Second, independent self-awareness is the result of personal perception and education of others.
1, babies over 7 months old can recognize themselves in the mirror.
2. Children's self-awareness is gradually enhanced with their life experiences such as toys.
3. In modern China, teenagers' sense of independence is poor, and "NEET" appears.
Parents have an important responsibility to cultivate their children's independent self-awareness. Please look at a real case:
When Li Mei, a reporter from People's Daily, visited Canada, she was accompanied by a senior Canadian journalist named Raymond. In Montreal, Raymond visited his youngest son who went to college there. Li Mei accompanied Raymond to Zhi Ding's residence with great interest. There is a bed, a table and some chairs in the room, and the rest are a pile of books. There are only a few pieces of dry bread and oranges in the kitchen. In a word, I don't have enough money. I hope dad will give me more. Raymond said, "If you want money, you can do it as usual. First, the average score of the semester exam is over 85, and the reward is 1000 Canadian dollars. Only 80 points are rewarded with 500 Canadian dollars. Second, for the income from after-school work, you earn 1 1,000 Canadian dollars, and I reward you with 1 1,000 Canadian dollars. You can earn 1 1,000 Canadian dollars, and I also reward 1 1,000 Canadian dollars. "
Afterwards, Li Mei asked Raymond what he was doing. Raymond said, "The main purpose is to motivate him to make progress and have the spirit of self-reliance and self-improvement. In any place, labor is sacred. "
Li Mei invited Raymond and his son to dinner and wolfed them down. When they parted, Li Mei saw tears in the eyes of both father and son. On the bus, Raymond said, "I like my little son very much. But in the west, 18-year-old children are adults and should have the spirit of self-reliance. What I just said to him is to stimulate him to understand that there is no such thing as a free lunch, which is a famous western saying.
On the contrary, some college students in our country, not to mention working in their spare time, are too lazy to write home letters, forming such a model of home letters: "Mom and Dad: OK? Money! Son "