express one's feelings directly: for rational women, it is better to express their love directly than to talk about Taoism. A woman who pursues a rational type must first attract her with strong love magic, attack in a straightforward way, or express her mind directly. Overcoming reason with emotion is the best way to pursue rational women. Because, generally speaking, rational women give people a sense of awe with their intelligent temperament, and many men often stay away from them. Rational women have fewer opportunities to receive love, but they can feel the existence of love more when they are loved.
considerate: if you want to pursue an introverted woman, you can show care and consideration, which can make her talk patiently when she is in a bad mood and create opportunities for her to vent her feelings. Because introverted girls don't like to express their feelings at ordinary times, it is easy to feel depressed in their hearts because of small things, which is easy to cause violent outbursts of feelings. If you can balance and coordinate her heart, you will gradually become her confidante and lover.
leave room skillfully: if you pursue a woman with strong self-esteem, you should leave room skillfully when she is rejected, give her satisfaction in self-esteem, and then seize the opportunity to express your mind diplomatically when her inner attitude changes, which will often achieve miraculous results. This is because women with strong self-esteem often have confidence in their looks, and when there are suitors, they often give them a frosty return. Because of this, they pay special attention to the impression they leave on others. After rejecting their suitors, they usually have some introspection, and their feelings beyond reason gradually cool down, and a kind of worry arises in their hearts. They will think that if it turns out that they are too rude, they will be considered by the other party to be too cruel and uneducated. This is exactly what they care about and don't want to accept. This kind of worry will make them weigh the gains and losses, thus generating a willingness to re-evaluate their suitors. At this time, it is also a great opportunity for suitors to express their feelings, so don't miss the opportunity.
Static braking: Sometimes, women seem indifferent to you on the surface, but in fact, their hearts are full of contradictions, because repeated rejections will make pursuers stay at a respectful distance from each other and may make themselves feel the taste of staying alone in the empty boudoir. And if you chase too closely, women's "defensive instinct" will refuse you, which is also a kind of psychological work of women, such as trying to be brave, refusing to admit defeat and being curious. As long as you can grasp the psychology of women and master the rhythm of chasing, you will be able to win hearts and get happy love.
Get straight to the point: Most women like straightforward expression. Although they are a little embarrassed to express directly on the first date, they will find such a man full of charm, but it is hard to refuse straightforward expression. On the contrary, they hate men who talk in a roundabout way, speak hesitatingly, speak hesitatingly and are too reserved. Therefore, when a man invites a woman, his tone should be straightforward. If the other person doesn't like it, she may refuse it by hinting or finding other reasons. If the other person is silent, you can judge that she won't refuse your invitation. At the same time, you should make her feel that she didn't go to the appointment because she really couldn't find a reason to refuse. By doing so, she can be comforted. She is not a casual girl, and she only went to the appointment because of your hard request.
Attack by innuendo: Women have a psychological defense instinct, and often use words to cover up their original intentions, and they don't like others to tell the truth. If a man is smart enough to tell a woman straight away, it will often cause disgust. Therefore, in the pursuit of women, we must master the art of speaking, observe words, speak tactfully, and master the sense of proportion accurately.
chic and calm: women have a natural instinct of self-psychological defense and are wary of men. They don't like the following two kinds of men, one is stupefied and silent in front of women, and the other is boastful, eloquent and exaggerated in front of women. Both kinds of people are unnatural. Therefore, men should keep their natural qualities of being natural and unrestrained, sincere and natural, so as to eliminate women's alert psychology and win women's hearts.
Resolute and self-reliant: Women want to find a safe haven through marriage. They like men who are resolute, courageous, enthusiastic, bright and responsible, but despise men who are timid, indecisive and hesitant. Therefore, men should fully display the excellent qualities of men in front of women.
unconventional: generally speaking, girls' lives are unremarkable, and their psychology of seeking change is also very strong, hoping that something unexpected will happen to add some changes to their lives. So they don't like rigid, conventional men. Of course, before catering to women's psychology of seeking excitement and change, we must first make them intellectually confirm that you are a steady person, and then we can skillfully break away from convention, create new ideas and make it full of interest. Otherwise, it will be self-defeating, so that women will form the impression that you are frivolous and procrastinating.
preconceived role: the speaker's emotions can infect the audience. Knowing this psychology, I know that one of the ways to impress a woman's heart is through skillful conversation. When talking to a woman, you should always permeate your personal feelings about the event and strengthen the subjective color in the narrative, so as to improve her concern for what you say. Therefore, when talking with women, men should take the lead, seize the initiative, mix their own emotional likes and dislikes in their subjective consciousness, and enthusiastically create a conversation atmosphere. Remember not to suppress your inner feelings and put out the fire of enthusiasm.
Sincerity is the spirit: women like sincere consideration and hospitality, but men who are too attentive will have a feeling of "ulterior motives" and "ulterior motives". Therefore, a good way to open a woman's heart is to be kind and sincere.
Women's mentality is varied and complicated. In fact, there is no master key to solve the mystery of women. What has been described above is only some basic psychological characteristics of women. As a man in the period of love, he should know more about women's psychology, make a concrete analysis according to the specific situation, and use superb skills to seize women's hearts and pick attractive flowers of love.