There are thousands of roads in Qian Qian, which can be summarized into two types: straight roads and detours.
There is no doubt that in the journey of life, we all like to walk straight, bathed in warm sunshine, and walk on a smooth road with brisk steps, which is undoubtedly a kind of enjoyment. But in the journey of life, there will always be detours, only going straight, and you will be dumbfounded when you meet them, so you must learn to take detours and learn twists and turns. For example, when you think in one way and engage in a job, when your thinking is blocked, you might as well think in another way, think from another angle and do it in another way. Maybe you will be suddenly enlightened and have a feeling that "the mountains and rivers are full of doubts and there is no way, and there is another village". This is called turning!
Christopher, an American superman, accidentally fell off his horse in a fierce equestrian competition, and his eyes were suddenly dark. Almost in the blink of an eye, he became a paraplegic who could only be fixed in a wheelchair forever. When he woke up from a coma, the first thing he said to his family was: Let me get rid of it as soon as possible. After leaving the hospital, in order to distract his attention and calm his physical and mental pain, his family pushed him to travel in a wheelchair.
The mountain road is winding, and the words "turn ahead" caught his eye again and again, gradually awakening his heart: it turned out that it was not the end of the road, but a turn. He suddenly realized and shouted at his wife, "I want to go back." I still have a long way to go. "
From then on, he became a director in a wheelchair. The film he directed won the Golden Globe Award. He also gritted his teeth and began to write hard. As soon as his first book, Still Me, was published, it entered the bestseller list. At the same time, he founded an educational resource center for paralyzed patients and was elected as the chairman of the General Paralysis Association.
"Superman" Christopher has left us, but his good attitude, indomitable perseverance and tenacity of never giving in to fate will make people remember his name forever.
Between heaven and earth, the road twists and turns, never straight. Water can reach the sea because it cleverly avoids all obstacles and keeps turning around.
Water can be bypassed. In the face of difficulties, having circuitous wisdom will enable us to examine our own shortcomings more objectively and calmly, adjust our direction in time, give full play to our strengths, and find a way that suits us.
Little penguins in Antarctica don't have strong limbs and flexible wings, so they can't face the thick ice and sharp ice at the land-sea junction. But they have the wisdom to detour, dive to a certain depth first, and with the help of the pressure and buoyancy of seawater, jump up and draw a perfect U-shaped line. In the face of insurmountable difficulties, why can the little penguin overcome them? Because it has circuitous wisdom, it knows how to give full play to its own strengths, avoid its own shortcomings, avoid insurmountable difficulties, find its own path, meander forward and reach the sea of success.
The mountain does not turn, the road turns; The road does not turn, the water turns; Water doesn't turn, people turn ... Many smart people fail to embark on the road to success, and many of them don't look back because they hit the south wall.
People often say that "where there is a will, there is a way" and "where there is a will, there is a way". However, if you do everything that you can't do, you will still be broken in the end by the spirit of "hitting the south wall and not looking back". There is a big difference between what you want to do and what you can do. Do your best in everything and do what you can. For some people, the goals they set may never be achieved. Those who are ambitious and have ambitions beyond their actual abilities will not only bring people a burden that they are unable to cope with, but also regret not paying for their ambitions. More importantly, they will consume their energy to achieve their careers within their abilities. In that case, there is no choice but to accept setbacks. Therefore, when you can't go on, you might as well look back. Sometimes, turning is also a way to move forward. Because people are two things on the way forward: going forward and turning.
French writer Lennon said, "Don't worry! The road we took was a winding mountain road. We have to turn a lot and walk a lot. Sometimes we feel as if our backs are on the target. In fact, we are always getting closer and closer to the goal. "
People who know how to beat around the bush and take fewer detours are often the first to climb the mountain. It takes courage to move forward and wisdom to turn. Choose to turn when the road is blocked, and choose to bow when you are unhappy; When love is drifting away, choose at will. There is no smooth sailing on the road of life. Maybe your struggle and pursuit are often frustrated. Are you anxious, helpless and bitter, or are you positive and optimistic and find another way? Two choices, two results.
In the face of difficulties, with the wisdom of turning, we can learn how to avoid reality and not hang ourselves on a tree, so as to win skillfully and open up a successful new route.