1. No matter what happens, you must first think about whether you have done something wrong. If you are right

(that is impossible), then stand in the other person's perspective and experience the other person's feelings.

2. Allow yourself to adapt to the environment, because the environment will never adapt to you. Even if it's a very, very painful process.

3. Be generous. If you don’t know how to be generous, learn to be generous. If being generous really makes you feel bad, then pretend to be generous.

4. Be low-key, low-key, and low-key (even lower-key than a temporary worker. In the eyes of others, you may not be as good as a temporary worker who has worked for several years).

5. Be sweet and don’t begrudge your cheers. (Know how to praise people. Good praise will make people feel happy, but don’t overdo it to the point of disgusting.)

6. If you feel that your work has gone very smoothly in the recent period, then you should Be careful.

7. Be polite. Look the person in the eye when you say hello. Communicate with older people using the title of elder, because you are just like a kid.

8. Talk less and do more. Talking too much will lead to mistakes. Talk less when there are many people.

11. Keep time, but don’t expect others to keep time.

12. Be true to your promises, but don’t make them easily. Don't always keep other people's promises to you in mind and take them as true.

13. Don’t borrow money from colleagues. If you borrow money, you must pay it back on time.

14. Don’t lend money to colleagues. If you have to borrow money, just give it to him.

15. Don’t shirk responsibility (even if it is someone else’s responsibility. Will you die if you take it once in a while?).

16. Don’t speak ill of a colleague behind another colleague’s back. You must insist on saying good things about others behind their backs, and don't worry that the good words won't reach the ears of the person involved. If someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, smile.

17. Avoid open confrontation with colleagues (including public objections, fierce ones are even more undesirable).

18. Always help others, but don’t let the people being helped take it for granted.

19. Telling the truth will get you into trouble.

20. Be kind to things but not people; or be ruthless to things but affectionate to people; or be a person first and work second.

21. Always check whether you are arrogant, proud, or looking down on others. (Even if you are talented, it will be in vain without the cooperation and help of others)

22. Patience is a required course in life. (You have to be patient for a lifetime. Some people will fail this lesson until they die.)

23. When you arrive in a new place, don’t rush into one of the circles. After enough time, the circle that belongs to you will automatically accept you.

24. Have a normal heart. It’s not a big deal, just think of the bad things in the best light and good things in the worst light

25. Try not to have an office romance. If it cannot be avoided, avoid any form of physical contact in the office, including eyes. (If you or the other person are married, - congratulations, brother. You are dead!!!!)

26. Able to flatter (this is one of the important ways to communicate with your immediate boss) , but be careful not to get your hands dirty. Never use your tongue to lick flattery.

27. Qualifications are very important. Don't play tricks with the old guys, otherwise you will die very ugly.

28. Good intentions sometimes do not have good results, but you should not be discouraged by this.

29. Be respectful when you are above and be generous when you are below.

30. If you lead a team, when summarizing the work, you should take all the mistakes on yourself and give all the credit to your subordinates. When your boss and subordinates are present at the same time, remember to praise your subordinates promptly. When criticizing someone, you must do it when it’s just the two of you.