After people know their own destiny, they will inevitably send out a lot of feelings. Life is busy and hurried, so I can't think about life naturally, but recently it's quiet and depressing, so I have some superficial ideas about my life. This time, let me show you the life of "addition" and "subtraction"!

Addition and subtraction is also a kind of life wisdom. 1 "addition" and "subtraction" were originally arithmetic methods in mathematics. Generally speaking, addition is easy to do, subtraction is difficult to do, and so is life. Most people are good at addition but not at subtraction. Not good, not bad; It is not good to reduce or increase. Addition and subtraction have their advantages and disadvantages. Whether to increase or decrease depends on different opportunities and conditions. The history book says, "Modesty is beneficial, but full of losses." This is the same as Chairman Mao's advocacy that "modesty makes people progress and pride makes people lag behind". The "addition" and "subtraction" in these two sentences are dialectical relations. "Modesty" was originally "subtraction", but the result was "progress and benefit", which was manifested as "addition"; "Pride and complacency" was originally an increase, but the result was "backwardness and damage", but it was actually a decrease. It can be seen that "addition" is sometimes for "subtraction" and "subtraction" is for better "addition", which is a wonderful operation.

To create wealth, we must learn to use addition and constantly strive for higher goals; To enjoy wealth, you must learn to use subtraction. Money is a thing outside the body. Do more charity, offer more love and help more people in need.

Investment and financial management should learn to use addition. Reasonable investment is to increase more income, and investment itself is also an asset. Consumption should learn to use subtraction, not against normal consumption, but against extravagance and waste, and control and reduce unreasonable expenditures. Consumption itself is an expenditure and a liability.

Action should learn to use addition, start from small things, persevere, persevere. When you see the right thing, take immediate action and go all out. Learn to use subtraction when thinking, don't think things too complicated, the road is simple, the rough is fine, the fake is preserved, and the simpler the clearer; The simpler the better.

We should learn to enhance our self-confidence. Be confident in everything. The stronger the confidence, the greater the success. Learn to subtract inferiority complex, be pessimistic and disappointed, be discouraged and accomplish nothing. We should try to eradicate it at once.

We should learn to use addition in communication and build a huge network team through extensive communication; To make friends, you should learn to do subtraction, which requires screening and selection. Not all people can be friends, so you should be careful when choosing friends.

Love should learn to use addition, because wonderful love refuses mediocrity and monotony; Life should learn to use subtraction. After a vigorous love, it will eventually return to the peace of life, and plain is true.

Happiness should learn to use addition, be happy every day, and keep a positive and optimistic attitude, which is not only beneficial to work and life, but also can pass happiness on to others; Learn to subtract from troubles. Worry is a negative psychological state, which will have negative and adverse effects. In the face of worries, we should learn to adjust our mentality and eliminate them as soon as possible.

Good memories should be added, the deeper the memory, the more beautiful the taste; Learn to subtract from painful thoughts. The deeper you miss it, the greater the pain.

When you are happy, you should learn to add, cherish and be grateful. Cherish it, and gratitude will last. Cherish life and cherish happiness. Learn to use subtraction when you are unhappy. Unfortunately, it is very painful. Excessive sadness and pain hurt your health. You should cheer up, eliminate unpleasant emotions and get out of the pain as soon as possible.

Learn to be grateful, always grateful, and always do grateful things to get more; You should learn to subtract from hatred, which is a kind of cancer and harms others as well as yourself. Learn to be open-minded and eliminate hatred and jealousy.

In the face of difficulties and setbacks, we should learn to add, think more about ways to overcome difficulties, have more positive attitudes and take more actions; In the face of success and joy, you should learn to use subtraction, keep a clear head, guard against arrogance and rashness, don't attribute all your achievements to yourself, and thank those who have helped you and cared about you.

Reading is to "enter". You should learn to add. You should constantly dabble in comprehensive and professional knowledge, constantly enrich yourself, learn endlessly and never be complacent. Writing is to "stand out". Use subtraction, and be clear-headed, clear-headed, short and pithy, concise and shocking.

The "metabolism" of the human body is also a process of addition and subtraction. The "assimilation" in which the human body absorbs nutrients from the outside and transforms them into its own substances is "addition"; However, some of its own substances are oxidized and decomposed, and the "alienation" of metabolic wastes is eliminated, that is, "subtraction", which maintains the normal operation of human life.

