The more you read, the more you know, the smarter you become. The longer you study in school; The more diplomas, the higher the status; The longer you can work, the more money you will earn.
It is an indisputable fact that children do more homework after school. How can we keep children studying? In my opinion, teaching children to "steal time" should start from the following aspects: having time to study, and persisting in reading.
1, make a time book and see where the time has gone.
Many people have the habit of keeping accounts for consumption, but few people keep accounts for time.
Parents and children are advised to keep time accounts together. Students' life is simple and repetitive, and a week's bookkeeping can basically understand the current situation of children's time use.
When do children get up and go to bed? How much time is spent on homework and how much time is spent on procrastination ... Only by figuring out where all the time has gone can we plan our time reasonably.
2. Make a list of tasks and apply the four-quadrant rule.
Helping children make a daily task list is a good way to plan children's time reasonably. Use the four-quadrant method to complete the task list.
The four-quadrant method divides the task list into "do it right away", "do it in a planned way", "give it to others" and "try not to do it"
Help children plan the classification task level, such as which level to put "reading"? Supervise the child's execution until the child is proficient.
3. Steal time and use debris time efficiently.
If it is difficult to have a whole block of time, children should be taught to "steal time", and colleges and universities should make full use of fragmented time to study.
My family goes to bed at night at 10:30. After the children finish their homework and take a shower, it's time for bed. My solution is to get up early to study.
Even if you get up an hour early, you can accomplish some tasks. Before going to school, I get up early to read to my children. Now, she still likes me reading to her.
I feel very happy to have time to study with my children during the day, and I can also let my children see my persistence in reading and my support for her.
Reading is diverse. Besides reading paper books, you can also listen to audio books. You can turn over two pages on your way to and from school and listen for a few minutes.
The premise is to let children develop the habit of carrying books with them. If the school is far from home, it is necessary to equip the children with noise-reducing headphones.
4. Let children taste the sweetness of reading.
Everything that depends on perseverance is not very happy, but if it is something you like and are interested in, you will take the initiative to invest more energy and time, so that children can taste the sweetness of reading and promote their persistence in reading.
For example, taking children to a book club will make them feel the same good atmosphere and support. Take the children to attend the open class and signing meeting of their favorite writers, so that the children and writers have the opportunity to get along closely and feel the elegance of the writers. ...
In short, let children really see and enjoy the sweetness of "reading" and become the driving force to persist in reading, making reading as natural as eating and sleeping every day.
First, control the workload in time.
Parents should control their children's study in school in time. Some children complain that teachers in all subjects have too much homework and have no free time to read books. In fact, teachers may not stay much, and children may be punished or have a bad grasp, and do more exercises or consolidate exercises.
Time is like water in a sponge. As long as you are willing to squeeze, there is always something.
Second, improve learning efficiency.
Children have many subjects to learn, so they can't "finish what they did at that time", so they take their inheritance home after class. This takes up the children's homework time and leads to the "tractor effect".
Today's procrastination, tomorrow's pressure, the knowledge chain is broken, how to build a tall building?
The combination of home and school encourages them to form good habits, and parents drive them to study, which naturally saves energy.
Third, let children arrange their time reasonably.
"Fragment time" determines the degree to which children's academic performance rises.
Children still have a lot of scattered time to use every day. What they lack is self-discipline in managing time. Finish the day's homework during school recess, and write your homework as soon as you get home. Be sure to finish it with good quality and quantity. Then read a certain amount of books, and over time, books will flood.
Fourth, parents give timely help.
Children can borrow money when their tasks are heavy. For example, parents help to copy exercises and blank test papers, which can help children reduce unnecessary labor and squeeze out some time to read.
Fifth, pay attention to the combination of work and rest.
We must pay attention to the combination of work and rest for children. No matter how much homework you have, you should do more exercise and read more books to improve your quality of life.
Sixth, it is very important to prepare well.
All courses should be previewed in advance, which can help children master more information in class and finish their homework quickly. The rest of the time, open happy reading.
Seven, communicate with the teacher.
If the teacher leaves too much homework, we can communicate effectively with the teacher and discuss with him. We don't have to do very skillful content. Feeding in different slots, so that children with spare capacity can read more books and lay the foundation for a happy life!
Happy reading, happy reading!
People often say that if you want to read a little, you always have no time. I don't quite agree with this statement. No matter how busy he is, he will never be too busy to spare time. First of all, parents and children should realize the importance of reading, so that they will pay attention to it and be willing to squeeze out time to devote themselves to reading. On the one hand, we should be aware of the importance of reading; on the other hand, the participation of parents is very important.
Reading breaks thousands of volumes, and writing is like a god. Reading is the most basic, effective, direct and important means to be eloquent and eloquent. With the reform of college entrance examination, the importance of reading is becoming more and more prominent. If children want to learn well and get good grades, they must pay attention to the cultivation of reading ability. 6- 12 years old is the golden age of rapid development of reading ability (that is, the basis of learning ability). In the past six years, it can be said that it is more important to read widely and greatly improve reading ability.
