The world-famous writer Leo Tolstoy has a famous saying: "Happy families are all alike, and every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."

The so-called unhappy people It is the person who is able to love but cannot get the tenderness of love, but what is even more unfortunate is the person who has lost love but cannot muster the courage to move towards a new life.

The so-called lucky ones have many advantages in terms of time, place, people and people: just like the same person, placed in different environments and positions, has different identities and honors; just like the same goods placed in different packages Inside the box, if displayed in shopping malls of different levels, they will have different auras and prices.

The good times in happiness are often just a blurry mirror that cannot clearly reflect a person's true image; while the adversity in misfortune is like a ruthless microscope that can reveal the depths of a person's soul. Everything potential is reflected!

In fact, the unfortunate people in this world can be very lucky, and the lucky people in this world can also be unfortunate; no matter lucky or unfortunate, the key is to "write" "people" well Character.

Life is not all smiles, and life does not believe in tears. The important thing is to understand, to understand "luck and misfortune". Mr. Liu Haili, a contemporary master of traditional Chinese painting, takes as his motto "Don't be surprised by favor or disgrace, watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court; leave or stay without intention, watch the clouds roll and relax in the sky" as his motto. With such a mind, it can be said that you truly understand the "luck and misfortune" of life.

Chen Xiangke, a scholar in the late Ming Dynasty, wrote "The Theory of Six Natures": "Be detached from yourself, be kind to others, be sensational when something happens, be calm when nothing happens, be calm when you are proud, and calm when you are frustrated." If a person has this mood. With this cultivation, you can face "luck and misfortune" calmly, and you don't need to be told by others to "stand up straight, don't lie down", and your waist will be straight and straight!

When people encounter misfortune, they can suffer. In the heart, but not necessarily on the face, it will make people feel hopeless; when happiness comes, it is even more important not to forget about it, because one day this good fortune may turn into extreme joy and sorrow, and turn into misfortune.

The moon waxes and wanes, and people have joys and sorrows. As long as we dare and are good at smiling at life, we can truly achieve detachment, truly sort out "luck and misfortune", and truly realize the harmony and unity between luck and misfortune.

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