Recently, I was watching a hit TV series "Love is Full of Nine Roads". To be honest, I have some sympathy for the leading actor Yang Shumao. Let's talk about his love with Shi described by Bai. In fact, it is very unequal. Although Shi and Yang Shumao are congenial, it is difficult to be together.
Traditional marriage pays attention to the right family, the Yang family is an ordinary worker's family, and the historian is a rich family. In addition to the huge differences in class levels, the two families still have festivals. The third episode sets the stage for their love tragedy, and the Yang family is unfair to historians. In addition, when they were close, Shi was dissatisfied with the close relationship between Ye Fei and Yang Shumao, saying that she was her sister, and compared herself with Lin's sister. This detail shows that their love cannot last long, let alone get married.
The topic I want to discuss with you today is love. Can this relationship last if the two sides pay unequally?
People of the older generation often say that they are a good match. In marriage in modern society, whether you admit it or not, it is always easier to pursue the right love. Because unequal love can't go far, it also means that two people may communicate more easily ideologically.
A suitable family is the foundation of a happy marriage, but it is a stumbling block to love. If two people with similar family background, wealth, knowledge, ability and appearance are together, no matter how much you love each other and how you spend your life together, they will not be written in the book and celebrated as love, because most people in this world follow this principle. Our view of love is to go through hardships and never give up, because everyone thinks that true love does not exist. Then we followed suit, thinking that only two people with similar external factors such as family background, knowledge, ability and status can be happy together. We put away those unrealistic fantasies from the beginning and found someone to live a stable life. Of course, in the end, we don't forget to sigh, is true love like a ghost? Everyone has heard of it, but they have never seen it. These are external conditions for judging whether this standard is appropriate.