There is a saying that how wide your heart is, how big your stage is; How big your pattern is, how wide your heart can be! Enlarge your pattern, and your life will be incredible!
Foreword story
There was a housewife who bought a dress one day and turned to show it off to her neighbors habitually, only to find that her neighbors spent less money on the same dress than her, so she suffered for several days. This man's design is worth 20 yuan money.
There was a beggar who begged in the street all day. He had no feeling for well-dressed people on the road, but he was jealous of beggars who begged more than himself. This man is probably always a beggar.
Three workers are building a wall on the construction site. Someone asked what they were doing. The first man said angrily, don't you see the wall? The second man smiled: We are building a tall building. The third man was all smiles: We are building a new city. 10 years later, the first person is still building a wall, the second person becomes an engineer, and the third person is the boss of the first two people.
There is a proverb: no matter how big a pancake is, it is bigger than the pot that burns it. The philosophy of this sentence is: you can bake a big cake, but no matter how big the cake you bake, it is limited by the pot that bakes it. The future we want is like this pie. Can you brand it with satisfaction? Pie? Everything depends on the mouth that branded it? Marijuana? What is this? Pattern? .
What is the pattern? Pattern refers to a person's vision, mind, courage and other psychological elements of the' internal layout'!
A person's development is often limited, in fact? Limitations Is the pattern is too small, restricted by it. Those who seek great things must lay out the overall situation. For the chess game of life, the first thing to learn is not the skill, but the layout. The big picture is to cut into life from a big perspective and strive to stand higher, see farther and do bigger. The big pattern determines the direction of things, and controlling the big pattern controls the situation.
A person with a big picture can have a broad future! If we regard life as a chess game, then the ending of life is determined by the pattern of this chess game. The key to winning this chess game in life is to master it well. In the game between people, all kinds of chess methods, such as giving one's life to protect the car and jumping on the horse, are like every game of life. The winners of chess games are often those players who have the discretion of giving first and then taking second, the height of overall planning, and the strategy and momentum of strategizing and winning thousands of miles.
Yu Dan put it well: the key to growth is to establish a lifestyle for yourself.
Why should there be a big pattern? The limitation is that the pattern is too small and restricted by it.
In today's world where knowledge is constantly updated, we are also constantly refreshing our knowledge structure. There is only one thing that is most important, that is, we should try our best to cultivate a big mind.
Only the big realm can have a big mind, and the big pattern can make great achievements.
First, there is a big pattern hidden behind the luck of successful people.
1, what kind of pattern you have, what kind of fate you have!
People with a big pattern: open-minded, will not sell themselves short because of unfavorable environment, and will not give up because of lack of ability.
People with a small pattern: they often complain because their lives are unsatisfactory, because they can't do anything with a little setback, and they often lose sight of one thing and become mediocre.
2, the pattern is not big enough, and the achievements in life are limited!
Three endings of pomegranate seeds:
Planting in a flowerpot can only grow to more than half a meter at most!
Plant it in a jar and it will grow to more than one meter high!
Plant it in the yard until it is four or five meters high!
3、? Limitations Just one person ordered it for himself? Bureau? Too small!
The height that people can reach in life is often the height that people choose for themselves psychologically. If a person never wants to reach the top in his heart, he will never succeed!
4. abandon the attitude of life that is only busy with rations!
The story of God and the beggar: God looked at a beggar with pity and said to him, Here is 1000 yuan. What would you say? Buy a mobile phone to give you 654.38+ ten thousand yuan. What would you say? Buy a car for you 1 10,000. What would you say? Buy the most luxurious location in the city?
5, blind obedience is irresponsible for life!
Most people have herd mentality, and they dare not take the lead or take the lead. All choices are based on others' choices. Indiscriminate conformity is blind obedience and irresponsibility to life!
Second, the general pattern has a general direction and will not change because of external pressure.
Pain and confusion are often caused by unclear direction. Frustration is an inevitable process in life. Don't position yourself as a loser. Failing to pursue quick success and instant benefit that violates objective laws, losers are often knocked down by themselves. You can only win if you can afford to lose, and be prepared for possible problems.
Third, the big pattern has a large capacity and is not bound by trivial matters.
The size of the tool determines the size of the enterprise. Where there are talents, perfection is not sought. Don't let doubt ruin your life. Forgiving others is actually letting yourself go.
A broad mind dilutes the pain of life, despises the gains and losses of fame and fortune, keeps a normal heart and faces life calmly.
Fourth, the overall situation is ambitious, and every day is a process of progress.
People who aim high will not let themselves muddle along. They are not only ambitious, but also start from scratch. For tomorrow's success, endure today's loneliness and concentrate on controlling your time.
The way to realize the big pattern
The way to realize the big pattern is not innate, and it is not necessarily related to your current living environment. Pattern is a person's orientation of his own life coordinates. As long as we can adjust our mentality, we can certainly set up a big pattern for ourselves. Knowledge and skills are internal forces, and a suitable platform and rich contacts are wings. If you can make full use of all these resources and keep yourself on a rising ladder every day, then the future pattern and development will be more than just a dream.
First, optimize the knowledge structure and enrich the internal support of the big pattern.
Second, the overall situation is not aggressive, but it does not exclude adventure.
Third, the big pattern needs a big platform to complete the breakthrough of the pattern in space.
Fourth, integrate social resources and complete the breakthrough of the pattern from the network.
Fifth, foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, and complete the breakthrough of the pattern from the strengths.
If you want to enlarge your own pattern, you need to stand in different positions to feel it. The only test of a person's intelligence is whether his mind can accommodate two opposite thoughts at the same time without interfering with his behavior. In fact, this is just like what is said in Taoist culture in China? Tai Chi Yin Yang Diagram? There is yang in yin and yin in yang, so it is a comprehensive pattern to look at the problem comprehensively.
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