I listened quietly, not knowing how to comfort.
The next day, I accidentally opened the variety show "We Are Real Friends". In the program, Aya said a simple sentence to the sobbing little S: "How can I succeed at once? It took me 65,438+00 years, okay? ! "
I meditated for a long time. That night, I sent a message to my girlfriend: Fighting for yourself is king.
In fact, these words are not for myself.
Looking back on my 32 years of life, I have always been ordinary, always struggling and never stopped?
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? Dream of the world when you are young.
? As long as you work hard, you are sure to win.
I was born at the foot of Xuefeng Mountain in western Hunan. There love bandits, love to do "Xiangxi corpse" such thriller witchcraft.
Adults are superstitious about driving corpses, while children are obsessed with being bandits.
The older children followed suit, hiding in the thorns on the roadside, waiting for an opportunity to jump out and stop the children's way, threatening to leave money for them to pass. Every time I am repaired, I cry and secretly encourage myself: this place, when I grow up, I will never come back!
At the age of seven, my father at the outsourcing site suddenly got into trouble, fell from a height and almost died. After being cured, my father spent more than four years at home. From then on, home is like a boat in the waves, and mother is the only punter.
At that time, my mother often told us: struggle by yourself, there is a way out.
I nodded hard: yes, fight for yourself!
Because the family is poor, there is little pocket money at school. After boarding in junior high school, pickles brought from home and rice at 20 cents in the canteen were enough for me to eat a delicious meal.
Most children in the mountains don't know what's the use of reading, and the classroom is noisy like a big market. I pulled the desk and chair under the blackboard, far from the back seat. I read like a mouse, eating one book after another.
Looking back now, it's not how sensible I was at that time, but that I was poor enough to fight. If I don't fight, I'm a basket case.
I force myself to get up early so that I can enter the classroom early to remember words; Spell a few more math problems after self-study in the evening until the teacher comes.
If in summer, the whole body sticky sweat just smoked mosquitoes afraid to come near me; If the hands and feet covered with frostbite are swollen and itchy in winter, rubbing the table and floor hard will be exercise.
When I study hard, I feel that the world is particularly quiet. Noisy is someone else's, quiet is mine.
Every boat must have a channel, and everyone must have a dream.
At that time, my dream was to get out of this mountain and earn a lot of money, and my parents could spend it as they wanted.
Sometimes I feel so tired that I want to cry, especially when I failed the exam and found myself going crazy.
However, there is a voice crying in my heart: don't cry. As a rural child with no background, don't cry anyway. You should live firmly in this world.
After the college entrance examination, I was admitted to an ideal university.
College really made me walk on thin ice.
The children from the countryside are really brave, and their English is not good, but I chose English. Every class is like listening to a gobbledygook.
I have been confused for a year, and I can't stand it anymore; I kept my parents in the dark. I scraped together 8,000 yuan by tutoring and borrowing money, and signed up for English training outside.
Students stare big eyes and ask, "Are you crazy? English majors also apply for English training classes. Are you rich or out of your mind? "
Yes, I don't have much money. I'm really crazy.
In senior three, I passed with a high score of eight. I wrote tens of thousands of papers in English. Everything makes me feel like I won. I think, if we persist in our struggle, we will certainly gain a lot!
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? Go all the way south after graduation
? Thought there were gold mines everywhere.
I went all the way south before graduation. Guangshen is a gold mine for many people, and I look forward to my gold mine there. ......
In the first year, I tried to survive in Guangzhou;
In the second year and the third year, I worked hard in Shenzhen;
Three years later, I tried, but I didn't dig any gold.
In the fourth year, I returned to Guangzhou to run a factory with my former colleagues.
In the early days of starting a business, suffering, like the flu, is inevitable.
If there is no factory, rent a small warehouse in a private house; If there are no samples, make samples of other people's factories at high prices; If there are no customers, just call one by one and try to plug in.
Most afraid of customers coming to China and factories. We don't have a car or a factory, so we have to pay a high price for a "car company" to let others borrow the factory, falsely claiming that we only do trade, not industry.
Once, an African businessman came to visit the factory. He thought the African was just joking. I didn't know they were fooled by the manufacturers, and their colorful pages were deliberately placed in the exhibition hall; As soon as he entered the exhibition hall, the customer was attracted by his small and mature color pages.
When he left, the customer specially took away his colorful pages with their contact information printed on the back cover.
Helpless, I quickly tore off the bottom seal and threw it far away when the customer got off the bus and went to the toilet. ......
There was no later. ......
After this time, forced by the situation, we borrowed money to rent a tin house. Since then, the factory has finally been established.
The iron house is hot in Leng Xia in winter, which goes against the sky.
One cool summer, friends came to the factory to play; Seeing me sitting in a small office, sweating like a pig, with the suffocating heat in the locked small window overhead, he made fun of me and said that I was taking a sauna.
I gave a wry smile, didn't I?
Because of the time difference, it is common to work overtime all night. The sound of "Ding Dong" from the mailbox in the morning is the most beautiful sound in the world.
In order to win cooperation with a big German company, I stayed up all night and wrote only one email. Unfortunately, my "masterpiece" is still sinking into the sea. ......
In those years, I was most afraid of thunder and rain. I ran in the rain like a madman in the world. I remember Shen Congwen once said: heavy rain washes away everything, but heavy rain can't wash away everything. All tiredness will be remembered by the body and mind.
Industry has become my sustenance. At that time, I ignored my family and my health; I only know that I want to fight for living in this world.
