Some friends say I am an energy mom, and some friends say I am an inspirational sister. Whether it's an energy mom or an inspirational sister, I'm sometimes impetuous and can't help complaining.

I had a discussion with him yesterday because I was particularly upset about something. He smiled and said that he would teach me a trick. I asked curiously: What trick? He uttered seven words one after another: "Don't-want-argue with a fool-discuss!

Then, he told me a joke:

Wow, it's so classic! It feels deep! Dear, thank you for always making me happy in various ways. Such humor gave me the greatest encouragement!

In Dragon Agama, there is such a poem:

I always say that smart people shouldn't talk to fools,

Stupid scolding and wise silence mean winning the fool.

A wise man should not argue with a fool. If a fool scolds you and you can keep silent and not answer, then you are far better than a fool.

In our life or work, we often argue with others. Sometimes, even if you don't conflict with people on the surface, your heart is not calm, but you are still opposed to people. When we are at odds with others, it is actually ourselves who get hurt, and some people even get sick. Think about how uneconomical it is.

There is such a dialogue:

The tiger saw a mad dog and ran away quickly.

The little tiger said, "Dad, how shameful it is that you dare to fight with lions and cheetahs but avoid a mad dog!" " "

The tiger asked, "Son, is it glorious to beat the mad dog?" Little tiger shook his head.

"Isn't it good for a mad dog to take a bite?" Little tiger nodded.

"In that case, why should we provoke a mad dog?"

Not everyone deserves to be your opponent. Don't argue with people who have no quality. Smile away from him and don't let him bite you.

Have you ever heard of the garbage man rule? There is such a story:

A friend was driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car pulled out of the parking space and stopped in front of him. My friend immediately braked, and the car skidded for a short distance, just avoiding the car, and the distance between the two cars was only a few centimeters! The driver of this car shook his head and shouted at us! My friend just smiled and waved to the man. I mean: my friends are very friendly.

So I asked him, "Why did you do that just now? That guy almost destroyed your car and may hurt us! " This is what my friend told me at that time, and now I sum it up as "garbage man's law"

He explained: "Many people are like' garbage people'. They run around, full of negative rubbish: full of depression, anger, jealousy, calculation and hatred, full of arrogance and prejudice, greedy dissatisfaction, resentment, comparison, rude kindness, ignorance, trouble, revenge and disappointment. With the accumulation of garbage in their hearts, they finally need to find a place to take out the garbage; Sometimes, when we just met, the garbage was thrown at us ... "

Tell yourself never to argue with a fool. Because it will make others confused who is a fool. I want to talk about the world with smart people, not fools.