Break the shackles of self-esteem

The world won't care about your self-esteem, people will only see your achievements; Don't overemphasize your self-esteem before you achieve something.

Dignity comes from strength.

Reached a certain level, just like two sides of a lever. If your career focuses on unfairness, injustice, non-compliance with rules and so on, then almost everything you see is unfair and unfair. Moreover, when your mind is always entangled in these unfair and unjust things, your state is very bad. Why not? Because seeking justice is a mental illness.

When you are unfair, it means complaining, it means judging, and it means judging things around you with a perfect standard, especially judging things that appear when you deal with others, so that everything you see everywhere may be unfair.

What do you want to seek when there are unfair and unjust thoughts in your "consciousness radar"? In fact, you haven't changed it, you are just complaining. To some extent, you just regard complaining as a means to change this reality.

What kind of mentality is the so-called complaint? It is a kind of non-acceptance and resistance to his present reality, and he is unwilling to face this reality directly. How can he find a way to change? So complaining is essentially a kind of inertia. We say that seeking justice is a mental illness, but it is actually a continuous "psychological inertia"

What you really want will eventually be obtained, and what you have been complaining about will eventually be lost.

Sometimes, in our real life, what you do may not necessarily change, but the biggest advantage of what you do is that you have no time to complain in the process of doing it.

Really, learn to take the initiative in silence and waiting, learn to face people and things around you with a positive mental state, trust others, understand others and appreciate others, instead of picking on others, complaining about others and hating others.

Your thoughts, you will see.

Dedicated happiness

"Circumstances are born from the mind" means that the world you see is a reflection of your inner world. When your inner world is complicated and superficial, what you see is also superficial.

"From quiet to quiet, from quiet to wisdom" is actually like this. If there is no conflict and struggle in our hearts, when you concentrate on your work, you will produce a kind of wisdom, and this wisdom is a kind of strength.

"Zhi Zhi decides again" means that your heart will not be stable until it stops; "Only when you make a decision can you be quiet, only when you are quiet can you be safe, and only when you are safe can you get it".

Concentration is sometimes a habit. When this habit enters the intellectual level, it will become a very powerful force.

Charles Handy said: When you know how to get there, no matter whether it is a business or an individual, there is often no chance.

Wu Bofan: The most important thing about concentration is that it can make you feel happy. Concentration itself is happiness.

The art of winning streak

The best way to eliminate internal contradictions is to establish external enemies.

Morale is a spectrum, but also an internal condition, square inch and melody.

Cultural psychological quality is very mysterious, but it is actually related to the sense of melody we mentioned earlier, that is, whether there is a lasting feeling of not being interrupted by the outside world.

Abstinence leads to wisdom: including wisdom and wisdom. Wisdom is dynamic and adaptable, which is wisdom. There can be no wisdom without wisdom.

Leadership and leadership

Most of us want to change the world and manage others, but seldom think of changing ourselves and managing ourselves.

Be a leader, not be led. The reason why you can be the leading goose is because at that moment, you are the most capable and you are most willing to rush ahead. You are faced with the greatest pressure, air pressure and resistance, and you are willing to take this responsibility, so everyone makes you the leading goose.

When young and free, when the imagination is endless, dreams change the world; When I grew up and became smart, I found that the world could not be changed, so I withdrew my eyes and made up my mind to change only my country, but there was nothing I could do. When I am old, as a last resort, I am determined to change my family, the people closest to me, but they are still unchangeable. Now, when I am dying, I know that if I can change myself, then I can change my family with my own example. With their encouragement and hard work, I may be able to make my country better, and then God knows, maybe even change the world.

If you don't cultivate yourself, the best things in the world will pass you by.

A philosopher said that when we have nothing to show off, we will show off our troubles and pains.

To be a leader, you must have the charisma and ability to lead, enough commitment and enough knowledge. Otherwise, even if we are given rights, we will not be able to master them for a long time.