Ceng Zi's thought of killing pigs 1 The Chinese nation is a country with a glorious history of 5,000 years, shining with brilliant civilization created by people's hard work and wisdom. Chinese virtues are also gradually shining in our development and progress, so we have the reputation of "China, a country of etiquette". Throughout the ages, one historical story after another has taught us one excellent Chinese virtue after another. What impressed me most was the story of Ceng Zi killing pigs and Ceng Zi killing pigs, which was about a student of Confucius named Ceng Zi.
Once, Ceng Zi's wife was going to buy food. Because the child was crying, she promised to come back and kill the pig for her son. When his wife came back, she saw that Ceng Zi was killing pigs, but her wife stopped her. I'm just kidding, don't take it seriously. But Ceng Zi said, "Children are not sensible. They will only learn from their parents and listen to their instructions. Now you are teaching him to lie by coaxing him! " In desperation, the wife had to agree. In our daily life, we should also learn to keep our promises like Ceng Zi.
I remember once, when I was in the third grade, I had to do my homework for an hour after dinner every day, but it was the weekend and I wanted to relax on the Internet. When my father saw it, he immediately stopped me and said; "The homework hasn't been finished yet; Why do you come to play computer? " Then he said; I just heard the sentence "You can play for a while after finishing your homework". I ran into the study at lightning speed and began to write. I finished my homework in less than half an hour. I am about to fulfill my father's promise. But he canceled my plan to play computer games on the pretext that I made two mistakes in my homework. You know, that was my expectation for a week, and I was very wronged. After all, it is terrible to be cheated.
Confucius said in ancient times; "People don't believe it and don't know what to do." I think honesty is honesty and trustworthiness, and it is the basic principle of our life. If people don't keep their promises, there will be no place in society and nothing can be done. Honesty is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and an important symbol of modern civilization. It is not only the way to be a man, but also the foundation of being a man, and it is also the moral cornerstone for contemporary people to shape a healthy personality and realize the value of life.
A few days ago, I read the fable "Ceng Zi killed a pig", and I was deeply moved after reading it.
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The story tells that a father named Ceng Zi and his wife are going on a business trip, but their children are clamoring to go with them. So the wife coaxed the child and said, "Baby, be good! Let your father kill the pig for you when we come back. " Hearing this, the child obediently went to play. As soon as he comes back, Ceng Zi will kill the pig with a broadsword. At this time, his wife quickly grabbed him and said, "I'm joking with the child." Do you really want to kill pigs? " ! "But Ceng Zi said," this is where you are wrong. You can't take back your promise to the child. Keep your promise! "
In reality, examples like Ceng Zi's wife are not uncommon. For example, in our family, one hour after dinner every day is my time to practice the piano, but one weekend I want to relax on the Internet, and my father promised me to play computer after playing the piano. I am very happy. I finished practicing the piano seriously, and I will fulfill my father's promise soon, but he canceled my plan to play computer because I was looking around while practicing the piano. You know, this is what I've been looking forward to all week. I'm too bent. After all, it feels bad to be cheated!
Nowadays, in most families, parents often don't keep their promises. Alas, where did these parents learn their morality? Aren't they afraid of affecting the next generation? Don't you know how serious the consequences will be? However, we children should be sensible and let adults save snacks so as not to be fooled!
So in ancient times, they attached great importance to children's education and knew how to teach children well from an early age. Why do they attach so much importance to it? Because the child was born, it was not polluted by society, and it was very pure. At this time, you teach him well, and if you teach him well, he will be fine; You teach him evil, and he becomes evil. If you teach him to read, he will be catchy; You teach him to be friendly with his brothers and sisters, and he will be friendly. When you tell him a story, he will remember it firmly. Therefore, it will be a great pity to miss the time when children are studying.
Ceng Zi's thought of killing pigs 3 Honesty and trustworthiness are the traditional virtues of our Chinese nation. Being honest and trustworthy means not telling lies, being sincere to others and trying to do what you promised others.
