People who live in this world are extremely ordinary people. What kind of life should I treat myself with? This is a question of positioning itself. No one tells others about their lives and gossips.

Some people pursue progress, are not satisfied with the status quo and define life as struggle. They always want to work hard in their lifetime, show their talents and realize their life value. This is a positive and optimistic attitude. In real life, such a person will occasionally feel depressed even in the face of difficulties and setbacks, but on the whole, such a person has an optimistic and positive personality and never gets tired.

But some people want to live an ordinary life and live a quiet life all their lives. It's not that I don't pursue progress, but I'm satisfied with my life, my present situation, my contribution to society, my warmth to my family and so on. Such people like to live a quiet and indifferent life. They are indifferent to fame and fortune and do not compete with the world for profit. This is also a noble spirit, and they pursue an introverted spiritual life. There are also many famous people in the history of China.

Man's life is short. Return to calm after glory, and return to loneliness after prosperity. With nobility, it may be too ordinary, with fame and fortune, it may be nothing.

Finally, it is just a loess slope.

There is no right or wrong, it depends on what you want. If you want to lie at home and watch TV and play games online every day, and you want to own a luxury RV, and you are a rich second generation (or simply a rich second generation), then no problem; But if you are not the second generation, and you think about this and that, it is contradictory. Moreover, it is also a question whether your partner can accept or find such a lifestyle. There is no right or wrong way of life. People with money and no money have their own joys and sorrows, depending on what kind of life you want to live, plain and light. Still vigorous? Finally, quote the famous saying of Master Xing, "What's the difference between being a man and a salted fish without a dream?"

Make progress, make progress! Many girls find this element in boyfriends. Self-motivated!

I smiled especially. The self-motivation that comes out of a girl's mouth is nothing more than making more money in the future. You can have it now, but you must have it later. Of course, this is true and right. Materials are very important.

What I want to say next is not aimed at girls, but at male compatriots.

When people reach a certain age, they have to accept their fate.

It is difficult and an indisputable fact. You said that a young man from the countryside took an undergraduate course and earned a good income. He could support himself and still had a surplus. In a society without any interpersonal relationship, how many people can change the fate of working all their lives except being struck by lightning and winning the lottery? Fight for a lifetime, have a scooter, fight for a house, and run away from home. It's all the same. This is a lifetime of austerity. However, many girls were not worth mentioning years ago!

Many boys are not undergraduates and have no ability to support themselves.

Correct progress, I think it is more important for girls. In fact, men have been the pillar of the family since ancient times, and earning money to support their families is materially insignificant. Now, after 90, parents can still help pull their children. If women can help share the financial pressure, life will be easy.

For boys, birth really determines a lot. The proportion of Tsinghua Peking University is too small. Most people go to a relaxed place to work after studying, and the ceiling is limited all their lives! Ordinary is the foundation of most people. Just a normal man, who doesn't want to have a car and a house, and doesn't want to earn money to live a good life? Those girls who can't even tell whether a man is normal or not deserve their bad luck. Poor people must have something hateful.

It is no problem to be materially content with the status quo and be able to reach your expected standard of living! You can't slack off in the spiritual realm. This is a lifelong matter, not only for yourself, but also for a family and a family's top priority! The higher your ideological level and cognitive level, the higher your offspring's cognitive starting point, which is inevitable.

All the incomes of the couple add up to 1.5 million, which is between 25,000. That's the most beautiful thing. More money, more troubles. Either relatives want to borrow it, or they are too eager to spend it indiscriminately. It is best when you are seven minutes full, and people should be satisfied!

Self-motivated is now a special synonym for kidnapping men. Men are not all about making money, their spending power is not as good as that of dogs, and their earning power comes first! Really speechless.