Children have limited time and do their homework very late after school. This requires parents to make a good plan and reasonably allocate and arrange reading in a limited time:
1.\ Help children choose suitable books according to their hobbies. Parents' self-cultivation skills are crucial, and the books they read should be carefully selected.
2. \ tMake a plan to read for a long time every day, no matter how tight the time is, and get into the habit of reading. Habit becomes nature, persistence is the key, and interest can be cultivated.
3. \ tParents should set an example. The power of example is infinite. Let your children see that you often read books and share the books or articles you have read. Children have no time to communicate during meals.
We are willing to spend money on books. As long as books are beneficial to children, they should be prepared at home in advance, and children can take them at hand for easy reading when they have time.
5. \ tTake the children to the library regularly, feel the atmosphere of reading, and choose books with them to make them feel involved. They can also choose to make the book into a movie, watch the movie after reading the book, or read the book after watching the movie. Through the comparison between the two, which form can better explain the author's original intention in characterization, psychological description and performance, thus leaving a deep impression on the work.
6.\ tLet Children get into the habit of taking reading notes, and accumulate good words, sentences and paragraphs in reading and put them into their reading notes. Read more of your reading notes in your spare time, and let your children finish reading a book and write a book review.
Reading ability determines the future height. Many parents attach great importance to their children's grades in primary school, and are even confused by the scores that teachers emphasize every day. They don't want their children to spend more time reading and playing, which is considered a waste of time. However, when children are as malnourished as seedlings, and they are weak in middle school, parents will only complain about their children, but they don't know that it is they who cause their children's "short life and high scores" and "intellectual malnutrition". Primary school, like a flower, is a growth process in which plants are just budding (laying the foundation), junior high school is in bud (struggling to develop), senior high school is in full bloom (sprinting for the college entrance examination), and university is a new and higher cycle.
Parents, for the sake of children's long-term development and greater growth strength in the future, please pay attention to children's basic development, pay attention to the cultivation of children's abilities and habits in all aspects, and truly get twice the result with half the effort and benefit children for life.
The higher the grade, the heavier the homework burden, and the reading time of many children will be greatly reduced.
But reading is really too important for children.
Therefore, it takes some skills to keep children reading under the heavy academic burden.
First, plan the time reasonably and learn to use the fragmented time to read.
Regarding the use of fragmented time to study, the ancients had the saying "pillow, immediately, go to the toilet".
No matter how much homework there is, there is always time. Let children learn to read in these fragmented time.
For example, half an hour after dinner, read some light articles, and then enter intense study.
For example, take a thin magazine with you (a valuable book that needs the teacher's permission) and read it when the school is free.
Second, separate long articles from short ones.
Usually you should read short and pithy articles in your spare time, and you can choose valuable magazines.
After the long vacation, when you have plenty of time and read more coherently, you can arrange to read several famous books.
In short, in any case, children must be kept studying.
If a child can use reading as a way to relax and decompress, then there must be nothing wrong with his study.
Because children who really like reading don't need the supervision of their parents, they are obsessed with reading and will read when they seize all the time. When I went to the dentist yesterday, an eleven-or twelve-year-old girl on the subway was absorbed in reading a book and carefully reading a novel in traditional Chinese characters. I admired it at that time, even a little, because I had no feeling about traditional Chinese characters.
If children don't get into the habit of reading, but parents think it's good, and arrange it as a task, the pressure on children will be great in the case of a large amount of homework.
Personally, I think:
1. If children reject reading, there is no need to force them to go to school in the case of a large amount of homework. Arrange reading on weekends, children read alone or set up weekend family reading sharing meetings. Parents tell interesting stories they read, children share stories they read, and everyone has their own opinions.
2. It's certainly better if the children accept the arrangement of their parents. Everyone knows many benefits of reading. You can arrange to watch for half an hour after dinner, because children can't do their homework immediately after dinner, so they can relax by reading for half an hour.
3. A little advice, don't interfere with what kind of books children read. Listen to the advice of reading experts, so that children can read books they are interested in and accumulate more before forming their own reading system. With the improvement of understanding ability, children's perspective will become wider and wider, and the scope involved will become wider and wider. Interest is the motivation to stick to a habit. Of course, parents can also buy some good books that they think are valuable at home, so that books can naturally attract children.
In a word, insisting on reading will certainly benefit people for life and help textbook learning, but it should vary from person to person and make appropriate plans according to children's situation. Reading for half an hour every day is a good habit, and reading for two hours every week is also a good habit. There is no absolute standard. I wish all my wishes come true in the new year and my children's academic progress!
As the saying goes, it is the common goal of parents and schools to read thousands of books, take Wan Li Road and let children develop the habit of reading after class. Homework is a relative concept. With the increase of children's grade, the amount of homework is definitely increasing. This requires us to cultivate children's extracurricular reading habits from an early age and make reading an indispensable part of children's lives.
As parents, we should develop the good habit of reading between parents and children, so that children can enjoy reading since childhood. If children are younger, they can start reading interests and habits from picture books. At the same time, to create a scholarly environment, reading materials suitable for children should be sufficient and easy to obtain.