In this summer vacation, I read the classic China Ancient Fables. I was deeply attracted by the story "Ceng Zi killed the pig". This story tells that Ceng Zi's wife is going to the market and her son wants to go with her. She told her son not to leave until his mother came back to kill pigs and burn meat for him. Hearing this, the son stayed at home. Later, just after Ceng Zi's wife came back, Ceng Zi was going to kill the pig. But his wife stopped him, saying that she was joking with the children, and told Ceng Zi not to take it seriously. I heard that, Ceng Zi said seriously, children are still young, and the ability to distinguish is learned from adults. Now that adults lie to him, they are teaching children to learn to lie! How can you educate your children like this? Finally, Ceng Zi killed the pig and made his son eat delicious pork.
Ceng Zi's approach is very correct. He made his wife understand that he should keep his promise to his children and try his best to fulfill his promise to them. He also set a good example for his son to see that his parents said and did the same, and then he would understand that he should do the same in the future. Only when words and deeds are consistent can we be honest and trustworthy.
Ceng Zi told us by example that in order to do a good job, even for children, we should keep our word, be honest and not cheat, and example is more important than words. All parents should be as honest as Mr. and Mrs. Ceng Zi and influence their children and the whole society with their own actions. But now there are all kinds of unhealthy tendencies in society, and some adults and children say things that will soon be forgotten; Some adults let their children do things, but they can't persist; Some adults will teach their children a lesson when they see that their children are disobedient, but they never think that their children often play mahjong ... If this situation continues, how can we educate our next generation? I hope all our elders can think carefully when they do things. You are right to do so. Because parents are role models for children, you must think of our children! You must keep your promise in front of the children and never break your word. Let us inherit and carry forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation and let them be passed down from generation to generation. composition
One sunny morning, Ceng Zi's wife finished washing and put on a clean blue cloth, ready to go to the market to buy something. She didn't go far from home, and her son kicked her out from behind in tears, clamoring to follow. The child is not big, and the market is far from home, so it is inconvenient to take him. So Ceng Zi's wife said to her son, "Go back and wait at home. I'll be back as soon as I finish shopping. Don't you like to eat pig's trotters and pork intestines stew? I'll kill the pig and cook it for you when I come back. " This also works. Hearing this, the son immediately quieted down and watched his mother leave alone.
When Ceng Zi's wife came back from the market, she heard the sound of catching pigs in the yard before she set foot in the house. When she walked in the door, she saw that it was Ceng Zi, and she was preparing to kill the pig to make good food for her son. She hurried forward to stop Zhang Da and said, "There are only a few pigs at home, and they are all killed on holidays. How can you take my words of coaxing children seriously? " Ceng Zi said, "You can't lie in front of the children. They are young and ignorant, they often learn knowledge and listen to their parents. If we say anything to deceive him now, it is tantamount to teaching him to deceive others in the future. Although the mother can fool the child for a while, she won't believe her when she knows that she has been cheated. In this way, it will be difficult for you to educate your children. " Ceng Zi's wife felt that her husband's words were very reasonable, so she sincerely helped Ceng Zi to kill pigs, remove hair, remove bones and cut meat. Soon, Ceng Zi's wife cooked a sumptuous dinner for her son.
After reading this story, I was deeply inspired. I see, no matter what you do or say, you must keep your promise. It is better to deny it immediately than to promise for a long time. Adults and children should do what they say, just like the father in the article, and set an example in front of the children.
If you slip, you can stand up at once; If you break your promise, you may never get it back. In life, if you are dishonest, your friends will leave you. People who have lost their credit are dead in this world, and others no longer trust you. Continue to live, leaving only the feeling of boredom, tasteless, loneliness and exclusion.
People without faith don't know what they can do. Students, let's be a trustworthy person. In this way, your life will be more colorful, because the most important thing in interpersonal relationships is sincerity, and it must be from the heart. Honesty is an invincible sword in society, and you should take it with you wherever you go.
Ceng Zi's Thought of Killing Pigs 5 China is an ancient civilization, known as the "state of etiquette". In the long history of China, there are many famous stories. The descendants of China people all have noble qualities, such as "Silly Julie takes the rap", which shows loyalty and honesty; "I don't know if I don't know" reflects the courage to blame myself; Ceng Zi's teaching children to kill pigs shows people's honesty.
