"Failure is a kind of happiness" is a wise saying handed down by Zheng Banqiao. After a long period of washing and tempering, it is still respected by many wise men and has become their way of life. It cannot be said that "losing is a blessing" is a kind of wisdom that transcends the times. However, the current social situation, after all, is materialistic, money worship, and each one is smarter than the other. In fact, who is more capable of pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and who will "suffer"? Who would think that "loss" is a kind of "blessing"? "Losing is a blessing". Who will play the role of "idiot"? In fact, stupid people are often more blessed. People who have read The True Story of Ah Q may understand the meaning of "losing is a blessing" more easily. An honest and simple person who has been at a disadvantage is more likely to succeed than those who are smart and capable. Suffering naturally means giving up and sacrificing, but when you lose something, you will gain something. Losing is not only a kind of mind, a kind of quality, a kind of grace, but also a kind of calmness, an open mind and a kind of detachment. People who are willing and not afraid of suffering always think well of others and are willing to do more for them. Behind their seemingly retarded, pedantic and cowardly, there is a grand, inclusive and pure world. In this world, he (she) enjoys eternal happiness and happiness. Generally speaking, people who suffer losses will get the sympathy of onlookers, not only win good popularity, but also get more moral support and establish a solid network for themselves. Being willing to suffer losses is a state, a self-discipline and generosity, and a sublimation of personality. In material interests, it is not always generous, but generous. In reputation, it is not superior to others. In interpersonal communication, it is not exclusive but appreciative of others. Being so proud of losing money is bound to win people's respect and appreciation. On the contrary, those who refuse to suffer often suffer. Not only do they suffer, but they often suffer more and suffer big losses. People staged scenes of human farce for their own benefit, not to suffer less, but also to take advantage of others. Greedy people always try their best to calculate others. Behind the disguise of enthusiasm, loyalty and concern, they attack and hurt others more unscrupulously. These people who can't lose always take advantage, even a little profit, they are jealous and itchy. Every time such people take advantage of one point, they lose one point of personality; Every profit you get has lost your dignity. At the same time, there is no free advantage in the world, and those who love to take advantage will pay the price sooner or later. To lose is to take advantage. Just like the truth that "misfortune depends on happiness and happiness lies in misfortune", losses and advantages are interdependent and mutually transformed. Someone once said such a philosophical and thought-provoking saying, "Two words are half the same and the other half different, that is, two words are interrelated." Don't get carried away when something good happens. It will be a disaster if you are too conceited. In case of disaster, don't be confused. Even if you bite your teeth, good things will follow. 99% people in the world finally lost the big bargain because of their greed for small bargains, and only 1% people got the big bargain because they gave up the small bargains.