This is Sanmao's own understanding of love and lover, which means that love is only a part of our life, occupying only one room, and there is more content in our life.
San Mao's seemingly free and easy words and deeds, in fact, she still doesn't just live for herself. People die, celebrities do, not to mention us.
We all try to underestimate the gains and losses of love. However, we all have to go through struggle and transformation before we can let go. This is a necessity and a maturity.
I wish couples love.