Today, I carefully read 《 Ceng Zi Kill Pigs to Teach Children 》. This story mainly tells the story that Confucius' students once took part in "coaxing children" and slaughtered the pigs that should be slaughtered at the end of the year and burned them for children to eat. I think to tell the truth, we should pay attention to every little thing in our daily life and impart knowledge and truth from it. The typical case of killing pigs in Ceng Zi can be used as a reference for us to ask ourselves and answer questions and educate others today.
In fact, it is honest to keep your word and not talk empty words. That is what the ancients called "sincerity", which means honesty and trustworthiness. This is what the so-called "words must be kept, actions must bear fruit, and words must be sincere" means.
I think "honesty" is different from "honesty". This is a moral principle that everyone must abide by. Because it involves our relationship with friends and our collective interests. If we always talk empty words and break our promises, others will be hurt by your dishonesty. Therefore, before the ancient political reform, Shang Yang established an atmosphere of mutual honesty and trustworthiness. However, in a lot of daily chores, "sincerity" often needs our conscience to consciously abide by it. As I said just now, "Ceng Zi kills pigs to teach children" is like this.
We are in a critical period of socialist development in China. The unprecedented great achievements in the history of China need us to create. We are the masters of tomorrow, and our motherland is calling us. Our generation is full of vitality and indestructible. We must have the goal of putting people's interests above everything else, having others in mind, having the collective in mind and having the motherland in mind. Let it be a beautiful starting point of our life, and let integrity walk with us and succeed!
Ceng Zi's Thoughts on Killing Pigs 6 "Killing Pigs in Ceng Zi" tells the story of a day when Ceng Zi's wife was going to the market and the children left crying. The wife coaxed the child and said, "Don't go, I'll come back and let my father kill the pig for you." Hearing this, the child really stopped crying. When she came back from the market and saw that Zeng Zi really wanted to kill pigs, she quickly stepped forward to stop: "I am fooling the children. How can you take it seriously? " Ceng Zi said, "If you cheat your children, they won't trust you. Our parents should set an example for their children. You lied to him today, and he will lie to others in the future. How can this go on? " He killed the pig. Ceng Zi didn't cheat children, set an example for them and cultivated the virtue of keeping his promise.
After reading it, I thought: integrity means loyalty and integrity, consistency in words and deeds, and consistency in appearance. Keeping promises means keeping promises and not cheating. These ancient sayings, which have been passed down for thousands of years, vividly express the honesty and trustworthiness of the Chinese nation. In thousands of years of civilization in China, people not only praised the virtue of honesty and trustworthiness, but also tried to practice it. Confucius taught his disciples to be honest as early as XX years ago. In study, you know what you know and you don't know what you don't know. He thinks this is the correct attitude towards learning.
In the old days, in front of shops in China, there were generally eight big characters: "Genuine goods, no deceit". Since ancient times, in the sale of goods, we have advocated fair trade, honest hospitality, no fraud, no fraud. In contemporary China, the virtue of honesty and trustworthiness has also been carried forward. This virtue is manifested in work and study, that is, love and dedication, earnest and practical, and seeking truth from facts; What is shown in the interaction with people is sincerity and mutual trust; Shown in the attitude towards the country and the collective, it is law-abiding, loyal and honest.
Honesty is a quality, which is reliable and rich, so that all qualities can stand the baptism, and all declarations are worthy of people's trust.
Honesty is a kind of power, which can make you learn to reject colorful temptations, abandon your inner impetuousness and protect your inner pure land.
Honesty is a fortune, which will make you reap unexpected fruits from time to time and make your life full of rich fragrance forever.
So former US President Washington said, "I hope I have enough firmness and virtue to keep the title I think is the most enviable among all titles: honest man."
Ceng Zi's Thoughts on Killing Pigs 7 "Ceng Zi Killing Pigs" is a story that has been circulated in the history of China for nearly 2500 years. This story is recorded in the book Everything is done wrong. The story describes a small matter in family life with a simple plot, but it has left a very profound reference for people. After 2500 years, it still has a breath close to you and happens in front of you.
Ceng Zi in "Ceng Zi Kill the Pig" is a very humorous person, and this humor has a kind of brilliance, which shines indelibly in our darkness.
