Lurking under every vitality,

Extending behind every beautiful scene,

The laws of nature inspire us to move forward.

Understand the philosophy of life.

Experienced carpenters will pay attention to leaving gaps in their work.

Because with the change of cold, hot, dry and wet,

material

The shape of the material will also change slightly,

A small gap can accommodate this change,

So as to form a complete knot

The structure remains unchanged.

Master Gao Ming's genius lies in his ability to leave a gap just right.

By the same token,

When laying the railway,

There is also a small gap between the track sections,

They drive in winter and summer.

Our trains provide security.

Because of this gap,

The rail will not be squeezed and shrunk because of the temperature rise and fall.

Deformation.

Pay attention to the density of work,

Work and study also require Zhang Chi to be moderate.

There is a kind of people who always put their days

Cheng is busy with heavy work and study.

Leave no gaps,

Forget to eat and sleep all day,

Snacks and eating,

Do not know how to adjust and rest; There is another kind of person who pays attention to work or study as well as rest and relaxation every day.

A certain degree of rest and relaxation ensures the efficiency of work and study.

Be energetic and clear-headed when working or studying.

Its knot

If the first group of people can achieve something in the short term,

But it won't last long;

The latter person can hold on.

Always keep in good shape, so that you can often achieve greater success. The ancients said:

"Relax, Wu Wen.

The way.

"

In fact, many people don't understand this truth.

Including many great scientists,

Writer,

Artist.

They were brilliant but died young,

Poor health has limited their career development.

It can be seen that although the gap is small,

do you know

It's not easy, it's even harder.

Treating people is not perfect.

First, leave a gap for yourself.

We don't have to force ourselves.

To establish friendly relations with everyone, after all, "different roads lead to no common goal." As long as you can smile at others, and

Do good things and stay true to yourself. At the same time, we should also leave room for others, and don't ask too much of our friends.

We should tolerate the shortcomings of others with a tolerant heart.

"If the water is clear, there will be no fish, and if people look at it, there will be no disciples."

The person who leaves a gap in life must be a wise and open-minded person, an easy-going and tolerant kind person.

Perfection is our pursuit,

The gap is also necessary for us.

So,

Our life will be

Beauty, our success is no longer out of reach.

Remember, the germination of successful seeds needs a gap.

Being a man should also "leave some gaps"

Woodworking pays attention to density, and cats are suitable. It is easy to disperse if it is sparse. Nowadays, many people decorate their homes.

When repairing a house, the wooden floor often cracks or squeezes and arches, which is also the reason for being too "happy". high

Ming's decorator knows how to leave the gap just right.

Leave enough matching space for the combined materials,

Do it.

Avoid such problems.

In fact, being a man and dealing with the world, just like the principle of carpentry, pay attention to "leaving a gap." If something happens,

How can the relationship between people be possible when we haggle over every ounce, put interests first, give way to each other and pursue "happiness" in everything?

Don't squeeze your ideal out of shape?

Leave a gap, give yourself, give others, and leave us a consistent interpersonal space.

Between people,

If it's not close enough,

Is a ray,

The road ahead is long.

Very long. Once close, turned into a line segment, that friendship is about to enter the countdown.

Napoleon just:

"Without eternal friends,

There are no eternal enemies.

"

The reason why friends can't last forever,

It is because we can't help but do all the good things, leaving no room for friendship to grow.

Two people are like two tracks,

Parallel can go far.

True happiness cannot be shared,

genuine

The pain cannot be shared.

Share happiness with unfortunate people,

It only makes his heart more desolate.

Spiritual harmony

Emotional things can't be replaced, just as two rails can't intersect.

Open your heart completely,

Easy to catch a cold.

Show the wicked the secrets of your heart,

Will be one of his men.

Handle; Showing it to a good man will become his mental burden, because he has to keep his mouth shut for your enlightenment.

Therefore, a mature person will not ask for trouble or embarrass others.

Traveling abroad,

We took pictures at a scenic spot,

Always use the house number as the background,

And do everything possible to highlight its characteristics.

Point.

This is to close the distance,

Show our connection with that scenic spot.

If this scenic spot is in self.

At home,

Instead, we ignored the plaque,

Ignore the salient features.

This is to distance ourselves,

Too familiar, need to change the aesthetic angle.

Photography is like this, and so is interpersonal communication.

Keep a proper distance between people,

Leave some space for each other's hearts,

This may be a balanced person.

Important rules of international relations.

My friend told me an interesting story. This story tells the story of a lady who divorced soon after she got married.

The reason for divorce sounds like a fantasy. In her husband's words:

"You are so kind to us that we all feel it.

