The beginning of winter
The cold air is coming and the temperature has dropped sharply. Has everyone put on thick clothes? Your solar term announcer - Xiao Cheng is online. Today is the first solar term of winter - Beginning of Winter.
"Winter is the end, and everything is collected." But why should we hide it at the beginning of winter? This is because when all the autumn crops are harvested and stored in storage, animals are also hiding to prepare for hibernation. Therefore, the beginning of winter not only represents the coming of winter, but also means collecting all things and avoiding the cold.
Xiao Cheng also heard a saying, "Everything is hidden in winter, and the wise know how to be humble." In other words, wise people know how to stick to clumsiness. So how do we achieve "staying humble"?
To stick to clumsiness is to be a person who is not smart or sharp, but has a natural, pure and simple outlook on life. By using this way of dealing with people, no matter in officialdom, in the workplace, in the shopping mall, or in any situation when dealing with people, you can make a lot of connections and live in harmony with them.
Zeng Guofan once said: "Be honest and honest, never show it first", "Those who are taciturn can avoid taboos, those who are taciturn can hide their clumsiness, those who are tactless can learn to be quiet, and those who are incompetent can save their labor." He It is advocated to use simplicity more often, so as not to show off one's talents and to be less thoughtful.
Zeng Guofan also has many stories related to "Shou Zhuo". When Zeng Guofan founded the Hunan Army and selected generals, he specially selected people with "country spirit" who were not good at speaking, because they were down-to-earth and honest and less frivolous. He disliked those people who were "good at talking": "Generals who are slippery, when faced with danger, their expressions will be quick enough to shake the hearts of the troops; their smooth words are enough to confuse right and wrong, so Chu military history does not like to be used." A general who is good at talking." So when he recruited soldiers, he also wanted "simple and unsophisticated" mountain people.
When training the Hunan Army, his superiors repeatedly urged Zeng Guofan to send troops. However, Zeng Guofan believed that the Hunan Army was not yet fully trained and should not send troops. Finally, when the time was right, Zeng Guofan led the Hunan Army to fight steadily and completely wiped out the powerful Taiping. military!
Therefore, instead of being tactful, it is better to stay natural and simple; instead of showing off your talents, it is better to keep a low profile and bide your time. Sincerity is by no means stupid, it is the best way to live in life and the highest wisdom in life.
Xiaocheng hopes that after the beginning of winter, everyone can hide their full talents and body~conquer everyone with their talents! Use meat to resist the cold!
It is customary to eat meat at the beginning of winter in the south, and to eat dumplings at the beginning of winter in the north. Do you have any customs there? Welcome to leave a message to tell Xiaocheng~