves.
Translation: At that time, hundreds of flowers were blooming, but I just picked a white pear flower and gave it to you, a woman with skin as white as jade. Now I stand quietly by the river like those two or three trees. Unfortunately, only one tree has green leaves to spend the last spring with me.
5. Everything will go wrong if you go through the Chang Gate again. Why do you come back differently when you come together? After the parasol trees were half dead and the frost cleared, the white-headed mandarin ducks flew away without their companions. The grass on the original ground is showing the first light of day, and the old habitat is nestled in the new ridge. Lying on an empty bed listening to the rain outside the south window, who will stay up late at night to mend clothes? ——"Partridge Sky" Northern Song Dynasty He Zhu
Translation: When I came to Suzhou again, I felt that everything was wrong. Why can’t my wife, who came with me, return with me? I am like a parasol tree that has been beaten by frost, half alive and half dead; I am also like a white-headed mandarin duck that has lost its companion, flying alone and tired.
In the wilderness, the dewdrops on the green grass have just been dried. I lingered in the old room where I lived together, and in the new grave on the ridge. Lying on the empty bed, listening to the miserable wind and rain outside the window, it added a lot of sadness. Who else will stay up late at night to mend my clothes again?
6. The cold wind blows on your temples at night, and it’s hard to endure the songs of mourning and separation! Worry is even more worrying when it comes to complaining about others, don’t ask to look back and apologize. ——Modern Anonymous "Poem of Apology"
Translation: After leaving my sweetheart, I felt very melancholy and made my sweetheart worried. How can you admit your mistake to me? 3. Poems praising neither humbleness nor arrogance, but tenacity
Tenacious Verses Part 1
"Poems about Tenacity of Vitality"
Poems about Tenacity of Vitality
"Farewell to the Ancient Grassland" by Bai Juyi of the Tang Dynasty
When the grass grows in the original field, it will wither and flourish every year. Wildfires never burn out, but spring breezes blow them again.
"Quatrains on Passing the Huaqing Palace" by Du Mu in the late Tang Dynasty
Looking back at Chang'an, there are piles of embroidery, and thousands of doors are opened on the top of the mountain. Riding on the red dust concubine smiled, no one knew it was lychee.
The green trees of Xinfeng are covered with yellow mosaics, and several emissaries riding on the fishing sun are returning. The song of neon clothes is on thousands of peaks, and the original dance is broken.
The music and songs of all nations are intoxicating and peaceful, and the moon in the sky tower is clear. Lushan dance is shot randomly in the clouds, and laughter is heard under the heavy mountains as the wind blows.
(Autumn is no longer what is often described in the poet's writings. It is not bleak and gray, but upright and full of vitality. The poet praises the autumn colors by describing an autumn landscape. The beauty of it.)
"Mountain Journey" Du Mu
Far up the cold mountain, the stone path is sloping, and there are people living deep in the white clouds.
Stop and sit in the maple forest at night, the leaves are as red as the flowers in February due to frost.
(Autumn also has the same vitality as spring, making the autumn mountains and forests present a warm and vibrant scene.) "Little Pond" Yang Wanli
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The spring is silent and cherishes the trickle, and the shade of the tree shines on the water, which is clear and soft. The little lotus has just revealed its sharp corners, and a dragonfly has already stood on it.
(Vividly and meticulously depicts the new scene full of life and dynamics in the small pond in early summer.)
"The cicadas sing in the cold, and the chrysanthemums shine in the autumn flowers" (Pan Yue's "He Yang" "Two poems written by the county") 4. What are the poems describing apology
1. This feeling can be remembered later, but it was already at a loss at the time. ——"Jin Se" by Li Shangyin of the Tang Dynasty
Translation: Those beautiful things and times can only remain in memories. At that time, those people thought those things were just normal, but they didn't know how to cherish them.
2. The young woman in the boudoir is never worried, and she goes up to the green building with her makeup in the spring. Suddenly I saw the color of willows on the street, and I regretted teaching my husband to look for a title. ——Wang Changling of the Tang Dynasty, "Bouise Grudge"
Translation: The young woman in the boudoir has never felt the sorrow of missing each other. On the bright spring day, she dressed up carefully and climbed up to the high building. Suddenly I saw the spring colors of willows on the roadside, and melancholy came to my heart. She regretted that she should not have allowed her husband to join the army and become a marquis for his meritorious service.
3. It is a pity that the remaining words will be spoken. Every time the hatred is not shallow, your heart will not pursue it. If you think of the good times, your soul will die. ——Modern Anonymous "I'm Sorry"
Translation: It's a pity that the original words have been spoken, and I feel a lot of regret every time I think about it. But I can't get your heart back. I miss the good time when we can meet again in my heart, and I burst into tears.
4. Once upon a time, everything was difficult to overcome, except for Wushan, it was not a cloud. I look back lazily at the flowers, half destined to practice Taoism and half destined to be a king. ——Tang Yuanzhen's "Lisi"
Translation: Once I have experienced the vast sea, I feel that the water elsewhere pales in comparison; once I have experienced the clouds in Wushan, I feel that the clouds elsewhere pale in comparison. Even though I am among thousands of flowers, I am too lazy to look back. This may be because of my spiritual practice, or maybe it is because of you.
5. I know that my heart is like the sun and the moon, and my husband’s vows are as important as life and death. Huanjun Mingzhu sheds tears, wishing she could not meet again when she was not married. ——Zhang Ji of the Tang Dynasty, "The Song of a Chaste Woman, A Letter to Master Li Sikong in Dongping"
Translation: Although I know that you are sincere and open-minded, I have vowed to fight with my husband through life and death. Returning your twin pearls brings tears to my eyes, regretting that I did not meet you before I was married.
5. What are the idioms and verses that describe being low-key and restrained but not forgetting one's roots?
"Copied" Drinking water and thinking about the source, keeping aloof from the world and being indifferent to fame and fortune
Idioms describing being low-key and restrained:
< p> Don't show off your talents, don't show off your edge, have great wisdom, if you are stupid, if you are skillful, if you are clumsy, be humble and open-mindedDon't be shy, don't be aggressive, don't be humble, don't be arrogant, be wary of arrogance, be wary of being arrogant, be arrogant, be impetuous, be successful, and be successful
Being modest will benefit you. Modesty, loss, humility, prudentness, not arrogance, no humility, no bowing, no worship
Full of losses, modesty benefits
I recommend a poem by Rand to describe low-key and restrained poetry:
I disdain competing with others
I love nature, followed by art
I warm my hands on the fire of life,
Fire is necessary It's out, I have to leave too
There are many poems describing "not forgetting the original", here are a few recommended:
Ask the canal how clear it is, so that there is a source of living water
The descendants of Yan and Huang will not forget their roots, and the peace on both sides of the Taiwan Strait will lead to one family
Don’t forget the man who dug the well when drinking water
The kindness of a drop of water should be repaid by a spring