As we all know, in the thousands of years of history of our country, more than 80 powerful and prosperous dynasties have emerged on the land of China. Most of these dynasties only have a lifespan of about 300 years, and then they will decline from weakness to extinction. Whenever dynasties change, wars will break out, and larger-scale ones will lead to troubled times, such as the Three Kingdoms, Spring and Autumn and Warring States periods, and the Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms periods in our country's history, all of which are famous troubled times. I believe that the one that everyone is most familiar with is the Troubled Times of the Three Kingdoms. Because "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms", one of my country's four great masterpieces, was created based on this background. At the same time, because of "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms", we have become more familiar with the stories of the Three Kingdoms.
The story of "The Romance of the Three Kingdoms" mainly revolves around the three brothers Liu Bei. It explains this thrilling history from the rise and fall of the Shu Han. The relationship between the three brothers Liu, Guan, and Zhang should be considered the strongest, and they have never betrayed this brotherhood from beginning to end. Even when Zhang Fei was busy escaping and forgot to take Liu Bei's wife with him, Liu Bei never blamed Zhang Fei and even said a famous saying that has been passed down through the ages.
First of all, Liu Bei has a more important identity than others, which almost supports the entire reason for his uprising. That is, Liu Bei was the queen of King Jing of Zhongshan and the royal family of the Han Dynasty, and when he raised his troops, he used the slogan of "support the Han Dynasty and defeat the traitors", which gained him the support of many people. The most representative one is Tao Qian's three concessions to Xuzhou.
At first, because Xuzhou Mu Taoqian's men killed Cao Cao's father, Cao Cao attacked. But Tao Qian simply did not have the strength to resist Cao Cao, so he gave Xuzhou to Liu Bei. Although Liu Bei repeatedly refused, he finally accepted Xuzhou. However, not long after, Lu Bu came to seek refuge, and while Liu Bei and Guan Yu were leading their troops, he directly rebelled and captured Xuzhou.
At that time, only Zhang Fei was stationed in Xuzhou City, and Liu Bei's family was also trapped in it. So Zhang Fei immediately gathered his troops, but Lu Bu's army had already entered the city. At this time, there was no hope for him to confront Lu Bu. Zhang Fei could only take his confidants and run away on his own. After Zhang Fei escaped, he discovered that he had forgotten his sister-in-law, Liu Bei's wife, while he was concentrating on his escape. After Zhang Fei found Liu Bei, he cried bitterly in front of Liu Bei, blaming himself very much and scolding himself for being careless and causing his sister-in-law to be imprisoned.
Logically speaking, Liu Bei will definitely blame Zhang Fei after learning about this incident. However, after Liu Bei learned what happened, his attitude towards Zhang Fei was completely opposite. Not only did he not blame Zhang Fei, he also behaved very calmly. On the contrary, Guan Yu was on the side and was being attacked by Zhang Fei. Zhang Fei was also very uncomfortable mentally. However, Liu Bei then said something that was regarded as a classic. Even now, many people are still saying it.
This sentence is "Brothers are like brothers and sisters, women are like clothes." I believe many people have heard this sentence. When Liu Bei said this sentence, he wanted to express that brothers are more important than his wife. After Liu Bei said these words, he gave Zhang Fei a "peace of mind." But Zhang Fei was in great pain, and even Guan Yu on the side was moved to tears.
Today, this sentence still exists, but not so many people say it. But you can also hear this sentence in some movies and TV dramas, and it is widely circulated. At the same time, this sentence also reflects that Liu Bei is very experienced and has rich experience in winning people's hearts. Therefore, everyone will be familiar with the fact that Liu Bei was able to gather so many talented people around him later.