A few years later, the factory is still in operation. However, the current market is worrying and the benefits are not good.
Although I worked hard, I didn't achieve much, only ordinary.
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? Spelling is an attitude towards life.
It is a mature independent brand.
From reading to starting a business, we have been struggling, but we have won and lost, and it is ordinary after all. Work hard and you may win; Spell it. It may still be there.
Maybe someone is thinking, what's the point of spelling? Looking for guilt?
I tell you with 32 years of life experience: fighting is not to die; Struggle is to find yourself.
First, struggle makes you live a full life.
Someone once said: Living is an animal; People can live a full life. This is the charm of being a man.
Fighting makes people live a full life.
After several years of hard work, my job is free; Also became a home, with a happy little family. A friend said: Just be the boss's wife with peace of mind. If you are bored and travel, why bother!
I thought about not being hard on myself, being calm and steady, taking the children and waiting for death slowly.
But the more I think about it, the more I panic. One life, one life. As soon as the eyes are closed, the spring and autumn will pass; When you are old-fashioned, your ears are full of other people's legends and your eyes are full of other people's stories; And myself, as if I had never lived, disappeared without a trace.
Then, what a sad state of mind!
And I have experienced hardships, and now I feel particularly happy, like a bird covered with bugs. The fullness in the spell is as sweet as cotton candy to every gap in life.
Spelling, simple and rude words can enrich life.
Second, it is your attitude towards life and your self-brand.
Some people say that there is only one youth in a person's life; Now, youth is for struggle, and in the future, youth is for memory.
I want to rewrite it: struggle is the norm in one's life. Memories are small comforts that connect the whole life.
Struggle is a life attitude, which will accompany you all your life.
Remember the words of Sun Li, who once blew up his circle of friends? "Now that my children have grown up, I have more time to shoot. Please ask the directors to have a good script and smash me. "
Spell is Sun Li's attitude towards life.
I love watching NBA, and I love Jordan more. Jordan's famous saying has been engraved in my heart: I can accept failure, but I can never accept myself who has never struggled.
Struggle is Jordan's attitude towards life.
I am not Sun Li, let alone Jordan; But also, I hate myself who doesn't struggle.
Spelling is not the monopoly of celebrities or rich people. Fighting is an attitude towards life that everyone can have.
What you are reading and spelling is your attitude towards life and your self-branding!
Third, fight, let you meet more outstanding people and warm yourself.
Because of frequent business trips, I went to many places and met many people.
Love English, let me know many English masters, appreciate their light, and feel that I have been infiltrated.
I love yoga, study abroad, visit the Beatles' meditation place, and make many practitioners, so I love myself more.
Now, I love writing, and I joined Zhou Zuoluo's writing training camp. Here, I have contacted many promising young people, such as Tao Tao and Laki ... Their Excellence makes me feel very warm.
This is the meaning of spelling.
Fighting is not looking for sin; Struggle is to find yourself.
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? The rest of my life, all the way forward.
Please spell better for the rest of your life.
Fighting for ourselves brings us too much warmth. How can I play better in the rest of my life?
First, fight with love.
I have a high school best friend who opened a furniture factory in Foshan 10 years ago. A weak woman, among men, is struggling, as hard as never being married.
However, her WeChat always makes people happy.
Sometimes it is such a message: Dear, we have done 600,000 yuan this month; At this rate, we can pay off our debts this year;
Sometimes the message is: My mother found another male ticket, and I took him to the factory to help me do some work, killing two birds with one stone, haha. ......
Recently, she sent a video in which her 8-year-old sister held her daughter and teased the child to call me "auntie". She typed a string of haha calls across the screen: so cute, I am so worthy of this "aunt".
I think her spell is full of love; Love life, love others and love what you do. With love, you can't stop fighting.
Second, fight with your body.
Fighting is a spiritual journey, but also a physical journey.
Shen Junru, chairman of the China Democratic League, once said, "Only a strong man can undertake arduous undertakings."
The battle is undoubtedly arduous.
Good health and hard work are undoubtedly happy.
If it weren't for decades of intense exercise, Jackie Chan couldn't have made it all the way.
If it is not a long-term early morning training, how can Kobe dominate an NBA era?
Take your body to fight, and your body and mind can reach the final balance.
Third, silence is unknown, and the applause of flowers is floating clouds.
I love to watch the Quyang harmony in Li's version, a flute and a piano, and the mountain sings the valley; Coupled with the quiet forest background, it is really beautiful.
But as Gao Shi, they live in seclusion in the mountains, just playing famous songs and improving their skills. No audience, no stage. And their musical attainments have never been erased.
And our life path is even more unknown; Learn to be alone with yourself. Only when a fool is up can he spell freely, just like Liu Zhengfeng.
Fourth, always be ready to empty yourself and start from scratch.
If I say "time will never stop", you must agree;
But if I say "stalling, that's it", you must think I'm really stupid.
Fight for yourself, don't you?
Spelling is a straight line with no end. All we can do is empty ourselves and go into battle lightly. Every new encounter is like starting a new life, and the fun is self-evident.
Returning to writing and joining Zhou Zuoluo's team is a witness that I have sorted myself out and started over. There are sincere and simple Excellence from the heart; There is love here, peace here, and fighting here.
This is exactly what I want.
For the rest of my life, I will be happy if I love to fight. It has nothing to do with success or failure, and it has nothing to do with you and me.
If a friend loses himself, remember to get it back, because we are fellow travelers!