How can I not have so many troubles? People, growing up in different environments, gender and age, time and wisdom, get different answers, and they can't finish talking for three days and three nights! Happiness has no end. If there is an end, it is also lost, cruel, and realistic, alas! Sister, you are going in the wrong direction. Forget that you are a woman. You are confused and lost. Calm down first, and you will be wise and won't worry. People live for themselves, and themselves are the most important. If they lose themselves, they will cause unnecessary trouble, sadness and pain. So why bother? In fact, the answer is very simple, with heart and wisdom. "What you know is happiness, and happiness is not why." "Don't understand is trouble, sadness, pain and fatigue. Why? Why "? Fighting for the world is a man's business. As long as a woman has the wisdom and heart to find a good partner to be her wife, if love and bread can be owned at the same time, the rest need not be too nerve-racking. Little sister has no ability to answer your questions from different angles. What you are asking is that if I help you solve it, it will not help you much, and it will happen again in the future. I'll tell you why. If you had a direction, you wouldn't make the same mistake. We must find the direction of this question before we can answer it correctly. Just like we are psychiatrists and old Chinese medicine practitioners, we can't understand the patient's condition and can't prescribe drugs. First of all, I want to know whether "irony is what you want" or "truth" is hard to hear. If the following reply does not satisfy you, or is offensive, please read more, understand and forgive. My little sister doesn't ask for success or failure. She just wants to take this opportunity to let you know more about other things, which may help you find your way and shorten some hardships. Ignorance will hurt you forever, so teaching and scolding are two sides of an organic whole. Please be considerate of Miss Sister's painstaking efforts, and please be prepared! There is an old saying that it is happy to love a very painful person and be loved at the same time. I will choose the person who loves me first. At the very least, I will not be lovelorn and will not suffer from the pain of cone heart. Being loved will be happier and sweeter. Tell him to run east, but he dare not run west. Even if you do something wrong and lose your temper, he will tolerate you. Any vigorous love must be based on facts and reality, so as not to deteriorate. Without the support of facts and reality, love is just a spring dream. There is such a famous saying since ancient times: "butterfly lovers has been amorous and carefree since ancient times", which is an eternal story. In the end, Ma Wencai, who couldn't stand the fact, broke up a couple and became a permanent regret. The so-called "couples without money are always sad"! In today's real life, "money is not everything, and nothing can be done without money." Without foundation, everything is empty talk, which will only increase the pain. Love can't be all water. It's not enough to talk in your sleep with your mouth when you have time. If you are a woman, what is a woman? In fact, women don't want much They are looking for a sense of security. Love and marriage are women's life's work, but they are part of men, so women will seriously consider whether the man she is with is a general. A slave? Or a sentence: "Say yes, the world is invincible, do well, and the hollow radish is powerless?" Choose bread, you will laugh to death, choose love, I will starve to death. "You said I was a woman, which one would I choose?" Woman 17 to 30 years old is the age when men all over the world are willing to invite her to dinner. Let's go well, make use of God's grace to women, and choose a sense of security with your heart. Don't lose your mind because of a feeling, an emotion and a loneliness, and be buried in the hands of a hollow radish. If you have only a little money every month and can't afford a car or a house, you have nothing to do now. Who will your parents' filial piety depend on in the future? What should I do if I am sick? Where is your sense of security? Men who can make women comfortable abound in the world, and even fewer men can make women comfortable and happy. "Find them with wisdom and heart." In fact, you are smarter than me, smarter than me. There is a saying: a wise man should not only use his own wisdom, but also use the wisdom of others. Find it yourself. You can simply post a few words online, and then you cut off half my head and write a few more words. Then all my experiences, my little head, will be dug up for you! Finally, your "quiet wisdom is stupid" is too harmful. But don't tell me that I fainted! People realized it later, so you can tell. If you follow the previous method and use wisdom and initiative, are you still afraid that you will not live what you want or what others want? Still unhappy? What are the pains and troubles there? . . What is there to worry about? Final conclusion: Be careful that your biggest enemy is yourself. Don't be hurt by laziness in your head, laziness will kill your hands and feet and make you tired all your life. This is not an article, this is experience, I did it, it's up to you, come on! Come on! Both failure and success are in your mind. Destiny and opportunity should be in our own hands. Don't go the wrong way. Remember: act, no, just talk and not do. 2008 is a year of hope, and everyone encourages each other. Someone on the internet asked me, are you a doctor? Hee hee,,, the same as the real thing. Want to make a doctor friend? Anti-counterfeiting number: QQ526074534, old Chinese medicine practitioner. In the future, we are destined to need services. Chinese medicine, psychological counseling and love all provide professional services in QQ! All rights reserved, plagiarism and plagiarism will be investigated! ] The little girl's painstaking efforts are patented. In the healthy competition, come on! Give play to your own personality and brand, stand aside, and don't tell people that "Jiang Lang is exhausted, and his fame died young"! Thank you!