A scholar dies as a bosom friend, and a woman is her lover. This sentence is so famous that even ordinary people with low educational level can blurt it out easily and use it flexibly and appropriately in their own expressions. However, people don't know or care about the origin of this sentence. In fact, in the historical records, the first person who said a sentence also practiced the requirements of this sentence with his own actions. It can be said that he really achieved the unity of knowledge and action. Zhao Ce Yi, the Warring States Policy, said that Sun Yurang, the son of Jin Biyang, started from Fan Zhongxing's house without saying anything, but went to Zhi Bo and Zhi Bo to spoil him. However, Zhi Bo was the most resentful, so he took his head as a drinking vessel. Yu rang fled to the mountain and said, "Wow! A scholar dies as a bosom friend, and a woman is her lover. I will avenge Shi Zhi's death. " The meaning of this passage is that at first, the grandson of Biyang, a chivalrous man in the state of Jin, was transferred to work for Fan Zhongxing's family. However, it will not be reused. So he defected to Zhi Bo. Sure enough, Zhi Bo likes him very much. Later, Han, Zhao and Wei divided the land in Zhibo. Among them, Zhao Xiangzi hated Zhi Bo the most, and used Zhi Bo's skull to make wine vessels. At this time, Yu rang fled to the mountains and said, "Alas! People with lofty ideals die for those who appreciate themselves, while women dress for those who like themselves. Therefore, I must avenge Zhibo. Later, Yu Rang went through various hardships, such as squatting across the bridge, going to the toilet and swallowing charcoal, but failed to assassinate Zhao Xiangzi many times. Finally, he committed suicide and became one of the famous The Four Assassins in the Spring and Autumn Period. If we only trace it back to Yurang, the origin of "women are pleasing to themselves" is obviously not over. Its original source is Bo Xi in The Book of Songs. Bo Xi Bo Yao Xi Xi, the country of Xi. Bo was also the first king. From the east of Bo, my head is like a flying canopy. No ointment? Who is suitable for it! It's raining, it's raining and the sun is shining. I am willing to talk, I am willing to take the first disease. How can I get grass? The back of the tree. I am willing to think about it, which makes me feel very uncomfortable. This poem can be simply translated as: My husband is a tall and heroic man and an outstanding talent of the country. The husband is the CEO and the pioneer of the king. Since my husband went to the East to fight, my hair has spread like a cornice. Where is it because there is no shampoo? Who should I dress up for? God, if you want to rain, go underground happily, but it's another sunny day. I miss my husband wholeheartedly, so I am willing to have a headache. Where can I find a girl without sadness? Just plant it in the north of the house. I miss my husband wholeheartedly, so I have become a heart disease. "Who is suitable for tolerance" is the origin of "women tolerate themselves". "Women are tolerant of themselves" expresses the general mentality of women. Because vivid images were repeatedly written and used by later poets. For example, the following two famous words. Bodhisattva Man, the mountains overlap and the gold disappears in Tang Dynasty: Wenshan overlaps and the gold disappears, and the clouds want flowers and cheeks to snow. Too lazy to draw a moth eyebrow, too late to make up and wash. Look in the mirror before and after the flowers, and look at the flowers. The new post is embroidered with lolo, all of which are golden partridges. Pay attention to why you are lazy in drawing moth eyebrows and are late for makeup and washing. "On the Phoenix stage, I remember playing the flute, fragrant and cold gold. Song dynasty: Li Qingzhao was fragrant and cold, turned red, and got up to comb her hair. Ren Bao is full of dust, curtain hook. I am afraid that I will leave my arms, but I don't want to say anything. New arrivals are thin, not dry wine, not sad autumn. Do not rest. If you go back, it's hard to stay even if you read "Yangguan" a thousand times. Read Wu Lingren, smoke locks Qin Lou. Only the running water in front of the building should remember me and stare at me all day. Looking at the place, I have added new worries since then. Come on, get up and comb your hair. Ren Bao is full of dust, curtain hook. " And lazy than ""painting a moth eyebrow, it's too late to wash makeup. "A deeper layer, twice as strong feelings. Because the latter still has expectations, although expectations often fail. And Li Qingzhao, can't wait for the person in her heart anymore. It's really fascinating to read.