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People always gain less lessons from flatness and more lessons from hardships; from flatness The lessons learned from hardship are shallow, while the lessons learned from suffering are profound. If a person goes through hardships when he is young, if he can look at it correctly and break out of the darkness, then he is a person worthy of admiration. The most important thing is to practice internal strength first. The five years after graduation are the best period to practice internal strength. Only by practicing internal strength well can you climb higher in the future.

Where is the way out? The way out lies in ideas!

In fact, having no money, no experience, no experience, and no social connections are not terrible. If you don't have money, you can earn it through hard work; if you don't have experience, you can summarize it through practical operations; if you don't have experience, you can accumulate it step by step; if you don't have social connections, you can weave it bit by bit. However, having no dreams and no ideas is the scariest thing, which makes people feel scared and want to escape!

People must have a correct direction. No matter how high-spirited you are, no matter how resourceful you are, no matter how much effort you spend, if you don’t have a clear direction, you will live at a loss, gradually lose your fighting spirit, forget your original dream, and you will take a detour. There is even a point of no return, wasting one's intelligence and wasting one's youth.

There is a wise saying in Homer's epic poem "The Odyssey": "Nothing is more intolerable than wandering aimlessly." The confusion in the five years after graduation will cause the confusion ten years later. Panic, struggle after 20 years, or even a lifetime of mediocrity. If we cannot break out of confusion and get out of the fog as soon as possible in the five years after graduation, we will really have no face to face ourselves in 10 or 20 years. In the five years since graduation, we have had many uncertainties as well as many possibilities.

In the five years since graduation, we have had many pending decisions and many decisions.

Everyone will experience confusion and confusion. Everyone has experienced fear and avoidance. But don’t use confusion and confusion as an excuse to give up on yourself and settle for mediocrity, let alone a bitter drink of self-pity and mourning for frustration. . Life needs to be borne by oneself, and destiny needs to be controlled by oneself. In the five years after graduation, the sooner you find your direction and get out of confusion, the easier it will be to achieve success and create excitement in life. A headless fly will run into walls if it cannot find its direction; a person will be confused and fearful if it cannot find a way out.

In life, when faced with difficulties, we often feel that we have no way out. Don't be discouraged, persevere, and believe that there is no dead end in young life, difficulties are ahead, and hope is around the corner. As long as we have the right ideas, we will definitely be able to avoid detours and find a way out!

Successful people do not win at the starting point, but at the turning point.

Many young people who have just graduated always hope to find their ideal job right away. However, many good jobs cannot wait. You must choose a job as experience. The first job in your career journey is undoubtedly the starting point for entering the university of society. Maybe you have found an unsatisfactory job, so start from here, settle yourself well, draw valuable nutrients from this job, and accumulate a lot of experience. A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. As long as you start, you will hopefully reach the end.

The starting point can be the same, but if you choose a different turning point, the end point will be very different!

In the past few years after graduation, there have been many uncertain factors in our lives, relationships, careers, etc., and the future is also full of possibilities. At this time, you must learn to choose, know how to give up, give yourself a clear position, and stabilize yourself. If you don't take the initiative to position yourself, you will be "stereotyped" by others and society!

It can be said that the behavioral habits a person develops in the five years after graduation will determine the height of his life. Whether we can succeed depends to some extent on our own evaluation of ourselves. This is positioning. You are what you position yourself to be. Positioning can determine life, and positioning can change destiny. The ugly duckling needs only a pair of wings to become a white swan; Cinderella needs only a pair of glass slippers to become a beautiful princess.

A person's life is determined by nature for three parts and depends on hard work for seven parts. If you have a dream, you will "become famous", and if you love to work hard, you will win. As long as you don't tie yourself in the cage of your mind, no one can restrain you from spreading your wings and flying high.

The reality is far from what they imagined. Therefore, when the sense of superiority gradually turns into a sense of loss or even frustration, when the belief that oneself is a piece of "gold" becomes the suspicion that oneself is a grain of "sand", anger, confusion, and low self-esteem begin to increase day by day.

In fact, you should carefully consider yourself, are you really gold? It is real gold. You must have unique skills in your hands and be outstanding in your talents. In a word: Real gold must be proven by strength. Only by cultivating your own skills can you be qualified to consider Bole's affairs.

