Inspiring Life: Eighteen Hard Principles of Being a Human Being

1. Only a little cleverness will never make you superior.

Big or small smarts can all be called smart, real and fake smarts can also be called smart, but if they are used differently, the results will be very different. Some people think that they are extremely smart and have no opponents. In fact, it is this kind of people who are most likely to lose. Really smart people often don't let people know how smart they are, but they focus on getting things done to the maximum extent possible.

2. If you look at the problem more, there will be no dead end.

There are so many problems in the world, they are like pockmarks. If you only focus on one point and fail to compare with the rest, you will get into trouble. This is a typical representative of self-isolation. As a person, you must look at problems more, look at other places if you don't understand, and make your life strategy "alive".

3. Never say anything you shouldn’t say at any time.

A strong mouth often shocks the heart, but it can also hurt the heart. One of the hard principles of life is to never say anything you shouldn't say. On the contrary, speaking freely will appear rude. The second seems superficial. At any time, only saying what needs to be said is the only way to win steadily.

4. Do things with your heart that may change your life.

Being good at life aims to change your life. Countless successful cases show that those who are good at life have made a good start in their lives and become the pillars of a stable life. The difficulty in life lies in doing what is in your heart. To achieve this life plan, without a high-quality way of being a person, you will definitely fail.

5. Do everything you can to avoid stumbling upon your boss.

Some people always like to bump into others in order to show off their unique "abilities". This is never a good habit as it can destroy your relationships. In practice, some things must be done only through obedience, not to mention that not everything in the world can be as everyone wishes from beginning to end.

6. Cultivating a good personality means taking responsibility for oneself.

Personality is the most important part of a person's growth---those who desire success in life must carefully analyze their own personality, choose the best and avoid the abuse, so as to make themselves closer to perfection. Please note that no one can deeply analyze your personality. To undertake a task, only you are the best doctor.

7. Be honest but don’t ignore the target.

Why do some people achieve small successes but find it difficult to achieve big successes? The key is that you cannot maintain long-term relationships with your collaborators with a calm heart. Instead, you unknowingly change your approach. As a result, you not only lose people's support, but also lose the leverage to do great things. (Inspirational Quote Sun) It is well known that a person must be honest, but one must not be discriminating, which must be combined with reality and mastered flexibly.

8. Always competing with others is tantamount to leaving yourself with future troubles.

Competing with others has at least three major disadvantages: first, it proves that one cannot control the opponent; second, it wastes energy and only seeks to relieve one's anger for a while; third, it reduces interpersonal relationships to a stalemate and makes enemies everywhere. There are many such people in life, how ridiculous! A person who is truly good at being a human being will use his energy to the key points and try his best to avoid a knife-like verbal battle between you and me.

9. Always be alert to danger.

In the journey of life, the "lethality" of danger is often hidden. If you want to master the way of being a human being, you must always be alert to the "dangers" around you to prevent being entangled by them, being attacked by them, and being shot by them. Anyone who cannot do this will have irreparable failure in the end!

10. What you cannot win must be given up.

"Struggle" is the desire of animals and humans. Some people always put the word "struggle" first in the art of life. They are jealous of others, but they don't know that their whole life will be defeated by this word. Those who are truly good at life do not regard the word "struggle" as important as life and death, but know how to give up at the right time and choose a safer way to win.

11. Be proficient in the three methods: be good at observation, choose carefully, and dare to take action.

Moving forward without observation is blind. Even if you get something occasionally, it is unexpected and it is impossible to win a big victory. A wise man always observes first, then makes reasonable choices, and then takes action at the right time. This means that the greatest actions come from the keenest observation, the smartest choice, and the most courageous action.

12. Character principle: People with a big temper will hurt themselves physically and mentally.

A person with a bad temper may appear to be very arrogant, but his words will make people's hearts tremble, and his actions will make them feel guilty. This is not the case! This person's biggest weakness is to compete with others in "angry". As a person, you must put more effort into being tolerant and gentle, and avoid fighting with others. Furthermore, if you can treat others with tolerance, a "harmony" situation will be formed, and this is what makes great things happen. The point is.

13. Keep your head down and take every step steadily.

If you run too slowly, you will miss the target; if you run too fast, you will get tripped. As a person, you should strive for the word "stable". Only by being neither hasty nor slow, but taking steps step by step, can you go further. The meaning of the word "stable" is not mysterious, because if you are tripped less once, it means that your traveling tactics are correct. This requires you to keep your head down and walk steadily!

14. Good at handling life’s difficulties.

There will always be difficulties, big or small, that hit you like raindrops, and it is difficult for you to deal with them. If you are not good at handling these difficulties, you must be at a low level. For those who are truly good at being a human being, a big difficulty comes. You can turn the big into small; when small difficulties come, you can turn them into nothing, so that they will not limit your thinking and your own hands and feet.

15. Grit your teeth on yourself, not on others.

Being a human being requires courage and the courage to compete with oneself. This is the "gnashing of teeth" technique. But be aware that biting your teeth at others is of little use. It is at best a reflection of jealousy. Being a person and doing things are often integrated. Only by defeating yourself can your success be more determined. As long as you tremble, your stone of success will loosen or even collapse.

16. Sequence: The beginning is more important than the ending.

The so-called opening is how you take the "first move" to do something. Many people do not pay attention to the opening skills, and often act on a whim, without starting or ending. This is a character weakness in life. If you start well, you will not be out of breath in the middle game, and you will not reduce the possibility of being controlled by others in the closing stage.

17. Master the details of work changes.

Those who don’t know how to change are often fierce men who will fight to the end with one breath and stab them to the end with one blow. Things change often unexpectedly, and if you don’t have a contingency plan, it will be difficult to contend with it, and it will be even more difficult to get out of the predicament. As a person, you should seek change, and have hidden tricks in many aspects, which can be revealed at critical moments.

18. Don’t let others “kill” your good attitude.

It is really difficult for people in the world to make precise considerations. The only thing you have to do is to adjust your mentality so that you will not be hurt by external forces, but can concentrate on your own affairs with a balanced and happy mind.

This is the first-class skill of being a wise man!