after graduating from high school, he wandered around the society for three years, and then he went to learn car modification by mistake. In 12 years, he opened his own car modification shop. At the end of 14 years, I expanded my business in partnership with others, and six storefronts were lined up, and * * * invested 1 million yuan. I went to see it, and it was very atmospheric.
the status posted by his circle of friends is: several cars are changed at the same time, burning the midnight oil, and the modification needs to be reserved in advance. Looks like it's in full swing.
it didn't last long. I learned that the store was closed in the middle of 16 years. I'm surprised. Business is not very good. Why is it closed? "The rent is 22, a year, the salary is in the early 3, a month, and the living expenses and miscellaneous expenses add up to a lot. It seems that there is more than 1 million turnover in one year, but there is actually no money left. In the end, the rent has to be paid from my own pocket." He said angrily.
Later, he moved three stores one after another. Either he didn't find the short circuit position of his skull, or he didn't have enough money to do everything, and of course his business was not good.
Up to now, he has been in this industry for more than 1 years. Except for his life, there are few steel shovel left. It is said that three years in the business, five years in the business, and ten years in the business, but now he is still a gangster.
he will also call me in his spare time, saying that his business is not good and his future is uncertain. I often comfort him. If I hold on a little longer, I will get better.
I happened to think about what I said to him recently. I suddenly realized that this sentence is not useful to everyone. There must be the first half of this sentence-on the right path. What if he had learned to draw?
why do we bite the bullet and stick to it when we know the future is bleak?
Textbooks teach us that we can't concentrate on our work, and it's wrong to pick up watermelons without sesame seeds. This is what we have learned since childhood, which exerts a subtle influence on our behavior. Don't be half-hearted and don't change it at will.
on the other hand, if you pay too much, the harder it is to give up. "I have invested so much money ..." "We have traveled so far ..." "I have spent three years training ..." The cost is too high to let go. So the more reason to keep doing it. In technical terms, this is called "emotional interest", and people who often gamble know it.
furthermore, the chicken soup that is popular on the internet-"Give up what you are destined to do and miss success!"! The road to success is not crowded, can endure and stand out; Can't help it, out. " At first glance, it is so admirable and exciting. But when to cook, he didn't say. It will be a disaster if you apply it to your knowledge reserve without thinking.
you have been obsessed with sunk costs, and the more you lose, the more you cling to it. But a person who has spent a lot of time and painstaking efforts still fails to achieve anything, there must be something wrong with the backbone. Objectively speaking, it is meaningless to stick to it.
if you can see a stagnant pool in your distance-please give up for a while. If you are not sure whether your choice is correct or not-please stop, look around you and look back at your past.
it doesn't matter what you have invested in before, the only thing that matters is the present situation and your assessment of the future. ?
Xiaoming has excellent logical thinking and broad thinking, and his academic performance has always been among the best, especially in mathematics, and he is in the top five in his class all the year round. But he is not a child who works hard until late at night.
Xiaohua's grades are average, and she often does problems to keep her mind closed, and math problems need to be studied for a long time. Therefore, it is often compared with Xiaoming by parents and teachers to educate him to be diligent and make up for his mistakes. Since we are not as clever as others, we should be more diligent than others.
The teacher thinks Xiaohua's math is holding him back, and the parents think it's unreasonable. So Xiao Ming followed his parents' instructions and spent a lot of time doing problems. Almost every day, he was the last one to leave in the classroom.
In this regard, the teacher is quite appreciative of him and often uses him as an example to encourage other students.
near the exam, Xiaohua painstakingly studied a function for nearly an hour and finally got the solution. Suddenly full of confidence and slightly provocative, I deliberately asked Xiao Ming for advice. As a result, Xiao Ming divided three times five by two and got it in 1 minutes. Xiaohua is dumbfounded.
After the exam, Xiao Ming played as usual and remained in the top five. Xiaohua excels in mathematics, but because he spends a lot of time on mathematics, he ignores his best language, and his overall score drops slightly.
we have all encountered: frequent training, business still losing money; Playing chess every day is still a level 1. No matter how hard you try, you can't do as well as others. Others are God's reward, and you are looking for God's begging, so diligence is the only shortcut to overtake.
I think everyone created by the creator has something he is particularly good at. People who may be more powerful than Schumacher cut wood on the mountain; People worse than Ding Junhui play mahjong in the teahouse; People better than Sun Yang are picking up girls. They have always been on the road that suits them. If diligence can make up for it, Ding Junhui can't compare with Sun Yang, and maybe not as good as you and me.
diligence can only narrow the relative distance, but the overtaking is still small.
at some point, we must feel that when we do something, we are particularly satisfied, faster than others, do better, and there are more people praising you. Calm down and think about it, find that moment, that's where you should be most diligent.
don't be afraid of how long others have been in the business. Maybe others have entered the business by mistake, and you can still catch up quickly when you get in.
Spitting so much saliva actually means one thing: find your own way.
you said: isn't this fucking bullshit? If I know, I don't have to tell you!
of course I don't know. Nobody knows. Otherwise, how can there be the word "luck"? After all, this is a nonsense article.
But I still want to kindly remind you that the experience of trial and error is very valuable!