There are often many things in life that we can't control. Facing them, you can do nothing but watch them happen. Maybe you have tried some methods and tried to change everything, but it didn't work.
Some people may pull themselves together and try to turn things around, but when they fail again, they often lose the courage to try again. How did this happen? Just because each of us wants to avoid pain, no one wants to be hit by another failure.
But if you can change your wrong cognition and practice, all the disappointments will be swept away, just as Edison said, "I won't be depressed, because every wrong attempt will make me go further."
Success lies in determining what is most important to you, then taking all kinds of actions and swearing endlessly until you reach your goal.
I don't know if you have heard the story of Colonel Sanders. He is the founder of KFC fried chicken chain. Do you know how he built such a successful career? Is it because you came from a rich family and went to a famous university like Harvard, or did you devote yourself to this cause at a young age? Neither. In fact, Colonel Sanders started this business at the age of 65. At that time, he was broke. He got the first welfare check, only 105 yuan. He was really depressed, but he didn't blame the society. Then he tried to find out what he could do. The first answer he thought of was: "Good, I have a secret recipe for fried chicken that everyone likes. I don't know if the restaurant wants it? " What if the business of the restaurant improves as a result? If there are more customers and fried chicken has a name, maybe the restaurant will let me extract it. "
Everyone has good ideas, but Colonel Sanders, like most people, not only thinks about these ideas, but also knows how to put them into action. Then he started knocking on doors and told every restaurant what he thought: "I have a good secret recipe for fried chicken. If it can be used, I believe that the business will be improved. " Many people laughed at him to his face: "Come on, old man, you have such a good secret recipe and you are wearing such ridiculous white clothes." Did these words make Colonel Sanders flinch? Not at all, because he has the secret of Tian Zi's first success-persistent action.
Every time you do something, you should study hard, think hard and find a better way to do it next time. Colonel Sanders did follow this rule. He was never annoyed by the rejection of the last restaurant, but carefully corrected his words, hoping to persuade the next restaurant in a more effective way.
Colonel Sanders' idea was finally accepted. Do you know how many times he was rejected before? It was 1009 times before he heard the first "agreement". For the past two years, he has been driving around the United States in his old and broken car. Sleep in the back seat with clothes when you are sleepy, and tell everyone what you think when you wake up to demonstrate fried chicken. 1009 rejected for two years, how many people can barely go on? It's really rare. No wonder there is only one Colonel Sanders in the world. I believe that few people can tolerate rejection more than twenty times, let alone a hundred times and a thousand times. However, this is the secret of success.
If you take a good look at those who have made great achievements in history, you will find that they all have one thing in common: they will not stop until they are defeated by "rejection" and reach their ideals, goals and wishes.
I believe that as long as we can continue to irrigate seeds and do the right thing, we will get out of the cold winter of life, and years of seemingly ineffective efforts will eventually bear fruit.
Try with one voice, pursue the desired goal persistently, and eventually you will get what you want. Don't give up halfway
This sentence is simple, but not simple, but I believe you will agree from the heart. Then, take the necessary action from today, even if it is only a small step.
Success comes from persistence.
Mussels endured the grinding of sand and persisted, and finally gave birth to beautiful pearls; The stubborn iron endured the red smelting of the fire and persisted, and was finally refined into a sharp sword. All rhetoric is illusory, and only persistent belief is the cornerstone of success.
It's drizzling outside the window, banging on the hard ground. It seems that there is a mysterious voice in nature asking me, "What do you need to succeed?"
Hold on, I'll answer.
Open the scroll of history and step into the world of the ancients.
On the bank of the Wujiang River, he shouted to the sky, "My father in Jiangdong has pity on me, I can't see." He jumped, and the turbulent river flowed eastward, drowning his long whistle and his great achievements in life. I can't help but sigh: I still miss Xiang Yu and refuse to cross Jiangdong. Hey, Wang Xiang, why don't you insist? A gentleman can bend over and stretch, rally, and become a hero!
I am disappointed to pursue, wandering in the tunnel of history. In prison, he worked hard, and I saw his face clearly by the faint moonlight. His hair is unkempt, and his perseverance is engraved in the vicissitudes of life, ah, Sima Qian. At this time, several ministers came, and when they saw Sima Qian like this, they all sighed, "Why are you so persistent?" Sima Qian closed the bamboo slips and said categorically, "People are always going to die, some are heavier than Mount Tai and some are lighter than a feather. If I die like this, wouldn't it be as light as a feather? I have to live! I must finish writing this history book! " Say that finish, looking at the bright moon, thoughtful. For a moment, the smooth bamboo slips were unfolded again, with neat lines of official characters written on them, vigorous and powerful. ...
I watched all this silently, but I was already deeply touched: the great Sima Qian, it was your unremitting efforts that made the Historical Records, which was praised as "the swan song of historians and the rhyme of Li Sao", with 520,000 words! I believe that the admiration of future generations is the greatest reward for your persistence.
When I closed the book, I was lost in thought: I felt sorry for Xiang Yu, because he didn't insist, I lost the chance of success; I was moved by Sima Qian, and God will be moved by his unremitting persistence.
Yes, it is true that success requires persistence!
Therefore, when the sky falls, people must first suffer their minds and work hard. How many people who can't stand tempering can succeed? Success is natural, and there must be failure before success. However, as long as we can overcome difficulties and make unremitting efforts, then success may be in sight.
Only by persisting in dreams and working hard can we raise the sails of dreams and ride the wind and waves on the sea. Just like Beethoven always heard the knock on the door of fate; Just like Edison carved and lit the lamp of life; Like the Wright brothers, if you believe that you can fly, you will surely soar in the blue sky.