The occurrence of the problem has become a fact, and evasion and procrastination can't solve the problem. When you encounter problems, you should face them calmly. The more you procrastinate, the more you want to make excuses, and the more you want to stay out of it, the bigger problems will often appear. In the face of what has happened, the best attitude is to face it positively, treat it rationally and solve it as soon as possible. If there is really no way, then face it with a natural heart. Living is a process of encountering problems, facing problems and solving problems. It's no use running away. When you face the problem directly, the problem has actually been solved.
Many times, we often feel anxious about things that haven't happened yet. This is a stupid behavior that ordinary people can't avoid. No one knows what will happen in the future, but we must believe that we can face the future well. Don't be afraid, don't be afraid, and don't be anxious and panic. The more you worry about something, the more it will happen, but if you are calm, calm and calm, you can handle it well no matter what the future holds. If there is a solution to the problem, it is not a problem. Anxiety is useless if there is no solution to the problem.
People's time and energy are limited. We should know how to seize the present, live the present well, concentrate on what we should do now, throw away all the miscellaneous things, don't be greedy, do one thing at a time, and do the next one after finishing one. If you have 100 things, do them one by one, and don't do several things at the same time. This may make the last 100 thing become 1 10 thing. Cause nothing to happen. Focus, once you get used to it, you can get things done. Many people work hard, but they are not focused enough, and the result is failure. I myself am the best example. When you concentrate on doing one thing well, it is also the best shortcut to success.
People in this life, it's no big deal, there's nothing sad. Yesterday's event, today is a story, but many times, it's just that we don't let ourselves go. We have figured it out, figured it out, looked at it clearly, and bowed our heads. Nothing is difficult to pass. Since the past, no matter good or bad, don't take it to heart, don't miss it. Otherwise, you will live in regret and regret all your life. It is also difficult for people who have succeeded and failed in the past to start over, which is why it is easy to draw beautiful patterns on white paper, while experienced people often do not do so well, because they are obsessed with their previous achievements, with a little pride, solidification and paranoia, but no longer cherish the world. If you don't need it, can you forget everything in the past and have the courage to start from scratch?
It's really hard to do it, but knowing how to do it will benefit you for life. I know everything. If I don't realize it myself, it's no use telling you. Life is long, so I will fix it slowly and realize it slowly.