Both written language and spoken language have their own literary dangers, and both have their own traps lurking around. If you are not careful, you will trip. The former is rigid and will inevitably lose its rigidity and become indifferent. If the narrative is too distant from the object, there will be a lack of sympathy related to pain; The latter is easy to get familiar with slang, get too close to the object and lose the distance of criticism. On the contrary, if the two are well integrated, it is amazing to laugh at the past. In terms of poetry, I think Feng Menglong's Hanging Branches and Folk Songs are excellent examples. Vulgar words are embedded in elegant rules. Is it the rhyme that produces the word "man"? In the novel, when A Dream of Red Mansions is regarded as the top grade, there is a natural transition between written language and spoken language. Fireworks are in power, there is a scene in the world, but there is a fairy road. Looking at the world from the sky, the song cries very realistically and feels very close to the skin, but it is not impossible to see the truth in this mountain. -Wang Anyi's stories and storytelling
Let's stay awake. What ordinary people call love mainly refers to the yearning for an interdependent intimate relationship, mainly hoping that the other person will do his best for himself. In my eyes, this is just mutual fraud and extortion. Optimal interdependence is just a cost-effective transaction, which is beneficial to both sides. Although there are sacrifices to curb anxiety, learning from each other's strengths is the main aspect. -Shi Kang
He is a "hacker", but he will not steal the secrets of the country or others, but he will learn from each other's strengths and copy and paste everyone's strengths.
When you can accept and let go,
Like a fish off the net, a runaway horse, a cloud out of the hole, like a soaring bird, a blooming flower. Deep-rooted, naturally come and go freely, with a clear face and a clear heart. Letting go of contentment is really a way to learn from each other's strengths, seek common ground while reserving differences and let go of contentment. It is also a realm of getting rid of chic and detachment, which really requires enough courage and wisdom.
In life, cooperation is more important than competition. Cooperation can complement each other and stand out from the competition.
I like you because you are not perfect. Because you frankly look at your imperfections and bravely reveal that imperfection. It is impossible to learn from each other's strengths. Often the long ones are no longer long, and the short ones are still short. You know to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. Until all imperfections gradually become perfect, until your perfect soul smiles through the perfect face. You made me believe that wallflower will take root, sprout and blossom as long as it grows towards light. -Bai Bangni's "Seeing Good"
Love is warm friendship, calm understanding, mutual trust, mutual enjoyment and mutual forgiveness. Love is loyalty that is unaffected by time, space, conditions and environment. Love is when people learn from each other's strengths and admit each other's weaknesses. Anne ledes
Learn from each other's strengths. In the communication with friends, we should treat everyone with a modest and friendly attitude. Take friends as teachers and combine useful knowledge with humorous words. What you say will be praised and what you hear will become knowledge.
Personality is the brand of being a person, words and deeds are the connotation of a person, and quality is a person's appearance. Caring for others is a quality, understanding others is a kind of self-restraint, being kind to others is a kind of mind, learning from others is a kind of wisdom, helping others is a kind of happiness, learning from others is a kind of harvest, uniting others is a kind of strength, and learning from each other's strengths is a kind of realm. Work harder, pay more, and leave less baggage; More righteousness and grace, less regret.
Education, we can't learn from each other's strengths and shape our children into a shape; Education should foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, so that every child's advantages can be brought into play.
The mountain height always has a top, but the sky is boundless; Sit on a well and watch the sky small, climb high and look far. Seeking victory and worrying about defeat, learning from each other's strengths will not be short; It's good to know your mistakes and correct them, but it's not shameful to know your shame and then get revenge.
To be tolerant of others is to be kind to yourself. The length of accommodating people: each inch has its own strengths, and the feet are short, so you can learn from each other's strengths; Shortness of breath: gold is not enough, no one is perfect, no peak, no trough; Accommodating personality: the world is colorful, seeking common ground while reserving differences, and there is no need to force it; The merits of allowing people: punting in the belly, racing in the forehead, catching up with each other; Tolerance: people are not sages, to err is human, timely encouragement, endless remedies afterwards.
When people are angry, their IQ is zero.
When you are impatient, your actions will be distorted. It's useless to say anything when you don't trust each other. When you lose your direction, nothing is interesting to do. Of course, the most important thing is to know yourself and consciously start from enlightenment. Only by knowing yourself can we learn from each other's strengths, be conscious and independent. Only when you have since the enlightenment can you play it by ear and do what you want.
