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Why is it that a person is sometimes too smart and transparent but not good?
People who are too smart and transparent will really hurt themselves in society many times. First, make enemies unintentionally. It is for this reason that the so-called bright ones are easy to stain and the Yao Yao ones are easy to fold. Your cleverness and transparency will not only harm those who fish in troubled waters and steal benefits opportunistically, but also reflect the lack of wisdom and ability of those responsible. Therefore, it will naturally lead to a confrontation around you, and then make yourself a loner and be attacked by groups. Second, it is rare to have allies and friends. Being too smart and transparent, being thorough in everything, clear and transparent, easy to get to the bottom of the matter, and being realistic and realistic will naturally affect the interests of people around you, including your former best friends, and they will naturally alienate you. As the saying goes, water makes clear without fish, and people make clear without friends. This is the truth. Third, if you annoy your boss, you must get rid of it for a long time and then quickly. Your cleverness and transparency, although beneficial to what you do, will also pose a potential threat to your boss, who will weigh the pros and cons and finally choose to eliminate it. There are many examples in history. Yang Xiu was killed by Cao Cao in the Three Kingdoms period, which is the most typical "cleverness was overtaken by cleverness". In short, being too smart and transparent may not benefit you, but will be hurt.

as the saying goes, "cleverness is mistaken by cleverness". There is nothing wrong with being smart and transparent. He can help you solve many difficult problems in life. It's a first-class excellent application in studying hard, working hard and being kind to others. Why not?

the reason lies in your inner will. When you have a heartfelt wish to help others and be altruistic, being smart and transparent will help you achieve your wish, and you will be very happy when you do anything difficult, and you will be very happy when your wish is achieved. In the whole process of doing things, your heart is full of joy, which is self-interest in altruism and full of happiness and happiness.

But when we have something in our hearts, your cleverness and transparency will see the gain and loss of self-interest behind this matter. When you pursue your highest interests, your behavior becomes a calculation. Calculation is a kind of negative energy. When you do it with this negative energy, it is very hard. Even if you finally get the benefits you want, the short-term happiness you get is not proportional to your efforts, and your heart is heavy.

whether being smart and transparent is good or not depends on your motivation and your willingness. "Good intentions, good wishes, good deeds and good words." Always be grateful, and be grateful for everything. Society will be harmonious and happy.