Schools play an important role in cultivating children's extracurricular reading habits. First of all, we should arrange the amount of homework reasonably according to the grade, so that children can have time to study. Secondly, we should give full play to the role of the school library and do our best in the number of books, opening hours and book quality. Furthermore, actively carry out curriculum reform experiments. In recent years, our school has carried out parent-child reading, idioms solitaire and other experiments, and since the lower grades, children have developed the good habit of reading after class, which has received good results.
When extracurricular reading really becomes an indispensable part of children's life, even if there is more homework, children will stick to it.
In daily life, parents can make their children insist on extracurricular reading from the following aspects: First, improve the efficiency of children's homework. It can be arranged reasonably according to the workload and difficulty of homework to improve the efficiency of homework, and children will also find time to read books after class. Second, help children learn to use their time rationally. Lu Xun said: Time is like water in a sponge. As long as you squeeze, there will always be. Parents can arrange their children's reading time and content according to the size of their daily homework. You can also use flexible reading after getting up and before going to bed. Third, homework and reading complement each other. When children are interested in reading, reading will bring them a very good enjoyment and become an excellent leisure way, which can alleviate the fatigue caused by children's homework.
Personally, I think it is necessary to cultivate children's interest in reading and help them love reading. In order to have time to study, he will improve the efficiency of his homework.
1. Parents form a good habit of reading.
If a child sees his parents playing with their mobile phones with relish and you tell him that there is a golden house in the book, he may not believe you. If a good boy sees his parents reading every day, he will find this book interesting, curious and interested.
2. Parents and children read together
Whether it is the parent-child reading of picture books or the reading of English books, it is very important for parents to accompany their children. Time is not long, just squeeze out even ten or twenty minutes every day and get into the habit.
Parents can also accompany their children to read by telling stories. For example, I know a mother who takes her children to read the original Dream of Red Mansions every day. In some places, children can't understand it, so she translates it into vernacular and reads it until the next day at some turning points. "Know what it is, and listen to the next decomposition", which successfully attracted the attention of children.
3. Improve work efficiency
If children really have too much homework, they can't finish it even if they improve their efficiency, then there is no way, unless parents ask the teacher. If a child procrastinates and writes slowly, parents have to find ways to urge him.
For reference.
1. When time management is done, homework can be completed from easy to difficult, and children's homework efficiency can be improved.
2. Adhere to flexible reading.
Mr. Lu Xun said that time is like water in a sponge. As long as you squeeze it, there will always be some.
Parents can arrange the reading content reasonably according to the time left after their children finish their homework every day.
If you have more time left, you can arrange the reading content deeper and longer. If there is less time left, you can arrange the reading content shorter and shallower.
3. Adhere to long-term reading.
Reading is a long process. If you can't see obvious effects in the short term, don't overestimate the temporary effects, and don't underestimate the benefits of long-term persistence.
Educator Suhomlinski said that to improve children's wisdom, it is necessary to read, read and read again.
I believe that recognizing the importance of reading to children's spiritual growth can squeeze out some time.
Psychological research shows that a behavior lasts for 2 1 day, which can initially form a habit and last for 90 days, which can be used to it.
Once you develop good reading habits, your children will benefit for life!
May your child be fully nourished in long-term reading, and let high-quality reading help him fly higher!
If you want your child to persist in reading, you must make him interested in reading, otherwise it will not be sweet, and even if you read it, it will have no effect. When your child has a lot of homework, how to make him insist on reading?
1. Parents are the teachers who have the greatest influence on their children. As parents of children, if they only tell their children what to do and act superior, their children will not be willing to learn.
Parents had better have their own habit of reading, and don't insist on showing it to their children, so that children can understand that reading is beneficial, instead of playing games and watching TV after work. The best way to guide children to develop reading habits is to set an example.
As a parent, you should help your child finish his homework first, then give him some buffer time to relax, and finally guide him to read.
Guided by the benefits of reading, children can know that the more they read, the more they gain. For example, let him know that reading can make him play with many children, or let him know that teachers will praise and reward children who like reading.
Of course, if there is too much homework, there is no time to read it. Parents all over the world want their children to be better than others. Sometimes they don't consider what their children can learn, and always think that it is good for their children, but the result is not good.
Therefore, parents are advised not to put too much pressure on their children. They should not be deprived of their childhood homework, but should have time to play, which is called the combination of work and rest in an adult way.
Homework and reading seem contradictory, but in fact they complement each other and promote each other. In short, the more homework, the negative correlation. The more reading, the less homework and the less difficulty.
1. Reading is the accumulation of knowledge, which can improve the ability to finish homework independently.
There is a homogeneous relationship between reading and homework. Some of the contents of reading may be homework, and some may provide ideas and new perspectives for completing homework.
Reading can cultivate sentiment, improve quality and improve problem-solving ability. Therefore, the level of autonomy in completing homework can be improved.
If you spend energy and time on your homework, so you give up studying, your knowledge and interest will be narrowed, which will bring difficulties to your growth and development.