Give someone a rose, and the hand will leave a lingering fragrance
High school sophomore | 800 words | Argumentative essay
“Give someone a rose, and the hand will leave a lingering fragrance.” This is our A sentence often heard in life. However, this is indeed the case in life, but when we help others, tolerate others, and treat others well, we are also treating ourselves well.
It can be seen that treating others well is a basic rule that people should abide by in the process of seeking success. In today's society that requires cooperation, there is an interactive relationship between people. Only when we first treat others well and help others in good faith can we handle interpersonal relationships well and obtain happy cooperation from others.
Mencius once said: "A gentleman is most likely to be kind to others." Those who give generously without asking for anything in return are often more likely to succeed; those who are selfish, stingy and careless will not only find no partners, but even It is possible to become a loner. Some friends will ask: What does it mean to be kind to others? Being kind to others is easy to say, but not easy to do. It includes a wide range of content. Such as: care about others, take the initiative to extend a hand of friendship when friends encounter difficulties; respect others, do not explore other people's privacy, do not talk about others behind their backs; be good at communicating with others, and be good at interacting with those who have the same interests and personality as your own. Communicate with different people; recognize the value of others, and shoulder your own responsibilities... In general, the most important principle of treating others well is "Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you." Everything must be considered from the other person's perspective. If you follow this principle, you will gain many good friends and partners.
"Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hands." Some people say that good interpersonal relationships are not only made through actions, but also "flow" from the bottom of the heart. This sentence is very philosophical. It tells us that in interpersonal communication, we should treat others with sincerity and interact with others with "heart". Some people desperately want friendship, but they refuse to open their hearts to each other. A female classmate from a key university in Shanghai once wrote to me telling me about her troubles of lacking friends. She said: "After I went to college, maybe because everyone has grown up, everyone became infighting and took advantage of each other. I hated this situation, so I became deep and indifferent, determined to wrap myself up in loneliness and loneliness. , tempering myself in the pain of my heart. I was indifferent to the affairs of the class and took 'I do my own thing' as my motto. I didn't talk or joke with my classmates after class, and I didn't speak in class..." This classmate's behavior was inappropriate. of. She longs for friendship but is unwilling to open her heart to communicate with her classmates first. Not only does this not free herself, but it is more likely to increase her pain and loneliness. In the large number of consultation letters I have received in the past, I often encounter this situation. Some college students often hold the attitude of "If you don't pay attention to me, I will not pay attention to you" or "If you don't make friends with me, I won't care about you either." How can we get the friendship and help of others by treating others with the mentality of "making friends"?
"Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand." We must understand that only by treating others well can we be treated well by others. ;Only by treating others sincerely can you get the sincerity of others. Please remember: be kind to others, be kind to yourself; give others roses and leave fragrance in your hands.