1. Don’t live like a distressed person and rush to tell everyone about your misfortune. One day you will find that you have to taste the ups and downs by yourself, and you have to live the long life by yourself. What you have experienced is just a story in the eyes of others. Don't tell others everything from your heart. Growing up is inherently an isolated process. In the process, you have to work hard to become stronger and then take charge of yourself.

2. If you get something but feel that it is nothing more than that, then this desire is actually your desire. If you still can’t put it down after getting something, this is what you really want.

3. If you take a person too seriously, the other person will easily not take you seriously. When you never have the heart to say no, the other person will start to snub you. Gradually, we learn to say "no." Rejection is not out of stinginess, but to prove that we can also have the ability to let go. ——Su Qin

4. Kindness and love are free, but not cheap. Your kindness needs to be a little sharp, and your love needs to be a little sensible. Recognize people with eyes, after all, not everyone is worthy of them.

5. The reason why a great man is great is that when he and others are in adversity, others lose confidence, but he is determined to achieve his goals.

6. Everyone will have a very difficult time. No one cares how you cry in the middle of the night. No matter how others feel the same, it will not help. No matter how hard, tired, painful or unbearable it is, you can only get through it alone.

7. One day you will understand that people cannot be too kind, because people can only pick on the weak. If you are generous and tolerant in everything, others will not appreciate you. Sometimes you should be a little more appropriate. Temperament, you really can't be too gentle and patient with some people. Being too kind will lose your own value and dignity.

8. Stay away from the low-level circles around you. Your efforts to be gregarious are not pretty. If the circles are different, why force integration? The circle determines life. The kind of people you approach will determine the path you will take. As the saying goes, birds of a feather flock together, poker friends will only urge you to play cards; drinking friends will only urge you to drink; but reliable people will teach you how to make progress. 9. Some pressures always have to be dealt with by oneself, and speaking out becomes a complaint full of negative energy. And when you go through difficulties and obstacles alone, you will definitely be grateful to yourself for holding on without saying a word.

10. An enemy becomes a friend and is more reliable than a friend; a friend becomes an enemy and is more dangerous than an enemy. It’s good to know some things and there’s no need to say more. Some people are just as easy to get to know each other as there is no need to be intimate with them.