Every pearl is originally a grain of sand, but not every grain of sand can become a pearl.

If you want to stand out from the crowd, you must have the capital to stand out from the crowd. If you can't bear blows and setbacks, and can't bear neglect and mediocrity, it will be difficult to achieve glory. If young people want to be reused and succeed, they must transform themselves from a grain of sand into a priceless pearl.

It rains and the sun rises, life has its peaks and valleys.

Don’t let the floating clouds obscure your vision. It’s better to take a broad view of the scenery. As long as the haze is removed, the sky will be clear and clear. If you are somewhat unsatisfied at work, believe that you will not always be at the lowest point in your life, and that one day you will be able to break through the clouds. Tell yourself: I have not failed, I just haven’t succeeded yet! As long as you light a lamp of hope in your heart, you will be able to dispel the haze in the darkness and usher in the light.

Indeed, in terms of qualifications, they are out-and-out rookies in the workplace. They are not deeply involved in the business, have few connections, and often encounter obstacles at work. Their pressure is not necessarily like a huge stone, but like the sky before a heavy rain. It is gray and low. There is obviously space, but every gap is filled with gray. They can only wait for the clear sky after the heavy rain.

“I get up earlier than a chicken, go to bed later than a dog, work more than a donkey, and eat worse than a pig.” These are words that many recent graduates like to use to ridicule their living conditions. Although it is a bit exaggerated, many of them are indeed always shrouded in a gray mood - their hearts are always cloudy and gloomy. I remember a philosopher once said: "Our pain is not caused by the problems themselves, but by our views on these problems." Looking at life from another perspective is a breakthrough, a relief, a transcendence, a kind of transcendence. A high level of indifference and tranquility, thereby obtaining freedom and happiness.

A philosopher said: "Life is a series of choices. Everyone's future and destiny are completely in their own hands. As long as you work hard, you will eventually succeed." Whether it is employment, choosing a career, or starting a business, In this way, as long as you work hard, you will succeed. Are you ready to hand over all your life commitments to others?

The five years after graduation are the golden period for changing your destiny. If you are not sure when it is most important to determine your own destiny, then when will you wait? I have the final say in my life, and my destiny is not up to anyone else.

Don’t live in other people’s mouths, don’t live in other people’s eyes, but hold your destiny in your own hands.

Don’t say you have no background, you are the biggest background. American writer Jack Kerouac once said: "I am still young, and I am eager to hit the road." On the journey of life, we are always young people and should be full of desire every day. Everyone's potential is unlimited. The key is to discover your own potential, correctly understand your talents, and find a stage where you can fully realize your potential, instead of just being unhappy about the inappropriateness of the stage. You must look at your abilities objectively and fairly, make calm choices based on your actual situation and hobbies, and try your best to go where you are most needed and most suitable for you.

In the field of human resources management, there is a particularly popular saying, that is, the theory of "horse riding, leading cattle, driving pigs, and beating dogs": Those with good character and strong abilities are thousand-mile horses, and we must ride them. Hold him; those with good character but average ability are old scalpers, and we must hold them; those with average character and ability are "pig", and we must drive them away; those with poor character and strong ability, That's the "dog" and we're going to hit him.

I think that you, who have just graduated a few years ago, still have great ambitions and want to be a thousand-mile horse that is appreciated by others and can gallop on the battlefield, right? Then, just settle down. Being lower than others does not mean being inferior to others. Being humble today is for the sake of being higher tomorrow. The so-called value of life means that our existence is valuable to others. It's a good thing to be used by others, but it's really sad to have no one take advantage of you!

Being able to do your job and doing your job well is the basic guarantee for survival in the workplace.

The prerequisite for anyone to do a job is that he or she is qualified for the job. Competence is the most basic criterion for qualified employees, while willingness to work is an attitude. Many people are qualified for a position and have the basic ability to do the job well. However, whether they can do a better job depends on whether they have a work attitude of being down-to-earth and willing to work hard.

Work hard based on your ability.

