1. If prevention is the best treatment, then when treating a disease, the cause of the disease must first be diagnosed.
2. People who speak boringly not only don’t understand themselves, they don’t like themselves, and they can’t even maintain their natural nature.
3. If a person is mentally mature and can continue to improve, then he can discuss anything with others without being annoying.
There are always people around us who are neither guilty nor guilty, but can cause great harm to others, just because They always make others feel boring and annoying. As for these boring people or things, we living in this world cannot avoid and avoid them, they can always entangle us. Although medicine is now very advanced and many diseases, including bad breath, constipation, sore throats, headaches, corns, and even hair loss, can be treated, there has been no way to deal with this "boring" disease. Stubborn illness.
If prevention is the best treatment, then when treating a disease, the cause of the disease must first be diagnosed. If this disease could be detected earlier, we would know why Mrs. Thunderbolt did not invite us to the lawn dance held at her home last week. Now let's analyze the conditions and ways that cause this disease - "boring people or things".
Here are some of the most annoying situations. If we know ourselves in advance There are also these situations, and if we try to avoid them in the future life, then, can’t we become lovable people?
1. Talk endlessly when talking about our children or pets?
2. His speech fails to grasp the key points and is rambling
3. Always makes people feel embarrassed
4. Always likes to prove that he is right. No matter what we talk about, we always have to compete with each other
5. The mood is always very low and pessimistic
The above is just a small part of what I have listed, but they will never Stop complaining. Boredom in speech is not only a manifestation of a sick personality, but also a manifestation of personality development.
If a person is mentally mature and can continue to improve, then he can avoid annoying people. Talking about anything with others when you are tired of it will make everything meaningful. People who talk about the same thing will always make it boring, and people with mature minds will make it boring. However, these annoying people can inspire us to work harder to become more mature. It is because of the existence of these people that we deeply feel: If. If we don’t work harder, we will one day become annoying. So, if you want to become more mature mentally, then you must know the eighth principle:
Always be aware of those things in yourself. Annoying behavior.