Shi Tiesheng, 2 1 year-old, went back to Beijing for hospitalization because of leg disease. Since then, he never stood up again, and suddenly lost his legs at the most arrogant age in his life. This tragic disaster befalls him, which is like a thunder to a young life. In his own words, "I was immersed in thinking about death for hours on end." After many struggles between my mind and death, he finally refused to die. It was his mother's love that aroused his will. He decided to turn his heart into a fertile soil, and his mother planted the first seed on it. Then, it was an old couple, a young singer, a female teacher, a long-distance runner and a mentally retarded girl ... People who encouraged and moved the author countless times inadvertently created a forest of life, where the author found the meaning of life and came strong.
However, in the face of setbacks and hardships, some people choose to strangle their own lives: the famous French writer Mo Bosang cut his throat with a paper knife; Spanish writer maliano? There was a dull gunshot from Laura's house; German playwright Kleist committed suicide with his wife; Haizi, a contemporary poet in China, committed suicide by lying on the track after leaving a sentence "Facing the sea, flowers bloom in spring" ... These facts are shocking. The fundamental reason is that he is not responsible for life and does not pay attention to life, leaving only sighs and regrets to the world.
Life is only once for each of us, and I think we should make good use of it. It is true that there are many ups and downs in life, but this should not be a reason to escape from life. Whose life is smooth sailing? Instead of ending your life in sorrow and pain, why not take it as an opportunity for us to hone ourselves? How can I see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? It is with these exercises that we can appreciate the joy of life. We should know how to love life, pay attention to the tempering of life, experience friendship and responsibility, learn to cherish ourselves and realize the meaning and value of life. The ancients also knew that "growing beard and hair" was called "given by parents". How can we contemporary youth not cherish our own lives? Respect for life is the minimum responsibility of a life; Respecting life is a life's respect for its mother.
The author's simple sentence should become a famous saying: "All the sufferings of the son are doubled by the mother." This immediately reminds people of the back of Zhu Ziqing's prose "Father goes to buy oranges". This also reminds me of my mother sitting under the lamp with glasses knitting me a sweater and tucking me in the middle of the night. We should know about family relations. I gave up my life, escaped the pain, but transferred the pain to my mother. Is it true that our mother was born to suffer for us? Do you really have the heart to think that your mother is destined to be the most painful mother in the world? Do you really want your mother to cry alone in the dead of night? Mother loves us deeply and silently dedicates her life to her children. She has done so much for us children, what can we do for her? Even if you don't live for yourself, you live to love and repay your mother, otherwise it will break your mother's heart.
Which mother wants to see a young life die? But sometimes, she is afraid to say it, for fear of stimulating the children. Shi Tiesheng lives in a wheelchair every day. His mother made the words "jump" and "run" disappear from his mouth so that he wouldn't be hurt again. We should also be moved by this detail, which is a silent great maternal love.
Shi Tiesheng did not give up his life, but stubbornly survived, and there was another rookie in the literary world. When his first article was published, he wanted to share his happiness with his mother, but her mother didn't leave any meaningful vows or teachings for him to abide by, just let him live and simply treat life well. The author felt her mother's indomitable will and unassuming love. It's a pity that his mother doesn't know, and has been guarding him forever in the end of the world.
Isn't this our life? After a lot of things are lost, we know how to cherish them and how precious they are, but sometimes it's too late. This is especially true for your parents. "The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop, and the child wants to be raised, but not near" (quoted from Han Shi Zhuan). Why did he wake up when he felt regret? Or when parents are around, be nice to them, and wolves feed back, let alone people? What parents care about is not how good you are to them, but what they want you to do well. The author has asked many times: "Why should I live?" I answered in my mind: for my mother, for my relatives, for my dreams, for my unfinished responsibilities.
In fact, Shi Tiesheng wrote not only his maternal love, but also the love between the old couple, his brother's care for girls with mental retardation, and the author's love for female engineers. These rich feelings are enough to sublimate people's hearts, narrow the distance between people and warm social relations. These are the meaning of life, but also the reason to make people strong. The article is full of thinking about the meaning of life and exploring the goal of life, encouraging people to be kind to life.
I thought of the society in which we live. In reality, busy people live under intense and heavy pressure, the pursuit of interests and material desires under market conditions, the invasion of unhealthy lifestyles in the open form, the expansion of the dark side of society, and the subversion of China's excellent traditions by some western cultures, which makes people's thoughts increasingly narrow and impetuous, and some people are complacent and pessimistic, self-destructive and decadent. Compared with 20 or 30 years ago, compared with the positive situation of unity and stability of the whole society, where will our society go?