At work, if you do more work than others, you feel that you are suffering a loss; if you get less money than others, you feel that you are suffering a loss; if you often work overtime, you feel that you are suffering a loss... In fact, there is no need to care about it like this, suffering a loss is not Disaster is not failure. Suffering a loss is also a philosophy of life. Take a small loss now to pave the way for success. Maybe at some point in the future, your great blessing will suddenly come.

Being able to suffer losses is a state of being a human being and a kind of wisdom in dealing with the world.

At work, it doesn’t mean you will suffer if you do more or do more work for others. If your boss asks you to work overtime and catch up on tasks, don't think that you have suffered a big loss. Instead, you should feel lucky, because the boss only asked you and not anyone else, which shows that he trusts you and appreciates you. Loss is a kind of contribution. The more you contribute, the more rewards you get. Being willing to work overtime is such a disadvantage.

If you are willing to give up, you will gain something; those who learn to take some losses when appropriate are definitely not weak-minded, but have great wisdom.

To leave room for others is to leave room for yourself, to give convenience to others is to give convenience to yourself, and to treat others well is to treat yourself well.

Fools are blessed because fools have no scheming. When you are with such people, you can relax physically and mentally and get close to each other without too much vigilance. Stupidity often means persistence and loyalty, as well as generosity and honesty, which makes people unknowingly side with him. A fool gets more by accident than a wise man gets by all his efforts. In the past few years since graduation, you have only had a few snowflakes floating in the sky. Are you satisfied? Success requires persistence and accumulation. Instead of focusing on collecting snowflakes, it is better to save your energy and roll snowballs. Buffett said: "Life is like a snowball. The most important thing is to find the very wet snow and the long slope." Let yourself settle, learn to discover the "very wet snow", and work hard to find the "long slope." Remember: scattered snowflakes will melt quickly and turn into nothing. Only snowballs are more solid and can last longer.

In the years after graduation, if you can work harder than others, it means you have accumulated more capital than others, and you have one more chance of success than others.

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What is professionalism? Professionalization is the standardization, normalization and institutionalization of work status, that is, saying the right words and doing the right things in the right way at the right time, at the right place, so that knowledge, skills, concepts, thinking, attitude, psychology, etc. are in line with the profession. Norms and standards. "In every industry, there are many outstanding talents. The reason why they exist is because they work harder, are smarter, and are more mature than others. But the most important thing is that they are more professional than the average person! This is why The reason why I can be your boss now. It is not enough for a person to be professional. Only professional people can fly ahead of others and make it difficult for others to surpass them! "Don't think that we are living in a stable situation now. For those who have graduated five years ago, they must recognize the five major challenges they are about to face.

1. Support parents.

2. Get married and have children.

3. Promotion and salary increase.

4. Work pressure.

5. Quality of life.

Some people are excited for survival, but their eyes always stay behind them. They spend three days fishing and two days drying the net, with no end in sight.

Some people strive for development, always staring ahead, making a little progress every day and persevering.

In the past few years after graduation, we cannot live without pursuit and exploration, and cannot live without ideals and goals. Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. A life that is content with the status quo is like a ship that is no longer moving forward, and can no longer keep up with the pace of the times. You must seize every second to study, and you must understand that learning is not the exclusive domain of students. What smart people are most proud of is: What have they done? What a man of great wisdom longs for most is: What else should he do?

Little cleverness is tactics, great wisdom is strategy; little cleverness sees sesame seeds, great wisdom sees watermelons.

In this world, there are both big people and small people. The big people live like big people, and the small people live like small people. Everyone has his own way of life, and no one can force anyone else. However, small cleverness can only achieve small achievements and small vision, while great wisdom can achieve great achievements and realms. Small companies look at their bosses, medium-sized companies look at their systems, and large companies look at their culture.

Both small companies and large enterprises have ways to survive. There is no good or bad distinction, but the impact on a person at different stages will be different.

Small companies definitely want to develop into large companies. This is a goal. Young people must also set goals for their careers. A few years after graduation, do you often suffer from stage fright or feel unsure? Being prepared for danger in times of peace is definitely not alarmist talk! If you take a nap now, you will dream; if you study now, you will realize your dream.

In the fiercely competitive battlefield of life, those who nap are losers!

