Text/Zhang Han
From last night to today, the rain has been falling continuously in the streets and alleys of Beijing, with no intention of stopping. The smell of rain and humidity are everywhere. the taste.
The sky is gray, and the wind and rain are entangled together, like a passionate symphony, with the ticking sound fast and swift, and the rhythm sometimes slow and sometimes urgent. The rain is like a white line, blown by the wind, sometimes vertically, sometimes tilted, falling quickly from the sky onto the street, splashing white water.
The green trees on both sides of the street, washed by the rain, become more and more lush, lush and full of vitality. Pedestrians on the road were holding colorful umbrellas, but they still couldn't protect themselves from the erosion of the rain. Their clothes were still wet, and there was water on the ground. The water reached people's ankles.
From outside to inside, water droplets dripped densely on the glass windows, and the outside world became hazy because of the blur of the glass windows. I walked to the window and looked out. The rain had already reached people's knees. Pedestrians were struggling to walk through the rain. With the crisp sound of the horn, a taxi passed by, splashing high water.
The hurried figures and the flowing traffic constitute a scene in the rain. Seeing such a scene, people will become very irritable, anxious and worried, and they will think in their hearts: Why doesn't it stop raining? What should I do if I can’t go home at night?
Therefore, the mood on rainy days is mostly gray, depressed and depressed, worried and anxious. But today’s rainy day, for me, is full of joy and joy.
I am full of doubts about this conclusion, and there will definitely be many question marks in my mind. Why? The answer actually lies in personal mood and situation.
Because I received a lot of consultation appointments today, the rainy day did not affect my good mood, and I am very happy.
The heart changes with the environment. It is no longer the haze of the objective environment that affects people’s subjective feelings. On the contrary, because of the change in mood, the feeling of looking at rainy days has also changed. Rain has symbolized wealth in ancient times. Feeling rich and fulfilled, I received a lot of appointment consultations from experts today, and I am really happy.
From a psychological point of view, the objective world we see is actually what we want to see subjectively. For example, when it rains, some people see anxiety, others see worry, but I see it. To the loveliness and joy.
Everyone has a different perspective, what they see is connected to their own subjective feelings, and the emotional experience they get is different.
The heart changes with the environment, which means that the mood changes with the change of the environment. In fact, what is more important is that the environment changes with the heart. The environment is still the same objective environment. It is just that your mood changes, and your situation changes. .
When you look at people and things in a positive and optimistic way, in fact, people and things have not changed, but the perspective you see has changed, and your mood will naturally change.
Mood, to a greater extent, comes from the feeling of the mood, rather than the situation itself. Wealth, success, happiness, and health in life are all attracted by people's inner feelings. Whatever you focus on, you will attract.
A good mood will bring good luck, and a bad mood will bring bad experiences.
Ford has a famous saying: Whether you think you can do it or you think you can’t, you are right. Thoughts determine reality, and mood determines circumstances. Whatever you focus on, you will do, and in the end you will gain something.
The objective environment cannot be changed, but your mood can be changed and the situation will also change.