I can't take it anymore. "It turns out that this lady likes to care about others very much, even to the point of fanaticism. every day

In addition to normal work, all housework, including buying food, cooking, washing clothes, sweeping the floor, etc. , completed by

She arranged it herself, and no one else could interfere, making her husband, father-in-law and mother-in-law feel like living in someone else's house.

Sample. She did almost all the good things. Over time, the whole family had enough and finally offered to let her leave.

Start this family. Because they all feel psychologically unbalanced.

Maybe you will have such a question:

Why don't you sit down and enjoy yourself? In fact,

For a person who has the ability to work,

reasonable

For a healthy person,

Independence,

Giving is an internal need.

If you can't satisfy each other in interpersonal relationships,

Need, then this relationship is more difficult to maintain.

A common mistake that newcomers make is

"Do all the good things at once"

Think you are wholeheartedly.

Doing things for each other will make the relationship harmonious.

Close.

Actually, it's not.

Because people can't just accept others.

Pay, or you will feel unbalanced psychologically. China people pay attention to return, "the grace of dripping water, the reward of gushing water",

This is also a way to balance the relationship.

If good things are done right away,

It makes people feel unable to repay or have nothing.

When there is a chance to repay, guilt will make the beneficiary choose to alienate.

As we all know, interpersonal communication should be reserved.

But,

How to do it and the psychology involved.

Not everyone knows the truth.

Leave room,

Good things should not be done at once,

This may be the importance of balancing interpersonal relationships.

Want guidelines.

In rural areas,

The villagers always treat those who have helped them with good wine and meat.

Good wine and good meat is him.

Only by taking away the best things that children can produce can they repay the help of others. Only in this way,

The next time they ask for help, they will feel that they don't owe others.

I won't feel guilty.

If other people

Don't accept their hospitality,

Then the villagers may never ask him for help again.

This is a simple heart,

and

It's really the right way to communicate.

So,

If you want to help others,

And want to maintain a long-term relationship with others.

Department,

Then you might as well give others a chance appropriately.

Let others return something,

It's not because of internal pressure

And alienated the relationship between the two sides.

Leave a gap,

Keep a proper distance,

Is the oxygen that the brain needs,

Because we both need one in our hearts.

Point space. And "over-investment", without giving each other a chance to breathe, will suffocate each other's hearts. leave

We both have room to breathe freely.

Reserved by carpenters

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expansion joint

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think of

The daughter brought a material composition from the teacher: Great-grandfather was a good carpenter, and he had a mantra:

"pay attention, leave a gap." Woodworking pays attention to density, adhesion and fitness. Thin is thin, otherwise it will be easy to disperse.

Fall down. Nowadays, many people decorate houses, and the wooden floor often cracks or squeezes the arch. This is

Because it's too plump.

A clever interior designer knows how to leave just the right space.

Feed composite material

Leaving enough matching space can avoid this problem. Need self-determination, self-selection style and self-drafting

Title,

Write a composition.

How to make up your mind is the key to writing this composition well.

My daughter's topic is

Full moon and lack of moon

Although the rhetoric is gorgeous and the classics are quoted, the score given by the teacher is not high; Another student wrote, "Keep one for yourself."

Point back "as the topic, straightforward, the language is neither gorgeous nor vivid, but the teacher gave high marks. Compare these two.

A composition,

I think the score given by the teacher is reasonable:

That classmate hit the nail on the head.

Advise my daughter if she comes back.

Can you use "leave some room for others" when you encounter this kind of composition problem?

"Life needs to leave some room" and so on.

The title of the class.

In fact, in our life,

There are countless examples of this.

Even fairy tales have seen similar stories.

One day, the wolf found a hole at the foot of the mountain, through which all kinds of animals passed. The wolf is very happy. It wants to keep it.

Living in caves can catch all kinds of prey. So it blocked the other end of the hole and waited for the animal to die.

One day, a sheep came, the wolf caught up with it, and the sheep ran away desperately. Suddenly, the sheep found a little sheep that could escape.

Deviate from the hole and escape from the small hole. The wolf plugged the small hole angrily, thinking that he would never fail again.

Okay？ The next day, a rabbit came and the wolf chased it hard. As a result, the rabbit is smaller from one side of the hole.

The hole of escape.

So,

The wolf blocked all holes of similar size,

Thought,

It's simple,

Don't say sheep,

Rabbits, even small animals such as chickens and ducks, can't run away. On the third day, a squirrel came and a wolf flew by.

Let's go, chasing squirrels jumping up and down. Finally, the squirrel escaped from a passage at the top of the cave. The wolf was very angry, so,

It blocked all the holes in the cave,

Blocked the whole cave.

Wolves are very strict with themselves.

Meaning. The fourth day, a tiger came. The wolf was frightened and ran away. The tiger is in hot pursuit and the wolf is in the cave.

