Yangchun Baixue and Xialiba people are a pair of antonyms learned in high school. In the vast sea of ??words, "Yangchun Baixue" originally refers to a higher-level song of the Chu State during the Warring States Period, a metaphor for profound and unpopular art; while "Xialibaren" refers to a popular work of art. In our real life, this situation abounds. After all, if there are too many things, there will inevitably be differences, which will form contrasts in the eyes of good people. There is such a passage that many people must have heard. In today's society, those who watch Korean dramas look down on those who watch domestic dramas, those who watch Japanese dramas look down on those who watch Korean dramas, those who watch American dramas look down on those who watch Japanese dramas, those who watch British dramas look down on those who watch American dramas... Even FMCG brands have chains of contempt, wearing Only Those who wear American look down on those who wear HM, those who wear HM look down on those who wear Only, those who wear Topshop look down on those who wear HM... I don’t know who originally established this set of standards for which is better. Anyway, I can’t tell the difference between British and American dramas. The difference is that I prefer Only over HM.

I think this involves two levels. One level is about taste. Just like Diaosi and Bai Fumei, which have become popular in recent years. I don't know who invented these two words, but it is obvious that everyone would like to be synonymous with nobility if they could choose. From a certain perspective, this is also the driving force behind human reproduction and getting better and better over the years. But everyone has their own growth background and their own interests and hobbies. We can pursue a more elegant and beautiful version of ourselves, so just be ourselves. Why deny other people's preferences. Even if the people in lower Liba are really not as good as you, at least you should remember one sentence: don't destroy the happiness that others have. Another level is about low self-esteem. Some people say that arrogance is another extreme form of inferiority. I agree with this. What kind of people are most likely to despise others? People who are not satisfied with what they have. Such people tend to be somewhat money-worshipping, utilitarian and ambitious. They always want to live a better life in the eyes of the world, so how do they achieve this sense of superiority? It's very simple, it proves that some people are indeed not as good as themselves. This is the best driving force to prove that their efforts are not in vain.

So

Even if you watch your favorite classics, please don’t despise others for watching bubble dramas.

Although you are keen on global overseas purchasing, please do not despise others for shopping on Taobao.

Even if you go to Antarctica to explore Brazil and watch football, please don’t look down upon others who can only travel around the city.

After all, true mature elegance means tolerance and acceptance of social diversity.