I don't think a 28-year-old son can resist adversity without dressing up and listening to his parents' advice.

A person's living habits are formed from childhood, and what kind of environment he grows up in will be affected. There is a saying that "those who are near Zhu Zhechi and Mexico are black".

Another, he is 28 years old and has a simple nature.

Don't like carving. Parents can persuade their 28-year-old son to gradually change his indiscretion in the dating stage through patience. Whether you are going on blind date or attending any major event, you should pay attention to your clothes and appearance, which is not only the least courtesy to respect others, but also a show to show your sunny life.

~ I hope your 28-year-old son can get married soon.

Parents should look for reasons from themselves:

First, is it too much, too much and too fine?

Second, do you impose your will on your son?

Third, have you overstepped your responsibilities and suppressed your son's initiative?

4. Is the opinion timely? How to dress up A man can't dress up beautifully and be a girl.

There are too many unmarried people in their twenties and thirties now. I am one of them. I'm thirty-one now, and I haven't met anyone yet. Although I am old, I have no such strong desire to get married, and I never thought I would get married. If you are used to being free, you will feel uncomfortable with one more person around you. If my parents are not in a hurry every day, I really don't want to go.

Senior two went to be a soldier. I have been a soldier for five years and have been back for 28 years. I have arranged many blind dates at home in the past two years. I don't know why it didn't work. Now I'm a little scared and tired of blind date. It is better to let nature take its course. I don't know if I have the same mentality. Now I'm back from the army and have opened a bicycle shop. My life is quite good. I don't know what my future will be like. I just want to live now.

When it comes to dressing up, I'm more casual. I have never deliberately dressed myself, and I don't care so much about what I wear. This may also be the reason why others look down on me. Everyone has their own life, and suddenly it's really embarrassing to have one more person. Is this Dink in other people's eyes? I am afraid to go home now because I am not married in my thirties. Every time I go home, it's a topic. Generally don't want to go back. I don't want to visit my relatives every new year. I just feel like I have to live my life. There is no need to look into other people's eyes and live in their shadows. I'm so tired. Life is so short. It's good to enjoy life. I pay attention to this, that and listen to other people's opinions every day. I think a good man will collapse one day, so I don't think this is an anti-adversity mentality. This is an adult's own thinking and living habits. I don't know if this mentality is good. Anyway, I just live in the moment, just be myself.

Hello, I'm a mind reader and a psychological counselor.

I want to see the situation here.

1.28 year old son is single.

This 28-year-old single situation, in modern society, is not too late to get married, nor too anxious. Nowadays, children have lower requirements for marriage, like freedom and are not bound. Actually, there is no need to get married too early. Because today's children are superior in life and weak in self-reliance, they may not adapt and increase their ideological and economic burden.

Second, I can't dress up. There is still no need to force or observe with your own eyes about dressing up. Everyone wants to be different and attract others' attention, which is the same for everyone. However, due to personal hobbies and different aesthetics of the times, personal dress is also different. Because parents are separated from each other, their aesthetic vision is totally different, so we can't look at young people's clothes or judge them according to our personal hobbies.

Third, do not listen to parents' advice. I am 28 years old. Because of different values, different thinking, different influences of the times and different social environments, parents and children may have fundamentally different ideas. In addition, young people have no lessons and can't tell right from wrong, but they will be influenced by superficial phenomena.

There may be several cases of disobedience to parents.

1, when I was a child, my parents were too strict, which caused psychological confrontation. Conscious confrontation is to let me go east. I know I have to go west when I am wrong. This is a confrontation with my parents to balance my resistance over the years.

You may question your parents' words. Because when I was a child, my children asked me many times about learning or other knowledge, my parents always couldn't answer or simply said they didn't know. Gradually, the children stopped asking questions and felt that their parents didn't know anything, so they still had to find their own way. Therefore, when I grow up, my parents just listen and are not serious.

3, coquetry, do whatever you want. As a result of being too fond of children since childhood, I have developed a fearless and arbitrary behavior style and turned a deaf ear to my parents' words. They may be in a bad mood and have verbal attacks on their parents. Such a child is hard to say. It belongs to the kind that doesn't hit the south wall and doesn't look back, which may be illegal.

It is parents' wish to let their children find the other half, but sometimes it backfires, so we should be as cautious as possible in dealing with this matter. After all, the 28-year-old son should be independent. ...

Isn't it good to let children be themselves? It's a little scary to be in charge of children at the age of 28. If parents are willing to let go, respect him as an adult and give him independence, I believe he will cope well. I hope you can become a child cutting shop owner.

First of all, is being single because you are ugly? Does the so-called dressing up mean wearing a hat and making up? Personally, I think it's okay not to wash your face or clothes as long as it's not dirty or smelly. Anyway, I personally think that if a young man is oily and greasy and smells like eyebrows and eyes, he is not manly at all.

Moreover, parents' advice. Some things have been said by people who have never experienced them, and people will not understand them. Today's society is changing rapidly. The thinking consciousness between the two generations is much worse. It is probably a wrong choice for the old man to get the experience of that year.

Finally, you think that children are mentally ill if they don't obey their wishes, which is a kind of self-deception. You didn't try to understand his real intention. I just think he's sick. He's not a doctor himself. He can't be cured. If he doesn't listen to you, let him go.

We have an old saying, "It is the father's fault that children don't teach." . In fact, as long as the child is not next door to Lao Wang, even if we have to admit the existence of variation, whose child is not our own shadow. ...

From this problem, we can see the anxiety of parents. I hope my son can dress up well so that girls can have a crush on him and find a girlfriend as soon as possible.

However, can you find a girlfriend after dressing up? The child is 28 years old, and he has come of age. I think he has his own ideas about the life he wants. No matter how worried our parents are, they can't follow his life path for him. Why not relax and live a happy life and let the children choose their own path?

Marriage sometimes depends on fate, and the other half is the most important and intimate relationship besides parents, which is related to the happiness of children in the second half of their lives. Will it be difficult for children to find a suitable person because of pressure and parents' worries, or a person who is willing to have food and clothing for life? Therefore, don't hurt your child in an improper way because of love. If you love him, ask him what help he needs, live a good life, try to be a good mother-in-law, do your best to help the child and support him to make his own choices.

Finally, bless your son, find the right person as soon as possible, and find a daughter-in-law who will also satisfy you as soon as possible.

Let's see if the parents' suggestions are correct first. We're talking about children.

28 years old is an adult and has his own decision-making power. Parents' suggestions may not be completely correct. It can be said that there is no right or wrong, and respect the independent personality of an adult.

Whether the parents are rebellious or the children are rebellious, the 28-year-old son should make his own decision.