There is no need to care too much about other people’s opinions. For those who talk about you behind your back, you must prove yourself with your strength. Pointing it out to your face will make others think you are guilty, so we should laugh it off and be ourselves. As for what they say, let them do it.

First of all, being criticized also shows one's ability in another way, because most people will not talk about people who are worse than themselves. Only when they feel that they are inferior to the other person in some aspect, they may talk behind the other person's back; My cousin has a very good attitude. She and I work in the same company, and we haven’t revealed our relationship to others. In addition, there is an age difference between us, so we don’t often go to and from get off work together. .

And she is a person with outstanding abilities. The leader values ????her very highly and intends to cultivate her. Therefore, many people in the company are jealous of her, and there are also many people who talk about her behind her back. Initially, after listening to When others talk about her, I always tell her and want her to explain it to those people face to face, but she doesn't take it seriously.

I was very puzzled at the time, because those people are sometimes very exaggerated and talk nonsense without understanding the truth of the matter. So I asked my cousin why I didn’t go and question them face to face. My cousin just smiled and said to me: "You are still young, so you don't need to care about these things most of the time. If you have time, why not think about your next job."

I didn’t quite understand what she said at that time, but later I gradually understood, because no matter how well you do, there will be a few people who think you are not good enough, so we really don’t need to It is a waste of time in this regard. After all, it is difficult to convince everyone, so it is not a good way to laugh it off. You should maintain a good attitude and face work and life with a positive attitude.