The principle of making friends mentioned by Confucius in the Analects of Confucius is: the winner has three friends and the loser has three friends. Friends are straightforward, friends forgive, and friends listen more, which is beneficial; Be flexible, be friendly, be soft and be friendly. This is a loss.

First, friends who are helpful to us have three characteristics:

1, Youzhi. Friends who can tell us the truth. No matter our strengths or weaknesses, whether we are right or wrong, he can call a spade a spade and give sincere advice and sincere wishes. This is a true friend.

2. Forgive me. A generous and tolerant person. Appreciate your strengths and tolerate your weaknesses, so as to make friends.

3. Friends hear more. A knowledgeable friend. Remember, knowledge is not learned, you can speak and do, and only when you learn can you have real moral cultivation. "Listening too much" is not a so-called "well-informed person" who likes gossip.