Between men and women, good looks not only play a role in inducing love, but also play a role in the early stage of love germination. True love is based on liking, adapting, forgiving and tolerating each other's shortcomings. Only by giving full play to one's strengths and making up for the other's shortcomings can we get real happiness. The true meaning of love between men and women is to complement each other in an all-round way, physically, psychologically and in life. Love, in a nutshell, is that men and women pay each other for complementarity. -Hammer
Someone cooperated.
Learn from each other's strengths. Some cooperate and intrigue, others cooperate and perish together-Yan Xu's Let My Star Don't Cry.
If time can complement each other, maybe we can get together and have a happy ending.
The only constant in the world is exchange. ""Exchange? " "yes. Everyone has value that can be used by others. As long as it is in the interests of both sides, the values of both sides can be used to complement each other. This is an exchange. -Know that Luoshui travels north.
Love is perceptual and rational, perceptual is the foundation and rational is the depth. The more rational, the more unforgettable. "Love stops at ceremony" is not only one of the important signs to distinguish human feelings from animal instinct, but also one of the factors to distinguish sweetness from pain. Don't let love be the whole of life. If you feel a little tired and stressed, agree to meet less, but don't forget to call and send text messages every day, greet each other and care about each other! Just like flying a kite, you should be able to fly freely. Communication and understanding are particularly important when emotional people fall in love with rational people. Communication is a bridge to connect feelings. Only through constant communication can people find their own shortcomings and learn from each other's strengths. Only through continuous communication can we resolve misunderstandings and resolve contradictions in our hearts; Only through continuous communication can we close the distance between people and harmonize emotions. What is needed is the combination of emotional impulse and rational thinking, so as to deduce perfection. ...
Don't force yourself to surpass others, learn to learn from each other.
Because we come from different environments and have different identities and roles, we have different styles. People of different styles form a group and a company, and they will have different ideas and practices on the same problem. At the same time, it is a whole, so if we learn from each other's strengths, cooperation, unity, support and trust are together, the company will form a circle and roll it up.
Attract people with their strengths and show them with their weaknesses. It is better to learn from each other's strengths than to avoid weaknesses. -Kurai, the black spot.
You can learn from each other's strengths and don't wear too much makeup, because you will forget yourself.
People are imperfect and can express themselves freely;
Everyone has his own strengths and is self-reliant; Learn from each other's strengths and have their own points; It feels good to cooperate with nature. The viewpoints and angles are really different, and there are all kinds of wonderful masterpieces of human nature!
what is love ? Love is a responsibility. Two people shoulder the same responsibility, respect and understand each other, and learn from each other's strengths. Love has no middle way, love is a walking ship. When it's calm, the ships sail smoothly, and the green hills on both sides of the strait become commonplace, and the efforts of both sides are unremarkable. When the waves are rough, the ship is on the waves, and the firmness of * * * is the basis for the ship to sail on Wan Li Road.
I miss the innocence of playing house when I was a father and you were a mother in kindergarten.
I miss the innocence of primary school boys and girls when they say something. I miss the romantic plot of small notes flying around exchanging secrets in junior high school. I miss the sincere friendship of learning from each other and making up lessons for each other in high school. Went to college. Time has diluted my vow to be a good friend for life. The distance has alienated the tacit understanding that we have agreed to become bosom friends. So I slowly became indifferent. ...
We always claim that we don't want to conquer the universe, but just want to expand the boundaries of the earth and expand into space; How can we be humane and loving, and how can we be brave and righteous? We don't want to enslave other races, just want to exchange cultures, learn from each other's strengths and develop together; We are the guardians of God's divine will; Wait a minute. In fact, this is just another big lie. When we always like to compare planet after planet with the earth, in our eyes, they are either as desolate as the Sahara desert, as cold as the Arctic, or as rich as the Amazon basin. -Stanislaw Lem's Solaris star.
High-quality people, people help others, help themselves and achieve each other. People with average quality are more frustrated, jealous and resentful than others. Low-quality people, the whole person, the whole self, harm others and harm themselves. The long road of life, positive pay and dedication can have a good return. We should appreciate the advantages of others, learn to learn from each other's strengths, be tolerant, be far-sighted, look to the future, help others more, support others more, help others achieve themselves, and win-win and mutual benefit.
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