The darkness mentioned here is far from the dull state of nature. It is a kind of perplexed and tangled embarrassment. Described as darkness, it means that a person can't find light like truth in a cave in the middle of winter. It seems that Ceng Zi is an educator with outstanding knowledge, foresight and wisdom, and also a great philosopher.
Whether Ceng Zi is a fictional character or not, we don't need to study it. In short, the name sounds like a scholar. Ceng Zi's killing pigs implies the importance of honesty, so what's the pity of paying the price? Three serious life topics are revealed here: first, people can't talk nonsense, and they will pay a price for talking nonsense. For example, a pig with high value was tragically slaughtered, and more money could have been exchanged to make up for the warmth. Second, the relationship between adults and children is actually a social relationship. You can talk nonsense just because he is your child, but you can play with the younger generation with the seniority of your elders. This is a very irresponsible attitude. Parents must be honest, otherwise it will affect children's trust in their parents. Third, knowing that you are wrong, in addition to paying the price, is to provide yourself with a warning and warning. Killing a pig, for Ceng Zi, whose family is not rich, can be compared with the income of growing rice in one year, or even more.
Judging from the plot arrangement of the whole story of Ceng Zi Killing Pigs, it seems exaggerated, but it is actually plain and powerful, with profound implications. I will feel very humorous when I first read it; You will be amazed when you watch it the second time; The third time you look at it, you will feel heavy. Think about how much we need a large number of "Ceng Zi" characters who dare to "kill pigs" in order to protect integrity, but in fact it backfires. People often break their promises and regard the market rules and norms in social relations as games. The sad case of this society is heartbreaking. composition
Ceng Zi's thought of "killing pigs" 8 "Honesty is the foundation of people" comes from Lu Xun's wisdom. Today, I read the honest story "Ceng Zi Killed the Pig", and my mood was as restless as a raging sea for a long time. Ceng Zi Killing Pigs mainly tells a story: Ceng Zi is a student of Confucius. Once, Ceng Zi's wife was going to the market. Because the child was crying, Ceng Zi's wife promised to help him kill the pig when he came back. After Ceng Zi's wife came back from the market, Ceng Zi caught pigs and killed them. His wife stopped him and said, "I'm just joking with the children." Ceng Zi said, "You can't joke with children. If children are not sensible, they should learn from their parents and listen to their instructions. Now you are lying to him, that is, teaching children to lie. " So Ceng Zi killed the pig. Ceng Zi knew that honesty and trustworthiness were the basic principles of being a man. If you don't kill the pig by mistake, the pig at home will be saved, but it will leave an indelible shadow on the mind of a pure child.
Ceng Zi in this article is really a man of his word. No wonder he is called Zongsheng by the world. People like Ceng Zi are indispensable, and Han Xin is one of them. Han Xin, the founding hero of the Han Dynasty, lived with his brother and sister-in-law when he was a child and lived on leftovers. Little Han Xin helps his brother during the day and studies hard at night, but his mean sister-in-law still hates his reading, and thinks it is useless to read. So Han Xin had to sleep on the street, hungry. There is an old lady who works as a servant for others. She sympathized with him, supported him in his studies and gave him food every day. Facing the sincerity of the old woman, Han Xin was very grateful. He said to the old man, "I must repay you when I grow up." The old woman smiled and said, "I'll bury it when you grow up." Later, Han Xin became a famous soldier and was named King of Chu by Liu Bang. He still remembers the old man who helped him.
So he found the old man, took him to his palace and treated her like his mother. In life, I am also a good boy who stresses honesty. Once, I broke a vase at home. I'm so scared that I don't know if I should tell my mother. When my mother came back, she asked me who broke the vase at home, and I admitted my mistake. My mother not only didn't criticize me, but also praised me, saying that I had the courage to admit my mistake and was an honest boy.
After reading Ceng Zi's Kill the Pig, I benefited a lot. I understand that honesty is the foundation of being a man. If there is no honesty, it is like losing the most precious thing. We must be honest people!
Ceng Zi's thought of killing pigs 9 Honesty is a traditional virtue handed down from generation to generation by our Chinese nation. Being honest with others will light the lamp of life.
