I want to write a complete reading note about "Guiguzi". I found that the further I read, the harder it became to understand. Writing from the heart is even more difficult. Learning is like sailing against the current. If I don't advance, I will retreat. And I am like a koi. Although the road ahead is difficult, but if I work harder, the carp may be able to jump over the dragon's gate just around the corner. The art of speculation talks about "measuring power" and "diagnosing emotions". This article focuses on the methods and significance of the emotions of the master. Measuring power emphasizes the need to be good at measuring the power in the world. And guessing the feelings emphasizes the need to figure out the true situation of the princes. That is, choosing a favorable opportunity and observing and asking? Use testing and other methods to grasp the monarch's plans, intentions, etc.

? Mr. Guigu said that to understand the truth, one must choose a time when the host is in a happy mood. At this time, you must find a way to arouse the emotional resonance between him and you and reach the commanding heights of emotions. Try your best to guide him to reveal his desires. When he reveals his desires, his emotions are extremely high, and we can detect his friendship and true feelings. Or choose him to go when he is helpless, doubtful, and wary. During the conversation, try your best to guide him to express his fears and disgusts. At this time, his true feelings can be detected. True friendship must be an unnatural manifestation of extreme changes between each other.

? As the saying goes: "Seeing is believing, hearing is believing," and this is exactly what it means. Use your eyes to watch her interact with others, understand the whole story, and use your brain to think about whether this person's knowledge and actions are consistent. When encountering official matters, it depends on how to maintain one's self-control under the interests of others. This can best reveal a person's likes and dislikes and whether he can be a friend.

After all, in our lives, we will meet many kinds of people. Some people are down-to-earth and speak decisively, and we will be very comfortable getting along with them. Some people are good at intrigues. I'll treat you well on the surface, but I'll stab you in the back. These people hide themselves so deeply that they won't be able to tell for a while. If you have no reservations about his kindness, and he will not hesitate to hurt your friendship for his own benefit. Even doing the opposite, giving sincerity and hurting us is fatal. Then before making friends, you need to use guessing skills. When interacting with people, you must use your eyes to see, rather than choose to listen with your ears.

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When people are scared, they will speak true words. When encountering people and objects in unknown scenes, it is easiest to reveal their true feelings, whether they are scared or frightened. Natural

reactions. For example, one day, an injured sparrow flew into the class and landed on the shoulder of a child in blue. Other children went out curiously and ran over with their hands raised in excitement, trying to pet the little bird. Only the child in blue clothes was so frightened that he started crying. When I took the bird away, he stopped crying. When I asked him why he was crying, he said he was worried about the birds pecking him and that the birds would attack his new clothes. Pull daddy.

It can be seen that everyone will have different emotions when facing the unknown. We guide them to express their thoughts more, not only to understand the age characteristics of the child, but also to understand the child’s subconscious mind. A kind of research. After all, each child’s family has different living standards, and their experience and ability to accept unknown things are also not the same.

? The art of reading and guessing people's hearts, Mr. Guigu's wisdom is still very useful when applied to understanding people and real-life preschool education. The so-called preaching, imparting knowledge and solving doubts requires the use of various forms and methods of education in order to achieve good results. In order to achieve a better version of yourself, learn and be happy.