Pay attention to the critical sensitive period (0- 12 years old) when raising children.
0- 1 year-old, parenting is a period of cultivating attachment, and there is human nature with emotion. The richer the emotion, the richer the human nature.
If the child is talkative at the age of six, it means that when the child is raised at the age of three, there are many family members and rich emotions. Emotion affects children's speech and sociality. Speech development will affect people's character.
0-6 years old, the mother raised her son, and the father took care of her, dressed her and poured a glass of water.
Say "no" to children before the age of six, and build children's awareness of rules. Schools solve children's cognitive problems. Before the age of six, it was a process of making people. The problem with children is that after 12 years old, they will return to normal after this stage.
This idea makes sense in it.
Men's 55 years old is menopause. 25-year-old generation, see three generations in their 70 s.
Phenomenon:
1. Famous universities jump off buildings the most.
When children (0- 1 year) are deprived of "feeling", psychological problems will arise.
Children under 2.0- 1 cry because they want you to turn him over. Babies need hugs when they cry.
In the process of 0- 1 year-old crying, the child's internal organs are painful. Cry a lot within one year old and have neural memory. The 0-/kloc-0-year-old child cried and hugged it, which was neither painful nor itchy. Chengdu and Wuxi are well-off economies, so the people in these places are relatively mild. When crying within one year old, if relatives don't come, the child will be deprived of "feeling". Without feelings, they will be inhuman, and their emotional intelligence will be very low, making them look dull. So when a child cries, he should pick it up.
People who have no family life have no humanity.
The core of filial piety: when people are old and useless, their children will have a feeling of "I want to repay you". Some are grateful, some are money.
Churchill-perseverance and responsibility. There are rules, responsibilities, and consideration for others.
Children should also have their own choices and choices when they grow up.
What really binds people is an emotion, and emotion is the key to binding people. It is not money and law that bind people.
Everyone knows each other by smell, and smell is the way children know each other.
Ten months (0- 1 year) is better than ten months.
The child's first emotion is the person who establishes an attachment relationship with the child and is the child's benefactor. The starting point of emotion is attachment. 0-6 years old, my mother is full of nonsense and loves constantly.
When a child doesn't kiss anyone, he loses control of his mind. Shunyang wants to raise a rebellious son.
Children learn to speak by hearing. 0- 1 year-old has a voice in his ear and a face in front of him. It is best to have three or four adults at home when you are 0-3 years old.
The establishment of 0- 1 year-old attachment will affect children's emotions, lead to children's language, and children's language will affect children's sociality. Emotional upbringing determines a person's temper. People who never lose their temper are gentle.
The key period of character cultivation is within three years old. Before I was three years old, I was kind to him. Before I was six years old, I was kind to him.
Say no, about three years old.
There are four things you can't do when making rules. 1. Don't scold him, 2. Don't hit him, 3. Stop crying and be reasonable. Don't go away.
Don't reason with the child when she is crying, because it is noise, and you seem to be begging him. Just wait for your parents. You stare three times when you cry: 1. Why don't you come over? I'm really tired of crying. 3. That's it. Then her parents wipe her face with hot towels, and she will think: You love me.
At this time, ask the child: talk well, who listens to whom.
1, the child is clamoring to solve the problem-personality defect. 1. Say no.2 Communicate well. 3. Restrain his impulse.
2, training sitting posture-character training. Train him when he is 3-6 years old. Draw for 5 minutes, 10 minutes, until 40 minutes.
3, playing games-power choice
Eat today's meal today and tomorrow's meal tomorrow. Delayed gratification. Don't rush to take a lot of things to live long.
4. Leave the best copy to the absent person-learn to share. People who are often absent will not be lonely, but can get help from society.
5. Be chopsticks if you can. You must learn to blend in with others and unite into a chopstick. You are so smart that if you want to do great things, you must be able to cooperate with others and not look down on others. What we are talking about here is social resources and sociality.
When you can mingle with others and hug each other, you can do great things-character cultivation.
6. Physical pain
A small amount of exercise leads to nerve inhibition and imbalance of excitement, and the cerebellum is inhibited. There is little joint and muscle activity and little cerebellar excitement. There is more finger activity and more cerebral cortex activity. Cerebellar excitement means that the muscles of the body can't sleep when they are excited.
Exercise should form a habit, starting at the age of three or four,/kloc-before the age of 0/2. After getting up in the morning, run downstairs first, reach the length first and then talk about speed. Strong heart and lungs, strong legs, strong heart. Running and swimming are life-saving activities. Long-distance running exercises endurance and swimming exercises courage.
Ideas come from the nagging of daily life. Talking about one thing is the occurrence of ideas.
Primary school teachers are like half parents of children. In school, teachers teach children knowledge, emotions and life-parents and teachers should unite because the purpose of educating children is the same. Teachers give you knowledge and are the people who manage you, so you need children's inner respect.
Teach your son to his face and your wife behind his back. Don't speak ill of the teacher in front of the children.
Parents and teachers are on the same side in ability training.
If the child's character education is not done well before the age of six, adolescence is the remedial period of education: first, don't give up; Second, ask experts for advice. The company of teenage fathers is very important. If the early father did not hold the child in his arms, ride on his neck and love his mother in front of the child. Then adolescent fathers must accompany their children.
Good marriage, good children. If a man is a gentleman, the woman around him will become a lady; If a man is a rogue, the women around him will become bitches. Adolescent parents should understand their responsibilities and constraints.
Children are neutral before puberty.
Before the age of six, my mother's words were gold, 12 years later, my mother's words were rubbish. Mother's words should be tightened at this time of adolescence. Loose outside and tight inside, keep an eye on him all the time, and remind him promptly and wisely when you find problems.
Let the children share the housework-you exercise and I rest.
People have the ability to learn by themselves, and the more they do, the smarter they become.
The more responsible a man is, the more he really loves you.
Adolescence makes children experience more happiness in life-playing ball games, skating and swimming outside school ... People who exercise on the playground get good grades, and those who are good at sports have a particularly good memory.
I like people who have a family style of "laughing".
The consistency of education means that parents' educational ideas should be unified.