Reflect on yourself and adjust your mentality.
Being swayed by considerations of gain and loss will make you constantly pay for your boyfriend and do many things. I broke up because I was too clingy, but have you ever wondered if you did these things just by your own wishful thinking?
Understand each other's difficulties
Learn to think from each other's standpoint. You know, the other person, as a man, shoulders many responsibilities. For love, he should work hard, he should take good care of you and make you live a better life.
For yourself, we should base ourselves on the society and constantly learn and improve ourselves. He broke up because he was too clingy, and he needed time to finish these things. When he finds that he needs to spend a lot of time on you a day, he will feel a sense of burden. And you, in his heart, will become a burden.
Turn more attention back to yourself.
No matter what the girl is in, don't ignore herself. Because it's too clingy to break up, don't pester him again, don't contact each other for the time being, get busy! Do some interesting things, travel, reading, movies, music ... find yourself, improve yourself and make yourself more attractive.
The other person needs space. Actually, you need space yourself. Don't let love be your whole life. The more time you spend together, the more likely you are to have conflicts. At this time, you should learn to take your attention away from him and do something beneficial to yourself.
How long has it been since you got together with your good friends? How long has it been since you went shopping Do you still like what you used to like to do? Regain your interest, find the similarities between you, and arrange your own life.
Everyone should have their own personal space, give each other free space, let both sides have a certain sense of distance and cultivate the same hobbies, so as to make progress and grow together and have the same topic that belongs to you.