In fact, addition and subtraction are everywhere, empty cups should be added and full cups should be reduced; Hunger and eating increased, and full digestion decreased; It's cold to add clothes, but it's hot to take off clothes. Tired personality should be increased, and grumpy personality should be reduced; If the speed is too slow, it needs to be added; If the speed is too fast, reduce it. In Gain and Loss, gain is addition and loss is subtraction. In "giving up", "giving up" is subtraction and "getting" is addition; Subtract after you get it and add it after you give it up. If it is too cold, it needs heating; if it is too hot, it needs cooling; You need to increase your income when you are poor. When you are rich, you should remember to make contributions to society. However, the number of wealthy families should be increased, the more the better, and the number of poor families should be reduced, and the less the better, so as to achieve common prosperity. Weight is too thin to add, thin and weak; Fat should be reduced, and fat is clumsy; Add it when the taste is weak, otherwise it will be tasteless; If the taste is strong, it will decrease, otherwise it will be salty and bitter.

Should increase more, decrease less. Treating the same thing, because the addition and subtraction are different, the effect is very different. There is a candy company abroad, whose business performance is always better than others, and its market share is very high. Many customers are willing to buy here. Many people are puzzled and want to know what tricks the boss has. After some probing, the boss finally revealed the mystery: when others sell candy, they are used to "subtraction". At first, there were a lot of "subtraction", which made customers feel less and less, as if they had suffered; I am used to adding candy. I take less first, and then "add" a little. Although the weight of sugar is the same, customers feel more secure and satisfied. It turns out that addition and subtraction have different psychological effects because of people's different habits, and the final results are also different.

In work and life, we should treat addition and subtraction dialectically. It varies from person to person, from time to time, from place to place and from environment to environment. Addition, subtraction, multiplication and division are for balance, peace, moderation and moderation. Addition and subtraction are full of fun, which requires careful understanding and flexible application, and the result will be known after use.

Addition and subtraction are also wisdom. Part II (1)

When everyone is born, life is like a blank, and then you start to add one by one to fill the blank.

First of all, there is a name, followed by the kinship attached to the body. Babies are no longer isolated individuals, but live in the network of relatives.

When the baby grows up and has a memory, he will continue to add various interpersonal relationships and learn at the same time.

Later, after graduating from primary school, middle school and university, there will be elders who leave themselves one after another in life, and there will also be familiar people who go their separate ways from time to time. When you do addition in life, you will also have subtraction.

Grown-up people have been doing mixed operations of addition and subtraction. From then on, there are gains and losses in life, and we will meet new people constantly and gradually alienate some people.

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Going forward, a person will have enough memories, and the people and things he has experienced will be transformed into emotional marks and full of spiritual space.

The happiness of life is always like a flash in the pan, and it seems that it is too late to store it, so it is difficult to leave a deep impression. But those unhappy people and things occupy more space because of their heaviness.

As an adult, if you continue to passively add all kinds of things, you will bear more garbage, such as bad social relations, such as negative emotions, and so on.

At the same time, subtraction is involuntary. For example, every time you establish a bad social relationship, you will lose some sincere and beautiful beliefs; For example, every time you encounter a big or small blow, you will lose some courage to actively build your life.

Many people, throughout their lives, are passively accepting the addition and subtraction of life, even if they don't want to.

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There are always people who don't want to live passively all their lives and like to explore the law of living, so there is a truth that everything depends on people.

Everything depends on people's efforts, that is, making choices and actively mastering some addition and subtraction in life.

For example, making one more good friend will enrich your life, and making one more bad friend will bring you trouble.

For example, less irrelevant socializing will improve the quality of life, and more unnecessary socializing will make you shallow.

It turns out that many times, people can have a choice. Such as who to associate with, such as where to live, such as what to do; Such as life partner, such as lifestyle, such as values. ...

People who can take the initiative to choose can freely use the principle of addition and subtraction and be sure of their own lives.

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The ancients said, "Do your best and listen to your destiny." Very reasonable.

The so-called fate part, human resources is difficult to grasp. The addition and subtraction of life is beyond the reach of human beings, such as the opportunity of life, such as the growth of age, such as the end of life.

But the premise of listening to destiny is to do your best, that is, to listen to destiny on the basis of doing your best, so that life will not be wasted.

Those who accept their fate prematurely and prefer to go with the flow are probably lazy. After all, it is much easier to do your best, work hard, persist and choose.

However, if we just passively accept everything, people will really fail to live up to the reputation of vegetation as a higher organism.

Originally, people can decide the specific algorithm of adding and subtracting their own lives within a certain range.

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The increase or decrease of life, good or bad, can not be generalized, but should be analyzed in detail.

How about one more person who loves you? It looks good, but it can be put in the love between men and women. One more person loves you, which means more painful entanglement; How about one less person talking to you? It may seem bad, but ideally, if you have less contact with one person, it means that your interpersonal burden is less.

How much trouble comes from what others say, from hearsay, from right and wrong. In this regard, if we can reduce it, we will reduce it. And some supplements must be done, such as active learning, never too old to learn; For example, being able to accept new things and constantly brainstorm; For example, cherish sincere friendship and prevent the world from being attacked by cold.