Running around, because there was no exit, I couldn't escape, and finally I was eaten by a tiger. For this story, people from all walks of life

Opinions vary. Philosophers say: absoluteness means fallacy; Religious scholars say: blocking others' lives means destruction.

Their own retreat; Environmentalists say: those who destroy the original ecology and its balance will reap the consequences; Economists say: Forward.

There should be room for calculation and planning; The strategist said: Unless you are the king of beasts, you can't own the whole forest.

Lin; Jurists say: every rule has exceptions, and evil laws are illegal; The farmer said: if you don't leave seeds, you will be extinct. all

Although their stories are not exactly the same,

But they all illustrate the fact that,

That is, "extremes meet."

if

The wolf will not be extinct by its weak animals,

If it doesn't want to get something for nothing, just wait for its prey to come to its door automatically.

In this case,

It won't block all the holes in the cave,

Finally, I am better than it in the cave myself.

The big tiger ate it.

Wolves just want to catch all kinds of delicious food,

It has only the weak in its heart.

Animals,

But I never thought that an animal stronger than it would drive it into the hole.

If it wasn't so ambitious,

Be kind,

Be generous,

Then it will not be eaten in its carefully decorated cave.

As the saying goes, "do"

Let's stay on the line and meet tomorrow. "Even animals should be like this, let alone people?

Most of the time,

We need to leave some space for others,

Just like a safe distance between two cars-stop.

With a little buffer, you can adjust yourself at any time and advance and retreat. The living space must be reduced by cleaning.

Put aside, after thinking and enlightenment, the space of the soul will expand. The deck of cards in our hands when we played bridge.

Whether it is good or bad, we must fight to the end. Life is the same, the important thing is not what to give, but

Our method and attitude towards it: "If we turn to face the sun, we can't be trapped in the shadow.

When we send flowers to others,

We smell the flowers first,

When we grab the dirt and want to throw it away.

When people are around, the first thing that gets dirty is their own hands. A warm word is like sprinkling perfume on others.

I can make two or three drops myself. Therefore, we should always have good thoughts, walk well and do good deeds. "

Life cannot always be sunny,

Light shows us a lot of things,

But some things are in the sun.

Is invisible,

If there is no night,

We can't see the shining stars.

Even though it once made us

Unbearable pain and suffering,

It won't be completely worthless.

It can strengthen our will,

think

Thinking and personality are more mature. Therefore, when difficulties and setbacks come, we should face them calmly and respond optimistically.

When getting along with others, don't rub right and wrong between people and me. Some words are not heavy, but a little careless,

It will weigh heavily on other people's hearts,

At the same time,

We should also train ourselves,

Don't be easily stung by other people's words.

The philosophical saying goes well:

"You can't decide the length of life,

But you can expand its width;

You don't know.

The natural appearance can be changed,

But you can always smile;

You can't expect to control others,

But you can be a good person.

Good control of yourself;

You can't fully predict tomorrow,

But you can make full use of today;

You can't expect everything to be smooth sailing.

But you can do anything wholeheartedly, Li. "Therefore, in life, we must be open-minded because we are clear.

Da himself will not walk into a dead end,

Only in this way can we be optimistic and enterprising.

Make yourself happy,

Because of happiness

You may bring happiness to others and make the atmosphere in your life more pleasant.

As the saying goes:

You don't have to tell everything you know,

Leave three points to others,

Save some virtue and yourself;

Don't be hard on others,

Leave three points for others and some tolerance for yourself; Don't be arrogant, leave room for others, and leave some humility.

Self, don't be sharp-edged, leave three points for others and leave some wide ways for yourself; Don't rely on it, leave more than three points.

Land and people, leave some back roads and yourself; Don't lean on the situation, leave three points for others, and leave some kindness and self; rich and powerful

Don't have to enjoy it all, leave three points for others and leave some blessings for yourself; Don't do everything, leave three points for others,

Save some virtue and yourself. In a sense, forgiving others is also forgiving yourself, leaving some space for others, you

I will get a blue sky.

Leave three points for others,

Is to give yourself seven points!

When you put others

When you are cornered,

You're pushing yourself into a corner.

Leave three points for others when dealing with others,

survive

In a few minutes, if you are good at tasting and thinking, you will feel the taste and be indifferent for a long time.

The more tolerant, understanding and kind everyone is, the more cherished and beautiful human beings will be.

The ups and downs in life will also turn into colorful music.

Touch the vein of loess,

I feel the whole of China.

Honesty; When you set foot on one side of space, you will feel the tolerance of all China people. Life should be as thick as loess, like.

The space that has gone through a lot of hardships and not withered will always be brilliant and not surprised. That is the realm of getting started.