2. A gentleman can bend and stretch;

3, endure a moment of anger, take a step back;

4. It's better to be able to argue than to endure others' slander. If people insult me, it is better to prevent it than to change it —— Master Hongyi's Don't record aphorisms;

5. People who can't tolerate others don't deserve to be tolerated by others-bernays;

6, wide to fierce, fierce to wide, politics to peace;

7. If you can tolerate a villain, you will become a gentleman-Feng Menglong's "Increasing Wisdom";

8. Being kind to others means being good at forgiving-May Frost's New Hampshire;

9. It is easier to forgive an enemy than a friend-Yale Salem, Blake;

10, be gentle and generous, and let each other live a cheerful and happy life. Perhaps the most important-Kōnosuke Matsushita.