When you are at a loss, lose your goal, or even begin to sink, it highlights the guiding role of excellent culture. Education is the way to spread and develop this culture, and excellent works are the best carrier of this culture. This article by Shi Tiesheng is thought-provoking and can influence and correct those almost lost hearts.
At the same time, it also tells us to think calmly about sudden misfortune and not to act rashly. Sometimes, your own reflection and awakening are more effective than others' reminders. Shi Tiesheng suddenly lost his legs, his temper became very irritable and moody, and his hope for life became more and more slim. After years of meditation in a wheelchair, he spent a desperate and manic youth, and matured deep thoughts in middle age, realizing that it was useless. So he chose to think calmly.
In fact, calmness is a high-standard quality. Zhuangzi said: People should not consider running water, but stop water. It means to judge a person by his actions rather than his silence. Since ancient times, meditation sayings such as "don't be humiliated or shocked" and "change with constancy" all reveal some reverence for a quiet and calm mind. Shi Tiesheng thought about how to live and die. Speaking of life, he has so many troubles and brilliant flowers. Speaking to death, he talked about everything, from his mentality and way to the corpse and cemetery, which is quite funny ... We can see from Shi Tiesheng's words that a person's inner ups and downs have never stopped, and at the same time, he interprets calmness and calmness in this person's inner ups and downs.
It is precisely because he did a good job of thinking calmly and facing life calmly that he stubbornly survived, instead of desperate choice of death. All this reminds me that at the beginning of the year, Ma Jiajue, a student of Yunnan University, brutally killed four classmates and friends and solved the problem recklessly. The reason for the killing was an argument during playing cards. This case, which happened on campus and happened to students with higher education, shocked the whole society and sounded the alarm for our education. People can't help asking why he is so indifferent to life. Why can't you think calmly and deal with the problem reasonably? I think this involves the problem of university education: while cultivating students' skills and knowledge, universities should pay special attention to the tempering and forging in the spiritual field, integrate rationality and virtue, and let every student who goes to society know how to love, know how to love and know how to pay, face life correctly and cultivate a student with sound personality to contribute to society. This is also the basis for establishing a harmonious, positive, progressive and inclusive humanistic environment. & ltBR & ltp> Of course, it requires the joint efforts of the whole society to cultivate these spirits and cultivate a sound personality, and I think the school bears a great responsibility in these. In the Confucius Temple in Qufu, China, there is a scenic spot called "Xingtan", which is a classroom or a podium in the present words. According to legend, Confucius gave lectures here and publicized his political ideals and ideas. The so-called "three thousand disciples, seventy-two sages" refers to the great influence of scholars, which makes future generations deeply realize the extraordinary role of education in cultivating people and social life. The responsibility of school education is not only to provide the motive force to promote social development, but also to ensure the direction of social progress.
Ditan and Me plays a cultural guiding role, praising great maternal love, calling on people to think about life, enhancing their concern for society and guiding people in the right direction. If there is a deviation in the orientation of culture, what a terrible disaster it will bring to all mankind-how many scholars in the field of culture and thought in Germany became pawns of Nazi thought during World War II, waving flags and shouting for Nazi thought? Therefore, Ditan and I play a very important role in educating people.
Now, China is in a period of reform, opening up and transformation. People's ideological activities are more and more independent, selective, changeable and different. Young students' thoughts are quite active, and there are many puzzles and problems in their thoughts. For example, how to treat such contradictions and problems in social life; How to deal with the relationship between national development and personal success; How to improve one's ideological and moral level and civilized quality requires education and guidance. The thinking of young people will ultimately determine the development direction of the country. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen the ideological and moral education of college students, especially in universities. We should resolutely use correct public opinion to guide people and inspire people with excellent works, so that young students can love the Party, the motherland, the people and the cause of Socialism with Chinese characteristics, set up lofty ideals, aspire to serve the motherland and push our nation to take off again. In these respects, "Ditan and I" has given us a warning-we should face setbacks bravely, treat life correctly, don't give up easily, understand, be strong and so on. , has a good guiding role.
Shi Tiesheng's articles make people learn to be grateful, to be strong and to face it squarely. It also allows us to explore the soul and ask questions about life, and deepen our understanding of the meaning of life.