Honesty is a warm hand extended by a friend after a series of failures. Honesty is seeing a smile on a stranger's face after showing him the way.
An article in China's ancient honesty story, Ceng Zi Killing Pigs, tells the truth of honesty.
Ceng Zi is a student of Confucius, who often teaches his students: "Keep your word", that is, you must keep your word; We must be decisive and not hesitate. Ceng Zi remembered the teacher's instruction.
Once, Ceng Zi's wife wanted to go shopping in the market, and her six-year-old son clamored to go with his mother. Mrs Tseng didn't want to take him, so she coaxed him into saying, "You have a good time at home. I'll take you next time. When your father comes back, let him kill the pig for you. " When he heard that he wanted to eat meat, Zeng Shen jumped three feet for joy. Shortly after Mrs Tseng left, Ceng Zi came back from outside. When she came in, she saw Zeng Shen fiddling with a kitchen knife. Seeing her father's return, she quickly ran over and said, "Dad, you can come back. When my mother left, she said to let you come back and kill the pig for me! " Ceng Zi listened with a grain of salt. He thought to himself, isn't it a pity to kill and eat the pig before it grows up? Let's wait until the lady comes back. So, Ceng Zi went into the study. Seeing that his father was indifferent, he ran to his father and said, "haven't you always taught me to be honest?" Mom said she would kill the pig, but you didn't. Is that honesty? " Hearing this, Ceng Zi smiled and agreed to him. So they were busy looking for ropes, boiling water and killing pigs with knives. When Mrs Tseng came back, she saw that the pig had turned into pork.
Just because of one sentence, I killed a pig, and I was moved by Ceng Zi's honesty. Through this story, I understand a truth: never change a promise to do one thing for a thousand dollars; A word spoken is past recalling. Don't underestimate the small word "sincerity". With integrity, there is trust; Only by being honest can we have friends; With honesty, there is life. ...
"Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance." Let's walk in good faith. When we really have integrity, we can tell ourselves: because I am honest, I am beautiful; Because I am beautiful, I am proud!
10 After watching Ceng Zi's killing pigs in the summer vacation, I read the book The Story of Honesty in Ancient China with excitement. This is an educational book. Among them, the story of "Ceng Zi killing pigs" impressed me the most.
This story mainly tells that Ceng Zi's wife is going to the market, and her son is pestering her to go. Ceng Zi's wife coaxed the child and said, "You wait at home, and I'll kill the pig for you when you come back." As soon as Ceng Zi knew it was a pig, he killed it for his son. I appreciate Ceng Zi's action. Parents are the children's first teachers, and their words and deeds affect their children. Ceng Zi set an honest example for the children.
The ancients said, "People can't stand without loyalty." Therefore, the first step in learning to be a man is to have integrity. Honesty is like a bond, a bridge, which connects people's hearts closely. Through this kind of ties and bridges, people communicate with each other and get to know each other. In this way, two people's hearts can be closer, they can trust each other, and they can face each other hand in hand when they encounter difficulties. We teenagers should cultivate this virtue from an early age. Honesty can't just be said, it must be put into action. The so-called "sincerity, the stone is open." If you pay sincerely, you will get something.
Whether a person has integrity is often reflected in his words and deeds and small things, which can be seen from his words and deeds. It often happens among students. They are late for class. The teacher asks, "Why are you late again?" Answer: "The bike broke down halfway." Actually, it's not. I got up late in the morning, but I said my bike was broken. Others said, "I forgot my homework, so go home and get it." These answers seem reasonable, but why not tell the truth and correct it next time? From these situations, we can see that some students do not seriously understand the word honesty, or take honesty too lightly. Faced with these situations, we should correct them in time and start from ourselves. We should establish honesty, keep it in mind and face every test bravely.
Honesty is the foundation of friendship, and only when both sides treat each other sincerely can they become friends. Pythagoras said, "Friendship is harmony and equality." Both sides' efforts are increasing, and the weight of friendship savings will become heavier and heavier. If you only want to gain and don't want to pay, you not only waste other people's feelings, but also give up your own integrity.
Honesty, like gold, is the basic principle of being a man. Let's keep our precious integrity, and let the integrity on our savings card increase continuously.