People who know the addition and subtraction of life will not intrude into other people's lives at will, nor will they allow others to disturb their own lives at will. The time and energy saved can be used to do what you like and make life full of beautiful fun.

Addition and subtraction are also wisdom. Young people do addition.

Young and frivolous. I am curious about everything, want everything, and want to experience everything, so I have endless desires.

I made a bosom friend and wanted another three or five, but I didn't know that there could be no bosom friend in life.

I worked hard and got some achievements, which was praised by my boss. Therefore, I am more desperate to express myself and covet more affirmation and appreciation.

I bought a dress I've been longing for for for a long time, but I feel that other clothes in the closet are not worthy, just because a new dress bought something unexpected.

I bought a bag, but I want to buy more bags, thinking that "all diseases are cured", but I don't know that the spiritual emptiness can't be filled with no amount of material.

Friends chat, Xiaoli said she bought a car, and Jiao said she bought a new house. I couldn't live alone, so I bought a second and third house. Cars range from tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands to hundreds of thousands. Can you change a Cadillac for the working class?

People always have insatiable desires, because they are hard to satisfy. An empty heart is like a black hole. It is full of matter, but it is swallowed up forever. ...

Subtraction is just right

Schopenhauer said that happiness is not seeking outward, but seeking inward. In fact, the ancient sages of China have already set an example.

The more complex the material, the more you can see the emptiness of the soul. People, then put on layers of shackles, become slaves of things and never have freedom.

Your former confidant and lover may leave you, but you still have yourself. Don't deny yourself by belittling yourself.

A mountain of clothes, but suffering from matching choices, wasted too much time and energy. No matter how big the house is, it is just a bed. No matter how expensive the luxury car is, it is just a means of transportation.

Plain, real life. Separation, less trouble.

Subtraction in life can save time and improve efficiency. Subtraction in life can bring inner peace.

"Young people quit color, middle-aged people quit fighting, and old people quit." When people reach middle age, they are not fighting with others, but with their own inner greed.

Only by conquering one's insatiable greed can one appreciate the beauty of "emptiness" in subtraction.

Addition and subtraction is also a kind of life wisdom. In fact, the principle of subtraction is often needed. Sometimes, giving up seems to be a loss, but it is actually a great wisdom. Letting go is to get better, and letting go is to let the mind empty and breathe freely and easily. In this way, real happiness and happiness will follow.

A friend smiled at me and sighed, "In the future, we should increase less and decrease more." I will smile after sighing. Yes, friends live out the realm of life. Everything in life is addition and subtraction.

Life itself is a simple but magical formula. Speaking of simplicity, there are only two operations: addition and subtraction; It is the theme of life to say that it has magic. No matter what formula you use and how you do it, the final number can only be zero. Life is nothing but a process. But the process carries all the happiness and pain of everyone, and the amount of happiness and trouble depends on the application of the formula.

Everyone is born with a piece of paper as white as snow. Then with the growth and maturity, the demand for the outside world is gradually increasing. Children over one year old are not only satisfied with eating and sleeping comfortably, but also need to communicate with others at any time. Will go, know how to play, the demand will be more. As an adult, the range of needs will be wider and the weight of pursuit will be heavier. This is the addition of life, and everyone has to go through this addition operation.

Usually, the deep valley of human desire has no depth. The more people desire, the more things the mind carries. The pursuit of fame and power often makes people lose their way, but they never tire of it. Every time you satisfy the same desire, you will get temporary happiness, and then you will go to the next chase. So repeated, so reincarnation, so enjoy, so can't stop. In the end, I will gradually become numb to the temporary happiness after I get it, and lose my more and more keen tentacles for life. The truest happiness and happiness in life are long gone. One day, maybe we will have an epiphany and end up with nothing.

This is addition principle where many people live. The life under this principle is an illusory life under various auras. There is a sense of inferiority in the depths of human nature. The more desires, the more tired people are, the less satisfied they are, and the easier they are to be tempted. People like to get it blindly, and when they catch it, they are reluctant to let it go, just like children.

Zhang Ailing once said that life is a gorgeous robe full of lice. So we should learn subtraction in time in our life.

In fact, the principle of subtraction is often needed. Sometimes, giving up seems to be a loss, but it is actually a great wisdom. Letting go is to get better, and letting go is to let the mind empty and breathe freely and easily. In this way, real happiness and happiness will follow.

The life of subtraction seems bland on the surface, and it is not as beautiful as some people. However, in their hearts, there is a heavy sense of satisfaction and happiness. They are wise, because they clearly know what they want and what can make their body and mind fuller and more level.

There is no doubt that 30 is the age. At this time, we should understand the principle of subtraction. You might as well subtract some reputation rights and add more physical exercise and personal interests. Might as well say to myself, I must be healthy, I want to see the children happy, how good!

Everything is adding and subtracting, adding and subtracting in an instant.

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