Everyone seems to be full of pride and fearless when they are young, but as they grow older, they think about mundane things such as house, work, and raising a family every day. I have the courage to "go to the sky to explore for the stars, and go to the sea to find the moon." Do we change our lives, or does life change us? Our thoughts are becoming more and more complex, because we have more and more reluctance and concerns, and we are always wandering and hesitating. A year or two after graduation, the burden of life will weigh us down, and setbacks and obstacles will block the passage from all directions. We often can only break out of the siege and find a way out after we have exerted pressure to realize our potential. But after two or three years, the burden on us began to lighten and the work began to go smoothly. We relaxed and gradually forgot about the potential dangers. Until one day the crisis suddenly came, and we were defeated at a loss... In the past few years after graduation, we are still in a dangerous period. We must have the awareness of being prepared for danger in times of peace and work hard, so that we can have a truly safe life!

Born from sorrow, born from peace and happiness. If you want to surpass your current achievements, you must not limit yourself but be willing to accept challenges. The real danger for timid people is not taking risks!

Under the heavy pressure of society, young people have become increasingly adaptable, but they are unconsciously accustomed to being pushed by the environment. They dare not take risks for fear of bringing lifelong regrets to themselves, so they comfort themselves: "I am worthy of myself and my family, because I have tried my best." In fact, people can only grow gradually if they continue to challenge and make breakthroughs. If you stick to the existing sense of security for a long time, you will be like a frog in warm water and eventually lose the instinct to jump.

After experiencing social life in the past few years, you should understand: There are rich and poor, dark and bright, ugly and beautiful in this world. What you see depends on whether you are positive or negative. Learn to work diligently when you are young and treat life with a bright mind. Then, as long as you open your palm, you will find that there is a brilliant life inside.

Carve gratitude on the stone, deeply thank others for helping you, and remember it forever. This is the state that life should have; write hatred on the beach, and lightly forget that others have hurt you. Learn to be tolerant and let all resentment disappear forever with the tide. This is also a state of life.

Only by learning to pour out water can you hold more water. Starting from the day you graduate, learn to treat every day as a new starting point, and start every job from scratch. If you know how to regard "returning to zero" as a normal state of life, as a continuation of excellence, and as something to be done at all times, then in just a few years, you can complete the correct planning and development of your career. Comprehensive transcendence.

In the short journey of starting a career, if you want to achieve better, faster, and more beneficial growth, you must face the world with a zero-minded mindset. Don't flaunt yourself with your high self-esteem in college, don't think that you are particularly good, but put down your attitude, lower your body, let yourself settle, adapt to the environment and accept challenges with a learning attitude. Only by letting go of your "status" can you increase your worth. Temporary humiliation will eventually lead to future high achievements.

When young people enter a new environment from campus or from one environment, they must have the courage to put down the things they are familiar with, accustomed to, and like in the original environment, and then start from scratch. If we want to be successful in the workplace, we must first develop adaptability. Transforming from a natural person to an employee is a basic condition for integrating into the workplace. A person's low starting point is not scary, what is scary is his low realm. The more he cares about himself, the less development prospects he has; on the contrary, the more he takes the initiative to give, the faster he will develop. Many people who have achieved certain achievements today started from scratch in the early stages of their careers, settling themselves down again, emptying themselves out again, returning to zero again, and returning to zero again. Because of this, their lives have been singing and flying all the way. .

In the past few years after graduation, we have to reset the past so that we will not become the snail crawling with a heavy shell on its back in the workplace, but can fly as lightly as a bird in the sky. Please take a good look at what Jack Welch said: "Correct your behavior, recognize yourself, and start from scratch, and you will be on a smooth road to the workplace again." Only when you give up can you gain something, only when the cup is empty can it be filled with water, and only by letting go can you transcend.

Five major manifestations of zeroing thinking: no self in the heart, no money in the eyes, no other in the mind, no one in the court, and endless learning.

Young people inevitably have a bit of arrogance, thinking that they are omnipotent and invincible. In fact, this is not the case. Newcomers who have just entered the workplace are still "babies" and are in the stage of growth from crawling to walking. In the few years after graduation, you must gradually develop the apprentice mentality, sponge mentality, and empty cup mentality. People with this kind of thinking are always open-minded and can accept revelations and anything that can inspire at any time. They are always open to ideas. I can feel the call of the goddess of success.