There is a very famous saying: "I examine myself three times every day: "Are I being unfaithful to others? Make friends but don’t believe it? Are you not used to it? ""
This was once said by Zeng Zi in the Analects of Confucius. What does this sentence mean? It means "I reflect on myself many times every day: Do I do my best when doing things for others? Do I have integrity when interacting with friends? Do I review the knowledge taught by the teacher on time?"
The Six Requirements of Improvement book The third chapter talks about "reflecting every day". "Try your best, work hard", coupled with "reflection every day", our souls will be purified and become more beautiful and noble. However, the so-called introspection is to cultivate and tidy up the garden of the soul, allowing fresh and noble thoughts to occupy the garden of the soul. Reflect on your own evil heart and cultivate your own kind heart.
No matter how busy and tired you are every day, you need to leave yourself some time for quiet thinking and reflection. We are still young and not mature enough, and there are many areas that need improvement. Only by constant reflection can we make ourselves aware of the problems and make progress. As long as you make a little progress every day, in a week, in a month, or in a year, you can imagine that the progress will be huge. The way of reflection is more effective in the form of words. Although it will take some time, it is very good to sort out the ideas and keep a record of the growth. Often we are busy with work and do not leave enough time for ourselves to think, so we cannot think through many problems and cannot summarize well. In fact, sometimes taking a little time to reflect and summarize will have the effect of getting twice the result with half the effort.
After getting home from get off work every day, take a few minutes to reflect on yourself, what did I do today? Did it cause trouble to others? Is the job done properly? What is the reason why it is not in place? Have you ever had any disagreements with colleagues? Has it caused trouble to others? .........It doesn't matter if we don't do well enough. After all, there are no perfect people in the world. As long as we can reflect on it every day and become better day by day, it is enough.