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How to solve the insomnia and chest tightness caused by hatred, and hate your parents.

Insomnia means hating people, something makes you sad. There is also hating parents, the most important thing is that if we are not filial to our parents, everything will go wrong, so filial piety comes first.

The first purpose of parents in beating and scolding their children is to make their children mature. Isn’t it because they hate iron and cannot become steel? But the way parents educate their children is excessive. In fact, they are parents who have more hardships. They want their children to be successful and they also want You work hard to make money to support your family, but you also have to face all kinds of unsatisfactory things in life and feel troubled and helpless.

Being filial to your parents and repaying evil with kindness is the most precious and difficult way to repay kindness. It is the most valuable way to increase blessings and reverse destiny. Fast and furious!

Whether the parents are right or not is their business.

How you view them in your heart and eyes is your business!

Emperor Shun, one of the greatest kings in the history of the Chinese nation, was a giant in this regard:

The stepmother was vicious and instigated the unreasonable father and the younger brother born of the stepmother. Together they "designed" to beat and scold him, frame him, and even murder him.

He did not have any resentment. He still treated them with filial piety and repaid them with kindness (repaying kindness with kindness and remembering the source when drinking water is difficult; repaying kindness with kindness is even harder, more valuable).

What’s the result?

Such a filial son and a person who endures humiliation will definitely be favored by God:

Shun's reputation for filial piety spread far and wide, and people naturally attached themselves to him, got close to him, respected him, and had sex with him Live somewhere that will become a thriving market town in just a few years!

The then king, Emperor Yao, discovered this extraordinary talent (note that Shun was just a farmer at the time!), betrothed his two daughters to Shun, and selected him as the leader of the country. In the end, he abdicated the throne to Shun, creating a legend that will last forever.

The ancient wise kings such as Yao and Shun valued virtue and self-cultivation, and governed the country with virtue. The people followed their example. Naturally, the country was peaceful and the people were peaceful, and the weather was smooth. They can be called a model of "governing by doing nothing".

Thus, there is a saying of wisdom in ancient and modern times: "Everyone can be like Yao and Shun."

Aren't you called Dashen and Dawu? Let's take a look at what is said in Buddhism:

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1. Looking at your parents’ faults (such as: believing that your parents are selfish, narrow-minded, incompetent, ugly, humble, poor, partial, irritable, stingy, ignorant, ignorant, strong, etc.) are actually caused by your own karma:

The evil causes I planted in the past will only lead to such bitter consequences in this life - I can only repent, but I have no qualifications to complain, hate, or be unfilial!

What's more, there is also the law of cause and effect hanging in the sky:

Those who are unfilial and disobedient to their parents will lose their fortune and life. Everything will go wrong and nothing will happen during life, and they will fall into evil after death. Tao, and even fall into the endless hell!

How can a Buddhist practitioner who truly understands cause and effect be able or dare to "test the Dharma with one's own body"!

2. Resenting your parents for beating and scolding is actually a sign of not knowing how to "take advantage of your strength to practice":

Parents are the first field of blessing in the world - the most fertile field for accumulating blessings from man and heaven. !

To abandon this fertile land without cultivating it, and to find other ways to seek blessings is simply to seek fish from a tree, to abandon the basics, to be whimsical, foolish and unwise...

Why?

Because countless facts at home and abroad have proven it.

The pain you are suffering right now is also being proven...