You Gong, five generations, has extensive knowledge and good articles. You Zuo is a scholar in the Song Dynasty. The allusion "Cheng Menxue Pear" tells the story of respecting teachers and valuing Taoism.

2. Confucius respects teachers

In the spring of 52 1 BC, Confucius learned that his students had been ordered by the king of Lu to pay homage to the emperor in Luoyang, Kyoto, Zhou Dynasty. He thought it was a good opportunity to ask Laozi, the guardian of Tibetan history in Zhou Dynasty, for his knowledge of "etiquette", so he agreed with Lu and went with the palace. The day after Confucius arrived in Kyoto, he went to the Tibetan History Museum on foot to visit Laozi. Lao Zi, who is writing the Tao Te Ching, heard that the world-famous Kong Qiu came to consult, so he quickly put down his knife and pencil and adjusted his clothes. Confucius saw a healthy old man coming out of the gate, thinking it was Laozi. He hurried forward and respectfully paid tribute to one of Lao Zi's disciples. After entering the hall, Confucius bowed again before sitting down. Laozi asked Confucius why he came. Confucius left his seat and replied, "I have little knowledge and know nothing about the ancient' etiquette system', so I specially asked the teacher." Seeing that Confucius was so sincere, Lao Tzu expressed his views in detail.

After returning to Lu, Confucius' students asked him to explain Laozi's knowledge. Confucius said, "I am a good teacher, knowing the past and the present, the source of rites and music, and the return of virtue." At the same time, I praise Laozi as an example. He said: "bird, I know it can fly;" Fish, I know it can swim; Beast, I know it can run. I can weave a net to catch a running beast, I can tie a swimming fish to a hook to catch it, and I can shoot a flying bird with a good arrow. As for the dragon, I can't know how it took the wind and cloud to heaven. Laozi, it's still evil! "

In terms of educating children, Mr. Lu Xun believes that to educate children well, we must first respect and understand children. "If we don't know them first, the development of children will be more serious."

Once, Mr. Wang held a banquet at home, and his son sat at the same table facing the sea. When eating fish balls, the guests say they are fresh and delicious. Wei Yinghai said, "Mom, fish balls are sour!" " "The mother who thought the child was talking nonsense scolded a few words, and the child's boss was unhappy. After hearing this, Lu Xun tasted the fish that Yinghai had bitten. Sure enough, it's not very fresh. He said with emotion: "It is wrong for children to say that they are not fresh. It seems that we have to respect what the children say! "

There is a story: a businessman in new york saw a pencil salesman in rags. He gave someone a dollar out of sympathy. Soon, he came back, took out some pencils from the seller and apologized for forgetting to take them. Finally, he said, "You and I are both businessmen. You have something to sell." A few months later, when we met again, the pen seller became a salesman and thanked the businessmen in new york. "You gave me back my self-esteem and told me I was a businessman."

Respect for life, respect for others and respect for one's own life are companionship in the process of life and a condition of mental health. -Fromm.

Respect the opinions of others. Never say, "You are wrong." Carnegie